So sad… Some players have sick minds!

Hi Jan13,  Welcome to forum.

Seems a shame you have had a bad experience in the short time you have been here.
Most are good people and some are here in forum.

Just ignore the players who play the silly mind games and surround yourself with the positive players who enjoy this game for what it is and  enjoy building the community with us.

Take a closer look in the Contests section here.
Tift has a fun “Caption” contest going on and the vote is open on the 55 word Halloween stories and poems.
We need more people to vote, so please read and vote for your favourite.  Oh and ask your friends to join Forum and vote too.

Hi Jan *hugs* Welcome to Forum… a SAFE place.  Not many trolls venture into this place. Kinda always been a sanctuary for me. 

When i read of “bad” experiences such as your own… i'm saddened and disappointed that our world is no better than any other occupied by humans. Regardless how many good peeps… there will always be damaged ones too. Too broken, hardened, bitter n spiteful… void of compassion or empathy to give… the only way they know of lifting themselves is at the expense of others, pulling them down into their own abyss.

Like V and others have recommended… best solution is Avoidance. Surround yourself with good peeps. YES, this takes time, takes chatting and getting to know others. Be weary of those that want to get too close n “personal” too quickly… other than for the FUN quickly.  Just apply the same common sense you would in IRL. It's really no different, we all come with baggage… some of it harder to leave behind than others.  :

Your post also reminds me how lucky n blessed my experience here has been since my first days. With a cast of special peeps taking me under their care, introducing me to others and mentoring me. You know, you don't have to be a “Mentor” to mentor, just care enough to try. I am thankful for each of them… those that are still close, those that have passed or left and those that have faded.

Words and actions are no different here than any other place… choose them carefully for yourself and use them wisely to judge the character n intentions of others. As for the “stalker” or “bully”, IGNORE THEM. Don't give them what they need. Your attention.

A personal tip…. stick to the shallow waters, don't get too deep here or share personal details too quickly. There are depths beyond compare and just like IRL… monsters lurking in the dark.

Hope i haven't scared ya away  😮 and hope you stick around long enough to bump into some of those “good” peeps. Your FUN will certainly improve when you do. Then your problem will be managing all your fun with limited time.

Jan as stated and shown above there really are good people here.  Should you see V and I around in game come on by and say hello.  Unfortunately some love to cause drama and pretend they are superior to everyone else.  Add them to your ignore list and let them live happily with others just like themselves there.

See you in game!

Well said Jan13 .. but don't be sad. Good people are always more than the  “sick” ones.
Do not hesitate to use the ignore button,  it is a very useful tool.
My respect and compassion.

So true Corina.. unfortunately. I also want the old achat back. :'(

I look at it from the perspective of a new player registered with email. (Four months).
Like Cor, I spent a lot of money on poses, clothes, and more. I guess I would expect someone in this game to control the unnatural behavior of the players (creating false identities, bad behavior) – but I don't think anyone is in control of this and any intervention on development goes unnoticed. For example – how is the age of a player controlled?
After all, these are commonly accepted standards for all erotic portals.

Easy for you Skal….you are a man..