Venting… Does anyone talk anymore?

Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds.  I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here.  I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it.  Its patients babes, patients.

I agree with the above posters. Putting in some effort you'll find quite a few nice people. Treating them the same way you want to be treated or even better to make a good first impression. I thrive on making others feel special, if only for a few minutes/hours.

Yea, I'm an addict…

Max honey… it's not just guys… one of my favorite AChat stories is my first ignore.

A guy hailed me and I started talking (as long as I'm not busy I tend to, unless I'm logging on just to check messages) and when he started showing he wanted to go to a room I tried to explain I wasn't interested. When I tried to explain to him I was gay and didn't room with men he started insisting I fuck him with my toys.

He managed to get in this long, and frankly sort of upsettingly angry message to me while I figure out how that “ignore” thing worked.

If I let guys like him determine my feelings towards AChat I would have never been able to have Lover as a friend or Sinnnn as a lover (deliberate play on words there  ).

For whatever my word is worth, it's worth it to find the diamonds.

Well I think the format could be improved.  Better chat features, common chat rooms that feature common interests would make it easier to find people to socialize with.  For example I've met a few people who are ONLY into 3somes.  Why not make a 3some room, then people interested in that activity will be in there.  Same goes for same sex rooms, opposite sex rooms, etc.  The idea is so simple why can't it be executed.  Ateam are you working on this?  That would make the game a LOT more enjoyable than just a few new poses.

I have to say I agree with most people here: finding anything “meaningful” (in quotes cause my definition of meaningful may not match yours, screw Webster's dictionary  ) takes time and effort.

I noticed in your post  you say you are an “off again, on again” user…..I have found that logging a few hours a day, even with no results, makes finding a person you can talk to hours on end and not get bored/tired all the more sweet and savory.

I will admit, I have had several days where I'm on for 3+ hours with no conversations or invites….and there are other days where I have a 4 hour conversation within 15 min of logging on.

Hang in there man. I wish I could give you the “end all, be all” “quick fix”, but I can't. Just try to have fun.

  Man, this is an old post.  2010.  And I have just read it.     Things haven't changed have they ?  Actually might have got worse.   :'(

  Sarcasm in the Poker room directed not only at me but other beautiful people who play at being Shemales.  (And other Genders for that matter) I'm Not going to go into details, it's not worth it. I just try to ignore it and carry on playing, or leave and log out.  It's just people trying to be funny and failing massively.  Sod it, I'm going to mention one comment.  Laugh if you like. I'm not fully quoting, this happened a few days ago so I can't remember exactly what they said.

  Is there any proper Gender People in here.

  It was something like that anyway.  I LOVE playing as a Shemale.  I don't regret AT ALL choosing to be one when I first started here.  I love how I look and love changing my outfits, and Love the people I play with who are Totally open minded and Amazing to be with.  So, people who can't handle or have got something against Shemales.  Two Words come to mind………UP YOURS!!

  As for people who just Message “hi” I say “Hi” back and see what happens. Nothing Usually.  Or, they think I'm a Female.  People who don't read my details eh  : :.  That's another Story.  Or when I Tell them I'm a Guy in RL.  I get no response back. And these “Hi's” are From Hetero Males who know I'm a Shemale.     Hehehe.

  God, When I start “Venting” I can't seem to stop can I ?     Good Topic this.  Nice one Lover for posting here or else I wouldn't have seen it.  Oh and I hope your Connection Speeds Go through the Roof.  (That's Good BTW). I'm getting 43.32 Mbps.  (I ran a few tests and picked the fastest) 

  So, there are Diamonds out there.  I have found a few.  They know who they are.  Well I hope they do   :  And THEY are the reason why I am renewing my subscription today.   :-* :-* :-*

  Yes,  You hide your identity BUT, it doesn't mean that people can be nasty/sarcastic to you does it ?

  There has to be some sort of etiquette. I can't see how some people actually get any action here when they act as they do.  It might turn some people on been called a Slut, Bitch or Whore. Not ME. (Not Anymore,  I've Changed.  And I have been called a Snob).  There are days that I don't get any action because of this.  But hey, that's my decision to room or not.  The last few days have been a trial really.

  Re-branding from Porn to Adult Entertainment is a good idea.  We all know what Adult Entertainment is. So, yeah, Why not change it.  But I suppose it's like re-branding Comics to Graphic Novels.