i never except cold groups either but sometimes when i do a group with someone they never seem to tell me what group lol i never except cold anything and sometimes i don't even say hi back to those that just say hi cause it never goes anywhere past that unless it is how are you or let's fuck which isn't the way to get me to agree to a room lol
As for an alternate experience with a shemale or FFF, unfortunately I had a very disturbing experience with an ex of mine who invited a girl into our bed without telling me. We were in the middle of having sex when she just came in and started molesting me. My ex, just held onto me as long as he could before I punched him and got up. Even though I don't mind the thought of alternate lifestyles, that traumatic experience of basically being raped by another woman has put me off the idea. By the way, he became my ex that very night and it took 6 months of therapy to try to come to terms with what happened.
I agree with Bear, going into a group setup with the right attitude is important. Also keep in mind that a MFM is all about the girl not you. I normally find what helps is talking to the other guy, break the ice … you know “where you from” ect. Then I step back for awhile, letting him know that I am not in competition with him. After awhile everyone is relaxed and having a good time.
Oh just a tip for the guys, don't rush through the poses. Take your time … again its about her now you
@ deelishuz1 – You should go visit him, with two BIG man loving thugs … what goes around comes around.
@ bear – Thanks for sharing that “wtf moment”, just brightened up my day a bit
lol… She's the given focal point no matter how it's played, just saying', if two guys are on the same wavelength… my observations are she gets caught up in a better experience.