Yes, It is useful especially with your rather active phase 3 partners. LOL
I have played in both phase 3 - main lover or spouse with rules and phase 4 - exclusive.
The important thing with these phases is recognising which phase you are in and which phase your current partner(s) is in.
If in opposite phases, the relationship will in the end most likely flounder and on occasions drama will ensue... unless of course, you are able to find a happy compromise. Most cant though unhappily.
If you are in harmony with the phases, your relationship will no doubt flourish.
Enjoy whatever phase you are in.
100% Right Brandy !
My oppinion is with ALL if you see it as GAME, or you involve REAL FEELINGS you always needs CLEAR RULES and of corse HONESTY. !!!
If you find a partner its importand that both part are open and honest.
Make clear what your wish is what YOU expect from GAME- OR CHAT
In the start you are pretty anonym
So SAY what you looking for.
Most "playing" and all over sudden there is a "secret" special one, who had no idea of what goes on.
This causes Drama and if not Drama for sure Ppl will get hurt.
Hurt in feelings and hurt cuz some was "playing " unfair.
After all beeing so COOL and WE ALL ARE ADULTS IN A SEX EROTIC GAME ...fuck...we still Humans
And it feels good if someone tells you :"Baby you are my everything and so on
DONT IT ?
YES it does. But keep it in the back----it is a online game.
If EVER the real goosbomb effect , Butterflys in stomache and fever in night come up and hit you .
Its time to talk clear text. For the good of both.
I am playing since April 16 in here and been through a few Phases.
Some left a bitter taste, yes. But that happend if Rules wasnt made clear out .
Than every Player take the way what suit him/her. After the wrong move was done, the game is ruined cuz the other party dont like to play no more.
Best tip:
If you realy not ready to fall in LOVE.......cuz real live has you taken......than dont play that way.
Stay out of personel contact-dont share details-just be a Avatr and fuck and have fun.
If you get to KNOW a other Human, make sure you are aware of the thoughts and the way they like to play the game.
And yes.....noone is ever save from getting hit by some weird feelings. That WOW effect can hit you so bad you dont saw it coming.
BUT....stay HONEST.....PLAY FAIR.....
Than you can have roleplay and go through diffrent stories without leaving ashes behind and ppl will stay friends.
Never make promises you cant/wont keep. That is a killer......
Dont tell to many ppl the same time OH BABY YOU MY ONLY ONE
.......lies always come out
It takes a mature mind and rules to play in here without hurting or getting hurt in feelihngs.
Its possible sure.
Best way.................a open word and straigh moves.
Never do to other what you dont like to have done to you.
And make sure your partner know what you expect from the game.
If been through some stages in here
and believe me it isnt always a light move to stay out of trouble
Woody made the most common phases clear. But every one has its little bit adjustment . So when you start playing make clear BOTH party know the rules and the prospect of the other one.
Than it shoudl have no missunderstanding .
I am not exclusiv but I am priority to some. so when he comes online and want to see me and i am in room ( winter/summer/privat( he send the 10A$ gift. I see the call and be in a few eyeblink in the lobby to say hello
Other way the same.
As Brandy showd the ways Ppl can stay in contact..If you realy wont some and care for YOU WILL FIND A WAY
HAVE FUN -. HAVE A GREAT TIME - MAKE A LOTS OF GOOD FRIEND - AND ALWAYS LEAVE THE GAME WITH A SMILE ON YOUR FACE !
THATS THE BEST WAY