Ardeur... seems like we'd have a hard time being bad slaves.
A lazy morning yesterday, and I reflected on a comment made to me by a partner while engaged in some heavy bdsm play. Being new to AChat she wondered why more bdsm poses weren't provided. Obviously it is because such bondage play like ours isn't for everyone. My thoughts though did drift to more vanilla forms of play, kinky aspects that even the mainstream might enjoy. The obvious choice to me was the use of a spreader bar.The hard part in this consideration was trying to figure some options for the woman. Restraint severely reduces her options, making her options more reactionary, then I flashed on the obvious solution to give her some variety in play, make it a static position to begin with. The giver standing behind the receiver, no action just motionless. For "poser" action is but a click away, for the descriptive crowd (and if you are bdsm oriented here, descriptive is mandatory) we are given that chance to weave our words without the troublesome distraction of already "fucking away".I user a generic form for this, a "giver" could be M/S/F (with strapon). Be interested if the females could see this useful without the strap-on...spreader...my thoughts here really have not extended to a shemale/male bond such... I will leave that for comments of others to share:Bdsm is not solely focused on rough physical play... for the majority it is about mixing the extremes of the sensations of pleasure and pain. Likewise the use of spanking as presented here, to allow the sensual play...Standing intro.GIVER:1) spank (a single smack...NOT repeating... keep it to a single strike..this is not about continued striking.. ideally right hand, left hand options to corresponding butt cheek)2) repeated spank... let it be an option not the default3) Massage receivers ass3) kneeling oral play...4) finger vagina5) finger ass6)vaginal sex7) anal sex8. quick thrust9) Hard thrust10) Anal poke... a jabbing action11) (your thoughts here?... *grins*)HER:1)Ass rub.. to shift back and rub against the givers penis2)wiggle bottom looking back teasing...3)shake head no4) partial entry press a slow shift back to take the givers penis cock partially.. then pulling off... it is a single action an anal option would also be interesting.. in this matter, the giver would be holding the penis 5)rocking fuck6)rolling hip fuck7) enjoy (arching back)8. enjoy (open mouth head shake)9) not enjoy (eyes clench in grimace)10) hands clenching spreader.The obvious as the image above is set... the position is easily adaptable to a 3some play...with another giver standing at her head for oral pleasure.The pose in general for a threesome would without restraints could be modified for 3some play, providing an option for those not into such intense action..