Yes, I am a Premium user. What you call VIP. My Free user option isn't blocked because what I've said above. I have a good friend who is a Free User plus, some others are not always Premium. So if I use that option, how can they get in touch and vice versa ? But now, I'm getting confused Premium members are what we have now. Is VIP what you would call this new option ? Buy Premium first and then have the opportunity to buy this new option later and then therefore be called VIP. Yep, just read BB's post. hehehe. Hardly VIP though is it. VIP, in my opinion, is what Lover has said earlier. I would call this option the F.U. Option. And have this option shown on your Avi screen somewhere too. So the Free Users actually know that you have bought it. Maybe it could be on the search filters too.
My way to combat this is easy. I dont talk then, and if someone ask me for a gift for room, i say NOT. Easy... If person insist, i just put in ignore. I am a little radikal, i know... but after some years here, is the only efective mode i find.
Like you all are saying its very easy say No and ignore ! just as man are stalking you for sex No! No no has a lot of power