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Hello dee and welcome
Tbh I received lots of offers for MMF and very few for FFM but maybe that's just me
Welcome deelishuz1 and let me assure you that you are not alone. From my experience, most guys (specifically ones you meet for the first time or ones anxious to play in a room) prefer FFM over MMF. Here is my theory (and guys, correct me if I'm wrong). I've encountered MMF 3somes where the guys are unable to… “share” me, tehehe. Usually begins by one wanting my complete and full attention so when my attention is divided, he would get jealous, assuming that I favor the other guy over him and leaves.
If you want a truly enjoyable MMF experience, I suggest taking it slow first by spending time getting to know different guys and asking if they are into those kinds of 3somes. Guy friends that I've gotten to know are more willing to participate in a MMF 3some with me than someone new because they enjoy my company and know I always deliver a fun and exceptionally stimulating experience.
I hope this helps, looking forward to seeing you around the forums, deelishuz1.
The thing about inviting a shemale instead of another guy seems quite usual at least… I get some requests for that once in a while (I'm a shemale btw). I haven't taken part in many 3somes like that, they make me a bit frustrated and jealous since the only ones that can get fucked are the female and the male.
I have told that to some men when they've asked me to join in for a MFS 3some and sometimes I am happily surprised when they say “How about just you and me then and I'll fuck until you can't walk strait?”.
Keiko, it's just too bad that some can't just share and take their turn and it's not like you will want to give them more attention if they start to complain.
Dee, I also hope you'll find some nice guys to give you a good time.
Welcome Dee.
I think that's the plus I find with FFF… far more a “Go Team” kind of atmosphere.
Even then there is still a mechanic like Tight describes where those who will TRY will distinguish themselves, while those who don't will be all the more apparent.
I think a more key problem to all the threesome poses is that it can be damn difficult to get ANY three people (of whichever genders) in a rooming mood at the same time.
And I think Keiko has the solution, but even with just two people, it's better to know those you are rooming with a bit beforehand.
In my experience it essential for a good experience that guys know each other and most of all like each other as persons. Most of all it would be wise to talk about what are you planning to do in there and how not to interfeer with your partner's actions. In my best FFM experience I talked to the guy for like 15 minutes before enterinh the room, in that talk we presented each other and got to know each other a little better and talked about what were we gonna do and how were we gonna do it and everything went perfect
So my advice is be patient, finding the right guys to have a wonderful MMF may take time, better if you try finding them among friends and lovers, u'll have more chance of finding 2 guys that get along well
Janine, I've had that feeling in SSS.
Very good suggestions, all of you. Keiko and Medjai, I think you are right about the guys knowing each other. I am slowly building some regulars that we meet and perhaps two of them would want to. I know that chatting, many guys read the chats, whether they can read them when we are in the room is something I don't know. Does anyone know if you are in a room and can someone else just join in or does the group experience have to start from the beginning? As for an alternate experience with a shemale or FFF, unfortunately I had a very disturbing experience with an ex of mine who invited a girl into our bed without telling me. We were in the middle of having sex when she just came in and started molesting me. My ex, just held onto me as long as he could before I punched him and got up. Even though I don't mind the thought of alternate lifestyles, that traumatic experience of basically being raped by another woman has put me off the idea. By the way, he became my ex that very night and it took 6 months of therapy to try to come to terms with what happened.
First of all I'm really sorry for what happened to you, that was really horrible and noone should experience such unpleaset thing.
Does anyone know if you are in a room and can someone else just join in or does the group experience have to start from the beginning?
A 3some has to start as a 3some, once u're in room u can't either receive or send messages outside the room neither invite someone else to join. That's what basically the hardest thing to do when searching for a 3some, finding all the partners in the right mood and online, but with a little patience and the right friends u can have the most weonderful experience and I wish you to find the right guys tha can give you that
As for the poses, it's true that memebrs that have been here longer most of the times have more poses but u just need 1 member to have the available poses necessary if u're in a 3some in order for them to be available to everyone and as for free members it's the same, they don't have poses but if u do or the third partner does the problem is solved
Hi deelishuz
I add one more thought to it. I had some nice 3some fun here. I noticed, that for me 3some is not as great as I thought it would be when I started the game, but that's my opinion.
I also had some bad 3some with mmf – sometimes you feel like just being a stopgap. 2 people just need a 3rd one. That's not my thing. I also am not interested “to fight” for the attention of the girl – either we all have fun or I leave. So it's much easier to chat before, telling your ideas and wishes all together. That doesn't mean every 3some is great, but the chance to really have fun is much bigger.Like my friends before, I also wish you all the best and lots of pleasure here
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