♥ The A-Chat Tattler 2nd edition ♥ 2017-COMPLETE STORIES

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Healthy Living by Stone.

As a single person, living on my own, ready-made meals that you can ping in a microwave are so tempting to have for ease and the same can be said for buying processed food like cut meat ready to put in a sandwich… but when you look closely at the salt, sugar and shit content, you are eating your way to a heart attack and bad health.

So I made a few simple changes to my lifestyle and have never looked back.

It is true – You are what you eat.  Food is the fuel for the body to function. If you miss out on some of the things your body needs then eventually it will start to malfunction. That means health problems.
Isn’t there enough health problems we might encounter without bringing more on through our own ignorance?

If you eat and make energy, more energy than you actually use, your body will turn it to fat and hence you will gain weight. 
So if you eat a lot, it stands to reason, you have got to exercise a lot and vice versa. 
And to lose weight, you have to exercise more and eat less or more wisely and proportionately.

The secret is getting the balance right.
No crash diets! No being hungry! The secret is to find the right balance.

Here’s the simple rules, I follow.  It works for me. I dare you to try it too!

1.  Keep your eating and meals to a 10 hour window.
So for example if you eat breakfast at 8.00am you should not eat after 6pm, make sure your last meal for the day is about 5pm.  If you eat breakfast at 9am then 7pm is your cut off point.  If you know you are going out for a meal with friends, then make sure that you count back so you don’t extend your eating window.  Most meet up for a meal between 6pm – 8pm, so your first meal of the day should be 9am – 11am.  Do what works best for you. It can be flexible on times but the 10 hour eating rule must be true.

2. Eat a balanced diet that consists of Protein (the size of a deck of cards), veggies (Biggest portion & as much as you like)  and carbs (the size of your clenched fist).

3. Eat at least 5 portions of fruit and veg a day and

4. Drink 8 glasses of water (250ml = 1 glass). I carry a 500ml bottle of water with me and know I need to drink 4 of those a day. (Tip. I forget in my busy day what bottle I’m on, so carry different coloured tops – Black = 1 ; Red = 2 ; Silver ; Blue =4.)

5. Try to do 10,000 steps a day. For me that’s a 2 hour walk. I generously rounded it up. I break it up to 20 minutes / 30 minutes a day.  So for 20 minutes, I fit 6 sessions in a day. It is 4 sessions if it’s 30 mins or I can mix and match a combination throughout the day. For example, I go out for an hour’s walk with my dog.

Tip – Park your car a 10 minute walk from your work place. Right there is 1 x 20 mins of your walk with the return walk to your car. 
Or Get off the bus /public transport 1 stop or 2 stops early for the same reason.  Use 10 or 20 min’s of your lunch break to walk around.

6. Make sure that during your walking sessions you make your heart beat faster and your breath quicken. Quicken your steps to a brisk walk or even do a brief run or jog depending on your fitness, even better if you sweat a bit. This exercises your heart and helps circulation.

Here’s the 3 Healthy steps to eating a balanced diet:

1.  Protein. 
Protein is an essential nutrient, responsible for multiple functions in your body, including building tissue, cells and muscle, as well as making hormones and anti-bodies. Everyone needs protein in their diet, but if you do endurance sports or weight training you may need to increase your protein intake, and to factor it into your training routine at specific times to reap its muscle-boosting benefits.

For most of us, our daily protein requirements are easily achieved by a healthy, balanced diet. The advice for adults is to avoid consuming more than twice the recommended daily intake of protein (55.5g for the average man and 45g for the average woman). This is because there is evidence that, in the long term, consuming too much protein can lead to health issues such as an increased risk of osteoporosis and a worsening of an existing kidney problem.

One of the main issues with our Western diet is that most of our breakfasts and lunches are low in protein but high in carbohydrates, with a protein-packed evening meal. It is better to aim to spread your protein intake out throughout the day.

Protein Foods:  In your meal choose lean protein like chicken, turkey, fish and low fat dairy – about the size of a deck of cards.

Here’s some examples of Protein Foods:
A) Eggs.  A medium egg has around 6g of protein in an easily digestible form. An omelette is a good way to start the day and is a good recovery snack too.
Milk.  Dairy foods are packed with protein and contain bone-building calcium, too. Chocolate milk is the age-old recovery food after exercise, since it contains energy-replenishing carbohydrates and a blend of both slow and fast release whey and casein proteins. You can get the same recovery-boosting effects from a milk-based fruit smoothies such as a cranberry & raspberry smoothie
C) Yogurt.  A combination of casein and whey protein, yogurt is a great protein-rich food. Since most of the lactose is removed, it can work for most people who are lactose intolerant.
D)  Fish and seafood.  Fish and seafood are good sources of protein and are typically low in fat. While slightly higher in fat than other varieties, salmon packs in heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids which can reduce joint stiffness and inflammation.
E)  Soya.  If you’re dairy intolerant, eating soya protein foods such as tofu and soya-based drinks is a good alternative.  They can help to lower cholesterol and may reduce the risk of heart disease. A dairy-free cherry soya yogurt for example is a great option
F)  Nuts.  Nuts such as pistachios are a practical protein choice if you’re on the move. Around 50 pistachio nuts will provide 6g of protein, plus sodium and potassium, the electrolytes lost in sweat during exercise.
G)  Pork. High quality proteins also contain branched-chain amino acids (BCAAs), which are key in supporting muscle recovery. Leucine, in particular, makes up one third of muscle protein and helps to stimulate repair after exercise. Pork is one of the richest sources of leucine and therefore a great addition to a post-exercise meal or snack.
Eggs, chicken and lean beef also provide good amounts of leucine.
H. Chicken and turkey.  When it comes to animal protein, opt for lean protein from white meat poultry such as chicken and turkey.
I.  Beans and pulses. These are great, value-for-money protein sources. Beans and pulses are also a good source of iron and fibre.

2. Veggies. Pack your plate.
Make this the biggest portion on your plate every time and try and eat as many different colours and varieties as possible.

It is recommended you eat at least 5 fruit or vegetables a day.
Eating a variety of fruit and vegetables, whether fresh, canned or dried can all count towards your 5 a day. And eating 5 a day may help to reduce the risk of heart disease, stroke and some cancers.

Eating a variety of fruit and vegetables will give you plenty of vitamins and minerals. They are also a good source of fibre and other essential nutrients, all of which are important for your health.

5 Portions a day –  Rules –  They have to be different vegetable and different fruit and different consistencies to count towards your 5 a day.

So 5 medium apples will only count as 1 portion.  5 fruit juice drinks even if different flavours only count as 1 portion. (Careful though, Brought Fruit juices are bad carb. Best make your own)

A portion weighs approximately 80g, which is roughly a handful and 150ml of liquid fruit / veg.

Tinned fruits and vegetables count.  Ensure they are tinned in their own juices or water.

Convenience Foods.

Convenience foods can be high in added salt, sugar or fat – which should only be eaten in moderation- so it’s important to always check the nutrition information on food labels.

SALT.  We eat too much salt. Too much salt can raise your blood pressure, which puts you at increased risk of health problems such as heart disease and stroke. But a few simple steps can help you to cut your salt intake.

Adults should eat no more than 6g of salt a day – that's around one teaspoon. Children should eat even less. Salt and sodium in your food

Salt is also called sodium chloride. Sometimes, food labels only give the figure for sodium. But there is a simple way to work out how much salt you are eating from the sodium figure:
Salt = sodium x 2.5.  Adults should eat no more than 2.4g of sodium per day, as this is equal to 6g of salt.

Cutting back on added salt is only a small part of the solution. To really cut down, you need to become aware of the salt that is already in the everyday foods you buy, and choose lower-salt options.

Frozen fruit and vegetables and dried fruit and vegetables also count towards your 5-a-day.

Potatoes and other root vegetables such as yams and cassava do not count because they contain starch and are eaten as starchy staples (Carbs) like bread and pasta.

5-a-day- Portion Examples:

1 medium sized apple ;  3 celery sticks ; ½ a large corgette ;  2 (5cm) inch of cucumber ;  8 cauliflower florets ;  3 heaped tablespoons of canned sweetcorn ; 8 Brussels sprouts ; 12 chunks of pinapple ; 2 inch (5cm) slice of melon ; 2 kiwi fruit ; ½ an avocado ; 1 medium tomato ; 7 cherry tomatoes ; 1 medium pear ; 3 heaped tablespoons of cooked kidney beans ; 1 medium onion ;  1 handful of chopped carrots ; 2 x broccoli florets; 1 x handful of vegetable sticks – carrots, spring onions, yellow or red or green peppers; 3 whole dried apricots ; 1 medium sized orange; 2 small satsumas ; 16 medium okra ; 2 medium plums ; 1 leek;  1 medium banana ; 3 heaped tablespoons of fresh or frozen peas; 10 Blackberries ; 7 strawberries ; 20 raspberries ;  1 handful (14) of grapes; ½ grapefruit ( 8 segments) ; 2 handfuls (4 heaped tablespoons) of blueberries ; 1 heaped tablespoon of raisins ; 1 heaped tablespoon of Sultanas ; 7 spears of asparagus ; Lettuce (mixed leaves) 1 cereal/dessert bowl ; Mushrooms 14 button or 3-4 heaped tablespoons ; Parsnips 1 medium ; Spinach or watercress : fresh 1 cereal bowl ; Spring onion 8 onions ; Swede or Turnip: diced and cooked 3 heaped tablespoons ; Beetroot: 3 'baby' whole, or 7 slices ;  Beans, runner: cooked 4 heaped tablespoons; Radish 10 radishes ;

3. Carborhydrates –  Keep carbs  to the size of your clenched fist on your plate. Use wholemeal rice or low – GI foods like sweet potatoes.

Carbohydrates are one of the main types of nutrients. They are the most important source of energy for your body. Your digestive system changes carbohydrates into glucose (blood sugar). Your body uses this sugar for energy for your cells, tissues and organs. It stores any extra sugar in your liver and muscles for when it is needed.

Carbohydrates are called simple or complex, depending on their chemical structure.

Simple carbohydrates include sugars found naturally in foods such as fruits, vegetables, milk, and milk products. They also include sugars added during food processing and refining.

Complex carbohydrates include whole grain breads and cereals, starchy vegetables and legumes. Many of the complex carbohydrates are good sources of fibre.

For a healthy diet, limit the amount of added sugar that you eat and choose whole grains over refined grains.

It’s vitally important to your health that you know the good carb bad carb difference.

The good carbs are carbohydrate foods that can provide your body with:

• Energy fuel for physical activity,
• The nutrition needed for optimum health,
• And the nutrients necessary for good brain function.
• Organ function and a healthy, attractive appearance.

And most of the good carbs are healthy high fibre foods that help you to:

• Lose weight,
• Lower cholesterol,
• Prevent constipation,
• Reduce triglyceride levels,
• Carry toxins out of your body,
• Avoid or even reverse diabetes,
• Maintain stable blood sugar levels,
• Decrease your risk of heart disease,
• And have much better sustained energy.

Your best good carbs sources are from this healthy carbohydrates list:

• Raw and lightly steamed vegetables,
• Legumes, beans, nuts and seeds,
• High fibre 100% whole grains,
• Raw, whole, fresh fruits,
• Most low fat dairy.
• Starchy foods such as potatoes, bread, rice, pasta and cereals should make up just over a third of the food you eat. Choose wholegrain varieties, and eat potatoes with their skins on for more fibre.

We should eat some starchy foods every day as part of a healthy, balanced diet. During cooking, aim for a golden yellow colour or lighter when frying, baking, toasting or roasting starchy foods like potatoes, root vegetables and bread.

Other healthy carbohydrate foods.
DAIRY           AMOUNT           CARBS (grams)
Blue cheese 1 oz             0.7
Cheddar cheese 1 oz 0.4
Cottage cheese, 2% fat 1/2 cup 4
Egg 1 extra large 1
Feta cheese 1 oz 1
Milk, 1% fat 1 cup 8
Milk, fat-free 1 cup 13
Mozzarella cheese 1 oz 0.8
Parmesan cheese 1 Tbsp. 0.2
Provolone cheese 1 oz 0.6
Ricotta cheese 1/2 cup 6
Swiss cheese 1 oz 1
Yogurt, low-fat 1 cup 17
Yogurt, fat-free 1 cup 18

WHOLE GRAINS AMOUNT CARBS (grams)

Bread, whole wheat 1 slice 14
Bread, multi grain 1 slice 17
Oatmeal, cooked 1 cup 25
Pancake, buckwheat mix 1/3 cup (3 cakes) 33
Pancake, whole grain mix 1/3 cup (3 cakes) 28
Pasta, whole wheat 1 cup cooked 37
Popcorn, popped 3-1/2 cups 19
Rice, basmati brown 1/4 cup dry 31
Rice, brown 1/4 cup dry 33
Rice, brown 1/2 cup cooked 22
Rice, wild 1/2 cup cooked 18
Rye bread 1 slice 15

Bad carbs are detrimental to a healthy diet.

Consistently eating from the bad carbs list will rapidly sabotage all your health and weight management goals.

The “bad,” unhealthy carbohydrate foods list includes:

• Sodas,
• Candies,
• All pastries,
• Jams and jellies,
• Fruit juices and drinks,
• Refined grains, like white rice,
• Bread and pasta with refined flour,
• Most pudding, custards and other sweets,
• Cakes, cookies and any sweet bakery products.

Bad carbohydrate foods have been highly refined and processed, removing the majority of fibre and nutritional value. Plus, bad carbs are often loaded with unhealthy additives, preservatives and high-calorie fats.

Scientific studies show that unhealthy carbohydrate foods contribute to:

• Gaining weight,
• Heart disease,
• Alzheimer’s,
• Diabetes,
• Arthritis,
• Stroke

As part of a healthy balanced diet, you should eat fewer foods and drinks that are high in sugars.

Sugary foods and drinks can cause tooth decay, especially if you have them between meals.
Many foods that contain added sugars also contain lots of calories, but often have few other nutrients. Eating these foods often can contribute to you becoming overweight.

Being overweight can increase your risk of health conditions such as:

• heart disease
• type 2 diabetes
• stroke

What is sugar?
All sugars are carbohydrates found naturally in most foods. Their main nutritional value is in providing energy. However, sugar is also added to lots of foods such as sweets, chocolate, cakes, and some fizzy and juice drinks.

In the ingredients list, sugar added to food may be called:
• glucose
• sucrose
• maltose
• corn syrup
• honey
• hydrolysed starch
• invert sugar
• fructose
• molasses

How much sugar?
Added sugars shouldn't make up more than 5% of the energy (calorie intake) you get from food and drink each day. This is about 30g of sugar a day for those aged 11 and over.

Fruit juice and honey can also count as added sugars, as they're sometimes added to foods to make them sweeter.

Fruit juice is still a healthy choice (one 150ml serving counts towards your 5 A DAY). However, the sugars can damage your teeth, so it's best to drink it with a meal and no more than one serving a day.

This is because sugars are released during the juicing process. Sugars in whole pieces of fruit are less likely to cause tooth decay because they are contained within the food.

You shouldn't cut down on fruit as it's an important part of a healthy, balanced diet.

Check food labels –  Read the nutritional information on food labels to see how much sugar the food contains. Remember that sugar has many different names. The nearer the beginning of the ingredient list the sugar is, the more sugar the product contains.

Look for the “Carbohydrates (of which sugars)” figure in the nutrition label to see how much sugar the product contains for every 100g:

• more than 22.5g of total sugars per 100g is high
• 5g of total sugars or less per 100g is low

If the amount of sugars per 100g is between these figures, that's a medium level of sugars.

Cutting down on sugar – These tips may help you cut down on sugar:

• instead of sugary, fizzy drinks and juice drinks, go for water or unsweetened fruit juice (remember to dilute fruit juices for children to further reduce the sugar)
• if you take sugar in hot drinks or add it to cereal, gradually reduce the amount until you can cut it out altogether
• check nutrition labels to help you pick the foods with less added sugar, or go for the low-sugar version
• choose tins of fruit in juice, rather than syrup
• choose wholegrain breakfast cereals, but not those coated with sugar or honey

In your 10 hour eating window:

1. For a meal, try building a Buddha bowl from the foods above. 
Protein – Deck of card size ;
Veggies – Pack your bowl with a variety and
Carb serving the size of your clenched fist.

They are filling & healthy.  Use the Protein, Veggie & Good Carb rule sizes above for each meal will keep you healthy.  We all like a treat though so…  twice a week ONLY, have a bad carb… but ONLY if you have been good!

2. Then enjoy a fruit bowl with cut segments and whole fruits to ensure you get your 5-a-day-in.

3. Don’t forget your 250ml glass of water (x8) and

4. 2 hour of walking whether as a whole or in sections throughout the day.

Thanks to Stone

The Seven Stages of Man
By CONSTANZA VILLALBA FEB. 17, 1999 
        Men  are often portrayed as big boys, differing from their younger selves  only in the sums of money they spend on their toys. Indeed, because men  can reproduce well into old age, and do not experience cyclical hormonal  changes, their health is regarded as fairly static. But medical experts  are learning that between the boy and the man stand a variety of  genetic, biological and social changes. Understanding these factors may  help men prepare for the stages that await them.CONSTANZA VILLALBA

INFANCY At  the precise moment when a single sperm wiggles its way into an awaiting  egg, the sex of the developing baby is defined. If that sperm carries a  portly X chromosome, the egg turned embryo will give rise to a baby  girl. If that sperm carries a diminutive Y chromosome, the baby will be a  boy. With the blueprint for the male architecture, however, come  several, often unfortunate genetic predispositions: hemophilia and  Duchenne's Muscular Dystrophy afflict boys and men almost exclusively,  while boys are more likely than girls to suffer from Fragile-X Syndrome,  the nation's leading cause of mental retardation.But  being born a boy also comes with perks. Baby boys are an animated lot  who display a marked curiosity about the world. Compared with girls,  they are more alert and emotionally interactive with caretakers. They  begin suppressing their emotions later in life, suggesting that  masculine stoicism is learned, not hard-wired.

BOYHOOD Once  in school, boys tend to excel at mathematics and other tasks controlled  by the brain's right side, or hemisphere. These natural aptitudes may  be strengthened by the spike of testosterone that infant boys experience  before and right after birth. But the biological machinery that gives  boys an advantage in math and spatial tasks may predispose them to  learning and developmental disorders: that is, in boys the left brain  hemisphere, which controls language and facilitates socialization, may  be underdeveloped. On  the playground, school-age boys resist playing with girls. They enjoy  rough-and-tumble play and have inherent skill at games involving  hit-the-target motor and navigational challenges. This time spent among  other boys relays lessons — not all of them healthy — about what it  means to be male. Chase and target games, for example, may be an  evolutionary throwback to when men had to be good hunters.

ADOLESCENCE Testosterone's  effects on boys' development become most obvious during adolescence. As  their soprano voices morph into tenors, boys squawk. Muscles begin  replacing baby fat. Male hormones are also responsible for teen-age  boys' novel interest in sex. Unfortunately, this interest is not always  coupled with mature attitudes about safety and promiscuity. Data show  that adolescents account for one-quarter of the 12 million cases of  sexually transmitted diseases reported each year. The good news is that  teen-agers may be getting the message. Gonorrhea among adolescent boys  has been decreasing over the last seven years.But  boys' interest in girls is not purely sexual. Compared with previous  generations, teen-age boys are more likely to have Platonic  relationships with girls and to agree with survey statements like Boys  and girls should both be allowed to express feelings.The  hormones that pique boys' interest in sex goad them toward risky and  aggressive behavior. At the same time, parental and societal  expectations about masculinity may prevent them from expressing  confusion or fear about the changes befalling them. These factors make  teen-age boys 2.5 times more likely than girls to die of an  unintentional injury and 5 times more likely to die from a homicide or  suicide.

YOUNG ADULTHOOD Men  are physically in their prime. This period is characterized by a drive  for achievement and by the realization that the foolhardiness of youth  has unavoidable consequences. Fatherhood gives men the opportunity to  redefine masculinity in a healthful way for themselves and their  children. Bad  habits, like smoking, become less appealing but more difficult to  shake; more than 80 percent of adults who ever smoked began doing so  before age 18. Still, men are smoking less than they did and the  incidence of lung cancer in men is falling. Although the incidence of  smoking — 28.8 percent for black men, 27.1 percent for white men — is  similar, black men are at much higher risk of lung cancer than white  men.H.I.V.  infection, the leading cause of death among men between ages 25 and 44,  is often contracted during adolescence, when boys are experimenting  with sex and are oblivious to the risks of infection. But with advances  in drug therapies, the incidence of H.I.V.-related deaths has declined  over the last four years.

MIDDLE AGE Beginning  in their early 40's, men experience a decline in testosterone of 1  percent each year. These reductions coincide with increased depressive  symptoms, including anxiety and sexual dissatisfaction. While some  doctors consider this stage tantamount to male menopause, others argue  that the hormonal changes are too subtle to account for these symptoms.  They note, too, that impotence and other conditions associated with  middle age can be caused by ailments that tend to strike men in this age  group, like diabetes.The  risk of heart disease, hypertension and diabetes is exacerbated by  obesity, and middle age is when men are likely to be overweight. They  lose 3 percent to 5 percent of their muscle mass for every decade after  age 25. Reduced muscle mass and physical activity conspire to decrease  men's resting metabolic rate. As men age, then, they burn less energy  while resting and can gain weight even without changing their eating  habits. And they do gain — 2 to 3 pounds for every year over age 30. Heart  disease continues to be the leading cause of death for men in the  United States. But the rate of heart disease-related deaths among men  has decreased more than 50 percent since 1950; those who die of heart  disease are dying later in life. EARLY OLD AGE Because  men continue to produce testosterone throughout life, they are  protected from — though not immune to — conditions like Alzheimer's  Disease and osteoporosis. Their larger bone size also helps protect  against this bone-weakening illness. Men can further maintain their  mental acuity by engaging in intellectual activities. They can  strengthen their bones and stem bone loss by undertaking weight-bearing  exercise. The continued production of testosterone, however, can also  adversely affect men. Testosterone aggravates hair loss and stimulates  growth of the prostate gland. Noncancerous enlargement of the prostate  occurs in more than half of men in their 60's and up to 90 percent of  men in their 70's and 80's. At the same time, 80 percent of all prostate  cancer cases occur in men age 65 and over.

LATER OLD AGE Studies  indicate that men are less likely than women to have difficulty  maintaining normal routines, like bathing, dressing and using the  toilet, as they age. Still,  the trend among the elderly in general is that they become less active,  and so need fewer calories. Their appetites diminish, yet their  nutritional needs increase because their bodies have lost the ability to  synthesize and absorb important vitamins and nutrients. Their skin, for  example, no longer easily synthesizes vitamin D when exposed to the  sun. The benefits of avoiding potentially harmful foods, such as those  high in cholesterol, lessen with age. Maintaining weight and making sure  the right nutrients are present in the diet become more important.

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Minni91
Mar 1
Shezawolf interview

Edited: Mar 1
So tell us a little about yourself?  (outside hobbies, where you are joining us from, maybe a little about the sort of job you do)
Live in Alabama USA, i own a ranch, with way too many horses, i have loads of dogs and a biker for an uncle who lives with me. My hobbies including kicking guys in the nuts

1) How long have you been here? Why did you originally join? Has that view changed to now (did you join for the sex and now prefer chatting with friends)???
Huh? Been here too long… to get a girl to go back to another game we were playing and ended up staying, now have a few friends i like to talk to and my loving spouse by my side.

2) What were your first impressions of the game? Describe your first day
Damn, i paid for this? My first day i got kicked outta a room for being naked

3) What have you enjoyed the most about Achat?
making my love sore
G: smiles

4) Your best memories?
Meeting G, and a redneck wedding i performed (jcpleasure and Lynn75)

5) Your worst memories?
Making a big mistake with one guy but having learnt from it and moved on

6) What would be the one thing you would change/add/remove from the game?
I would change how you access the game, needing a credit/bank card to join
I would remove the dislike/like buttons and add more Meeting places to chat and dance in, maybe even have some passworded or those who have yearly memberships only

7) What is your favourite and worst pose in the game?
hmmm crosses and that lame one masturbating in chairs

What is a turn on in a partner? What turns you on?
G is a hell on a turn on
G: smiles

9) What is a turn off in a partner? What turns you off?
silence and then cumming 15 times in 5 minutes
G: lol

10) Describe your ideal partner in 5 words
Horny, sexy, smart, caring and long lasting

11) Describe yourself in 5 words
Evil, mean, wicked and nasty with a touch of horny

12)  What is the worst/cheesiest pick up line you have heard?
fuck?

13)  Give us your cheesiest pick up line
do you have a cock or are you pretending?

14)  What, if any, involvement do you have in the forum? (do you comment on posts, join in the polls, the events,  dating game, races, contests)
yes post every now and then, join in on some of the races

15)  And finally what would be your best advice to a newbie?
runnnnnnnnnn   

Always a pleasure to chat with you Sheza, even with G laughing at your answers

(might be able to get G to answer some to go along side sheza's for another joint interview)

Iamincharge Interview
Minni91
Mar 14

1) How long have you been here? Why did you originally join? Has that view changed to now (did you join for the sex and now prefer chatting with friends)
Huh
Been here 6 years St Pats day (17th March)…joined because of a woman….now I just live here

2)  What were your first impressions of the game? Describe your first day
first day was hectic and a learning experience.. First week actually.. But knew I would love it here

3)  What have you enjoyed the most about Achat?
The friends I’ve made and the relationships I’ve made with people… That and I cum ALOTTTT and not get tired lol

4)  Your best memories?
I have too many to list…but going to friend’s wedding is always a nice thing…

5)  Your worst memories?
The days people leave after a long time are never good.. Especially if they don’t say goodbye.. and of course my one time I royally screwed up and lost a lover, friend and pet in one day

6)  What would be the one thing you would change/add/remove from the game?
add more poses for the shemales to use.. and more interaction in groups

7)  What is your favourite and worst pose in the game?
favorite pose is a tie between refreshing massage and riding queen… worst poses is sex acrobats…isnt realistic lol

8.)  What is a turn on in a partner? What turns you on?
turn on for a partner here….be communicative… Don’t be quiet and know what u r doing…talking dirty to me and making me feel like nothing exists but me at that moment

9)  What is a turn off in a partner? What turns you off?
money grabbing..i mean i had a lady tell me it was 200 JUST TO TALK/silence

10)  Describe your ideal partner in 5 words
funny, confident, dirty, relaxed, enthusiastic

11)  Describe yourself in 5 words
friendly, Sweden, caring, non-gossiping, SWEDEN

12)  What is the worst/cheesiest pick up line you have heard?
I really like your name

13)  Give us your cheesiest pick up line
ill let YOU pick.. I’ve used enough on you lol
Cant tell you – they would not work no more 

14)  What, if any, involvement do you have in the forum? (do you comment on posts, join in the polls, the events – dating game, races, contests)
as little as possible this place will Fuck Over UR Mind

15)  And finally what would be your best advice to a newbie?
Stick with it…you’ll get the hang of it soon enough

MarnieJo Interview

  So tell us a little about yourself?  (outside hobbies, where you are joining us from, maybe a little about the sort of job you do)  I am 48, from the USA.  I am a 911 dispatcher for 21 years, former paramedic for 20 years.  Spending time with my grandbabies is my favourite hobby, lol.

1)  How long have you been here? Why did you originally join? Has that view changed to now (did you join for the sex and now prefer chatting with friends) 
I have been here 5 years, going on 6.  A friend of mine from facebook brought me here, got me started.  I do spend most of my time chatting with my friends here, I only room with people who are special to me, there has to be a connection.

2)  What were your first impressions of the game? Describe your first day
My first day was funny, I spent a lot of time playing with buttons and dressing the ‘barbie doll’.  Was amazed there was a site like this.

3)  What have you enjoyed the most about Achat?
Meeting people from all around the world.  Becoming lifelong friends with them. 

4)  Your best memories?
Meeting people who are now my friends, enjoying the joys of their lives, and sharing the joys of mine with them.

5)  Your worst memories?
The loss of JCM0824, which devastated me.  I found out months after he passed that he was gone.  At the time I never went to the forum, now I go daily.

6)  What would be the one thing you would change/add/remove from the game?  
The ability to have multiple accounts would be the biggest thing I would change and even remove.

7)  What is your favourite and worst pose in the game? 
Not so much a pose but an action, but the ‘worse’ action would be anytime the man can slap my face, that just irritates me, don’t slap my face but my ass is fine .  Favorite would be good old fashion missionary, I love to be able to see the face of my lover and kiss him during sex. 

  What is a turn on in a partner? What turns you on? 
Ability to be descriptive, talk to me while we are rooming.  Biggest turn on is when he tells me he is hard in real, or that he cum in real mmmmmmmmm!!

9)  What is a turn off in a partner? What turns you off?  
I really don’t like being called names, I am not a whore or a slut, bitch, whatever.  Grow up, my name is Marnie.  Turn off are button clickers and machine gun cummers, lol. Don’t just click buttons and certainly don’t cum 42 times in 10 min.

10)  Describe your ideal partner in 5 words. 
Someone who isn’t a liar.

11)  Describe yourself in 5 words. 
Funny, caring, tender hearted, loving, serious.

12)  What is the worst/cheesiest pick up line you have heard?
Mom/sis, im home!!! 

13)  Give us your cheesiest pick up line. 
I don't have one, I don't pick up guys, lol

14)  What, if any, involvement do you have in the forum? (do you comment on posts, join in the polls, the events – dating game, races, contests) 
I check it daily, read some of the posts, not all.  Have joined some of the polls, and events.  Currently in the winter dating game and Formula 1 racing contest. 

15)  And finally what would be your best advice to a newbie? 
Guard your heart, don’t believe everything you are told.  Too many people here lie to you, which is sad, why lie?  Don’t fall in love, its not real, remember that. 

Mwah MarnieJo

Minni91 interview

Edited: Mar 21.2017 from herself

So tell us a little about yourself? (outside hobbies, where you are joining us from, maybe a little about the sort of job you do)
I'm 26 and from the UK, I use to play wheelchair basketball (was part of the selection team for London2012, then found out I was pregnant), now I taxi my daughter to her cheerleading and swimming events…. I'm in college and volunteering as a teaching assistant 

1) How long have you been here? Why did you originally join? Has that view changed to now (did you join for the sex and now prefer chatting with friends)???
I’ve been here since November 2016, so still a relative newbie to the game, but loving all aspects of the game. I was originally on another site similar, had been there about 3weeks, when a guy I was talking to there, and invited me to join here, so I did. He said he had been here a long time but after 3weeks disappeared off the face of the Earth that was when I was chucked in the deep end to find my way around. My view hasn’t changed really, I started these sort of site to find people to talk to, to help me through my low months, if I found sexual partners then that would have been a bonus 

2) What were your first impressions of the game? Describe your first day
As I’ve said my first day, I didn’t do much other than wait in lobby for the guy I was here for to invite me to his room, and he showed me a few of the different things the avi’s could do. Thought the graphics were pretty cool, and the sex itself was closer to the real thing than the other game. However when I eventually started to wonder around, venture through the meeting places, I found where I belonged, surrounded by people to talk to and make friendships with 

3) What have you enjoyed the most about Achat?
The biggest thing for me is the friends I have made, from all around the world. Learning about them and what sort of world they live in, still find the time zones interesting. Some friends have made it into my personal life on a friends basis, to talk to when away from the game, or real life is preventing us from getting online at that time.

4) Your best memories?
I haven’t been here long enough to really make many memories, but for me it’s the nights when lots of friends are together and we are laughing and just having lots of fun. 

5) Your worst memories?
Again I haven’t been here long enough to really get any bad memories, but the bitching and drama really put a dampener on the experience.   

6) What would be the one thing you would change/add/remove from the game?
Add > more poses for ALL gender combinations and equally across all sexes
Change > the info box on someone in the meeting places, maybe a little bio and their orientation
Remove > the dislike/add button 

7) What is your favourite and worst pose in the game?
Favourite poses > Chained pleasure, Focused doggy, Sex swing, At the wall, Against the wall, Stick up, Sphinx, Riding queen. Hot kissing is always a good way to say Goodnight to your partner.
Worst poses > the masturbation poses are pretty crap, the giant cock poses are pretty useless as well 

What is a turn on in a partner? What turns you on?
Someone who can make me laugh, is easy on the eye, good smile, he has confidence, can be romantic at the right times, he takes the lead, gives off a vibe of having authority, can talk and keep a conversation going. Also knowing what I want/need at that moment in time, is able to read my body and make it come alive at a touch of his finger. 

9) What is a turn off in a partner? What turns you off?
Immature, cocky, someone who thinks he’s god’s gift to women, a guy  who is selfish ALL THE TIME, silent until he wants something from me, is either to clingy or to stand-offish . 

10) Describe your ideal partner in 5 words
Hot, sexy, dominant, funny, intriguing 

11) Describe yourself in 5 words
Fun, kind, mature, honest, down to earth 

12) What is the worst/cheesiest pick up line you have heard?
Actually I was sent this while writing this interview so thought perfect > You are my wife and a friend of yours is visiting us at home. We got many drinks this evening… later I have to leave you a short time to buy new alcohol at the shop nearby. After i left the room you begin to complain about my poor, tiny cock and what you missed so badly in our relationship. You two girls get into action… when I enter the room again, I am confused. But you two girls don’t let me take part and concentrate on each other while humiliating me for my worthless, tiny cock. 
But I have had many others that are similar to this ‘scene’ and others that notice my collar, and say ‘I see you’re Collared little girl, come to Master, and I’ll teach you’ (I’m like what the fuck!)  – not collar'd anymore

13) Give us your cheesiest pick up line
Never had to use one, normally say Hi, and watch the chemistry flow 

14) What, if any, involvement do you have in the forum? (do you comment on posts, join in the polls, the events – dating game, races, contests)
Yep, I joined the forum in January, written a few erotic stories (not any good at it), also having a crack at doing the latest writing contest based on 3sums and moresomes!!! Started to add some monthly events, so keep an eye out and put them in your diary to join in. Started joining in a few of the races that are happening, including the Daytona 500 race, when I have the money to join in, I’ll try and join in more races. 

15) And finally what would be your best advice to a newbie?
Be nice, talk, ask, wear clothes, and don’t cold invite people…  Just because it says it’s a sex game, a lot of the users like to socialise and talk with friends.   

Hello

answer them (always start a new line please)

and send it as PM to    “Lover”,”Brandybee”,”Jayc”,”Nat33″

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Thanks to Minni91 for the above collected Interviews