That title makes sense if you've seen the Toyota Venza commercial with the young girl on facebook. Here is my problem. When I first started here, days and days ago (been about a month, I think), I had no idea what I was doing. There are no directions to this game that make any sense. (Hmmm, there's and idea) So i just started going through the search process, plugging in positions I liked and sending out friends and lovers requests like they were going out of style. And better than half came back accepted. I thought if these folks were listed as my friends or lovers, they'd HAVE to get around to me, eventually. I now have about 20-30 of each category of people I have never even spoken to, much less had sex with, and of that 40 or so, there is rarely more than 2 or 3 online in the eves when I am usually here.
Now I know, chat first, don't start a relationship unless you are serious about it with that person, but what do I do with all these ones I have now? I can't just dump 'em and say hey, starting over! I thought about messaaging each one, but I have several who don't speak english! I want to get these lists down to people I actually have contact with, but how? Help, please!