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  • August 5, 2013 at 8:52 pm #6556
    Lover
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    Hi,

    many members love BDSM/kinky posts and, for several reasons, some don't like it. We want to confine the BDSM topics from all other. A-Team is working on a unique sign, but as long as we don't have it we ask for:
    – ideas to make clear, a topic is BDSM/kinky play
    – not to post BDSM in “usual” vanilla topics
    – those, who don't like BDSM, not to post negative comments in BDSM threads

    First idea, which we also will do next days:
    If there is a BDSM topic, we change message icon to “Exclamation point” (the “!” you can use for new topics)

    This thread is for more ideas, but also to discuss  in general.

    August 6, 2013 at 2:17 pm #100306
    tangoracer
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    Lover

    Just a thought on the topic

    May be the writer of the post could write a small warning banner that the post contains DBSM content.

    As Miss ChristinaK did with her posts with Blue back at the start of the the Ice House (page 5)

    **A WORD OF WARNING TO THE READER.  THIS WAS DISCUSSED BY BOTH BLU AND MY SELF BEFORE IT WAS WRITTEN.  THIS IS THE WAY BDSM IS PLAYED OUT IN REAL LIFE.  RARELY IS A BDSM SCENE SPONTANEOUS.  THEY ARE CAREFULLY PLANNED AND EXECUTED.  DO NOT TRY THIS WITH SOMEONE UNLESS YOU HAVE DISCUSSED IT WELL IN ADVANCE.**

    Or maybe we can ask mrsexlover to make us a warning banner so its the same for everyone 

    Just a thought  Master Tango :) 

    August 6, 2013 at 2:45 pm #100307
    hentaiboy69
    Participant

    Tango, i had try to find out a better way too then simply use the “!” simbol, cause at last, it's not clear for new users when they come here the first time.
    Maybe we can add some few line in “posting rules” as a warning for new users who are interessed in BDSM and want to share their experience or pics about it……more visibility we give to this signal, more easily it will be to get used to it!

    August 6, 2013 at 2:51 pm #100308
    mrsexlover
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    if you like you can use this at the start, it's a first concept to what Tango was dicussing, it also display's the ! symbol in it

    9452628268_75d9440e8b_o.jpg

    Just let me hear what you think

    August 6, 2013 at 2:55 pm #100309
    tangoracer
    Participant

    Well that was fast mrsexlover :) Love it

    Just the sort of thing I was thinking of 

    Thanks Tango

    August 6, 2013 at 2:58 pm #100310
    hentaiboy69
    Participant

    uhmmm…..it's ok to add it at the begin of thread, so i think we can use it (Hellokitty, lol! nice choise!  ;D) but the problem is when you can only see the list  of threads. we need an icon who recognize the suject immiadiately! and till the Dev-team are not going one to use, we can use the “!”, so please, paY attention and don't use it if it's not BDSM action!

    August 6, 2013 at 2:59 pm #100311
    mrsexlover
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    You're welcome Tango, i just had some time to quickly make one for you.  ;D

    August 6, 2013 at 3:07 pm #100312
    hentaiboy69
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    I found this icon…..

    fav_icon_hull_bdsm_bigger.png

    a bit big, but it can be an idea to start with…..and i think it's pretty clear!

    August 6, 2013 at 3:47 pm #100313
    Brandybee
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    I like Mrsexlovers banner –  just a couple of suggestions ..  I think BDSM  should be changed to  AN  EXTREME    so it covers all kinks and fetishes  and the writing should be in bright red –  the international colour for danger or warning .. 

    Great work, Martin  ;D

    August 6, 2013 at 4:05 pm #100314
    hentaiboy69
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    i think Brandy is right, even if i can't see any other extreme situation……considering the one who come in my mind are all against TOS, so not allowed automatically! well, in teory!

    August 6, 2013 at 4:16 pm #100315
    Brandybee
    Participant

    I was thinking…  pissing, shitting,  lactating women / baby play,  more extreme of the kinks, not just confined to BDSM.  It could still be offensive to some.

    I'm sure there are others too,  but those are the ones that spring to mind.

    August 6, 2013 at 4:34 pm #100316
    hentaiboy69
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    i see what you mean, like the story Andrea wrote where a woman roleplay to be underage……yes, this can be a good point.

    Now, i think…….a banner with generic danger signal is perfect, then it's up to the artist (talking about story or pics) adding a line to explain the subject of the warning. or we can do more banner….one for every things we have in mind!

    August 6, 2013 at 4:40 pm #100317
    Lover
    Participant

    Martin's banner is nice. Perhaps some little changes, the rest is perfect. We may not have more banners, people may be confused instead of warned. Most important is the message icon, the exclamation point in front of the thread.

    One banner and individual words in the beginning, which content there is – and the titel should be unique too.

    August 6, 2013 at 4:44 pm #100318
    hentaiboy69
    Participant

    I see wich mod you mean, lover……making it a bit more generic, not only about BDSM but about feticism in general too

    August 6, 2013 at 7:33 pm #100319
    Momma_andrea
    Participant

    I love the use of “Hello Mistress”…I mean Kitty, in the banner

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