How and where I can report abuse?

When he is talking to you in game you can use “Report misuse” button. There is a little white exclamation mark in the chat window – click it.

You also can use the support-button here in the top line of the homepgae and contact the A-Team.

If you have warned him and he is still making a nuisance of himself,  you can also perhaps put a brief message in your descriptions to inform your friends of his hostility….

If you wish for a moderator to act as mediator / independent referee, then please by all means PM one of us. We will not however take sides, it would only be to try and ensure, this kind of behaviour of continued abuse, bullying & harassment stops.

Our goal, purely to encourage respect to each other  and that sometimes it has to be accepted that the only course of action is to agree to ignore each other  for a happy medium.

Of course any kind of abuse should still be reported as described by Lover above.

Hope this helps.

I think she means “ignored”

Tango…. hm… I did add a post about one special man few weeks ago – at this time it was the only way to stop him. To create a list with names is a dangerous thing – I don't like to denounce unguilty people.
If we speak to them before and they go on with this behave it could be ok – but though I understand Brandys idea, I'm not sure if we also should “work” as a mediator.
We are mods in forum, not in game. If somebody asks me in game about the game or the forum – ok. But being a mediator is very different.

yes I agree with you Lover may be a list is not that good an idea having read yours and HB's posts

I just don't like lady's being abused against there will

Good idea Concerto. If I find the time I will start a thread, collecting all ideas to improve the game we have.

Thats a great idea Concerto.  Those extra options would be very useful.

Sorry, Lover, perhaps Mediator was the wrong term to use. I meant for an independent person, one of us,  to ask / try to get  the offending behaviour to cease and get a result either one way or another –  that is they agree to disagree and move on either as friends or not, or they ignore each other.  Not to get involved in their dispute.

Whatever is decided the bullying / stalking / harassing behaviour stops .  It's just  not acceptable for it to continue and should be proactively discouraged.

However, this should not replace reporting the behaviour to Achats Support in case the account holder is a regular offender to others.

Tango, it's always difficult to list and name & shame  people we believe to be offenders. It's presuming their guilt and taking sides, when we may have only one person's version of events and even if we have both, then we are acting as judge and jury.  It may after all be a clash of personalities  and ignoring each other would suffice. 

Asking them to cease , possibly, which could be an option, and also  reporting  the abuse to the Achat Gods seems a much fairer option. They are in a much better position to investigate the abuse and determine whether to end that account holders membership or fire off a warning to the person concerned.

However, it is really lovely that we all support each other in the way that we do. I am very proud & pleased to be part of the friendly, sensible, wise and talented people on here.