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This is a good question.
I ask myself the same question.Perhaps because she is not interested and she don't want to pass any time to answer.
Perhaps because she has lot of friend and she has no time to answer.
Perhaps because she is impolite.or perhaps I don't understand women
I dont quite understand why women refuse to reply on this game. I know they aren't afk because 2 mins later there yellow. Or i just seen them get on. Im tired of hearing “oh we have tomany people in chat” If you cant take 2 secounds to reply with a “hi busy” Hi not interested” “hi your to young” or whatever then you need to learn to multi task. It isnt hard ive had my page filled up with chat but i still take the time to reply to people im not interested in letting them know. It really irks me sometimes. /end rant lol feel better now
I don't know how others handles it but yes… sometimes I wont bother replying if the person seems boring or uninteresting. There are also some times when I am in fact too caught up chatting to take notice of each and everyone greeting me.
Btw, are there many girls that are actually telling you that you're too young for them? I hope you wont get upset by me saying this… but I don't think you're too young. :
Hello Fantastical
You might be right to a certain degree but you always have to consider the other side, first of all it can really happen that we are away from our keyboard or getting flooded with messages, i consider myself pretty experienced in multitasking but if i get about 10 people spamming me with messages it can be a litte much and on sidenote, they way of approaching has an impact as well. If some people are spamming me with messages or having a rude choice of words i do tend to ignore them as well because it annoys me.
About the age question, from my general experiences here i can tell that older persons are usually a little more polite but there are always exceptions of course. If you are as mature and polite as i expect you to be you will find someone eventually
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People can just have a bad day as well! as adera and a123lolo pointed out, there are so many facts than can come into play…. dont let yourself be discouraged that easily and keep trying! :-*kisses
Hiya,
From a personal point of view I do and try and answer most who message me, however sometimes I am AFK or on Forum, sometimes I am answering someones question and by the time I have returned to the message, that person has logged off or roomed or already put me on ignore..
Sometimes I am in conversation and actually lose their message in my chat thinking its the person I am talking too or miss it completely.
Sometimes , as a role player, I am deep in descriptive play and like a phone suddenly ringing, I am too busy to answer and am not willing to ruin the moment
There's several reasons why I may not answer, so please do not jump to the conclusion that I am ignoring you, there's usually a perfectly good reason 😮
If I can answer, I do. If I cant I dont.. Please do not take it personal … I dont… I just presume the person I have messaged is busy
Some will of course feel as if they aren't getting any time to breath if people starts to flood them as soon as they log on, sometimes I've felt as if I'm getting camped on AChat by someone and that's a bit disturbing.
Most often however I tend to look up the first people that approach me to see who they might be… if not only out of curiosity.
I don't think you should greet people multiple times, that will most likely be taken the wrong way, I think the best idea is to simply forget those that doesn't answer for a while.
The thread could probably be called “Why does anyone refuse to reply?” or, perhaps more appropriately, as “refuse” is such a strong word, “Why do people not reply?”. Perhaps, even, as Covems alluded to, it is more what you are saying to invoke a response that is wrong.
Anyway, with me, it is certainly more what you say that will determine whether you get a response or not than anything else.
Having said that, there are problems with the use of the dialogue box anyway. If I am talking to aaaa and bbbb pops up on the screen, I have to go to a drop-down list, scroll down it possibly, select bbbb type in the response and then do the same process again just to resume talking to aaaa (and the number of times that I have failed to do that and sent a message intended for aaaa to bbbb instead is countless). It would be nice if we could just left-click on the name in the log box itself to talk and right-click on it to bring up the profile (as an addition to the drop-down box).
I would just add that, if you are deep in conversation with a friend or group of friends and a stranger comes past and says “Hi!”, are you really going to stop your conversation to respond? Well, actually, with me, it does depend on what they look like
I ll give you a reason to not reply !!
Yesterday night i was in Achat , and a premium guy, that i never saw or talked before, his first sentence to me was:
I want you to such my cock, please !!
I love Sex…. But What the Hell, does he talk to a woman in real life like that, first time he opens is mouth?!?
PLEASE GOD HELP ME !!
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