A Cruel Deception

[Anonymous]

Dear Sandra92, I feel for you! Spidermen has contacted me many times before but I have never had the time to talk to him and his repeated attempts have annoyed me to no end! I will make sure that he is on my ignore list for sure after reading this. I have no time to be sucked into such drama, and have some really wonderful friends that I would rather spend my time with on achat. Thank you and take care!

[himmi]

das ist ….. krass ….
hier gibt es leider viele idioten sandra … es tut mir leid das dir so übel mitgespielt wurde
ich merk mir den namen

[Carli]

Dear Sandra,

That's just awful! That leads me to think he tricked me too, but not nearly as shocking as he did with you. I will confront him about it…

[sinnnn]

Ahhh thats some really cruddy shit. I had him on my list and deleted him because I never felt the urge to have him in a room. But I added him back on when he asked. But now I understand why I sooo did not want to go in a room with him.

Not to be hard on anyone but I don’t understand why ppl think that because you are on line that ppl can’t be dicks. I hear so many sob stories and I don’t get it. Maybe because I ran into so many dicks in rl that it takes a hell of alot for me to trust anyone. I have said it before treat ppl the way you want to be treated. To fake anyones death is sick as hell and he needs to be bitch slap in rl. If the story is true(not knocking you Sandra but there is always two sides of a story) they both need therapy. Alot of therapy. I really hope this don’t ruin Achat for you. Had a bad experience with someone almost ruining Achat for me. But I’ll be damn if I am going to give anyone the satistfation of making quit anything. I say fuck them and forget them. You vented, now move on. Never let anyones shit hold you down.

😉

[apollo13nut]

Well, I don't see why you would spend the time posting such a lengthy grievance if it wasn't true. That being said, people will tell you “hey, it's online, don't let it get to you.” As a person who has bi-polar (in real life, not making it up), I will say “Online or not, it still hurts if you care enough.” I have had a few online relationships and they can be just as emotional as face-to-face relationships. I hope this incident doesn't cause you to do anything stupid or stop using AChat. Be the stronger person and make new, better friends.

I try to get on everyday. I have my email, yahoo, aim filled out here on the forum….feel free to contact me in anyway if you'd like to just bs, exchange ideas, or even on some advice (though I am by NO MEANS and expert, but I do have some insight)

And if you want my really honest opinion, I wouldn't be surprised if they are the same person…..

[Janine Dee]

I've had contact with two people in this situation.

Sandra92 is a lover of mine, and she's wonderful.

Spidermen is one of the first guys to get on my ignore list for continuing the pester me after I explained “lesbian=doesn't room with men”.

So I'm inclined to see it happening basically as portrayed, especially since the big point of faking a suicide is one point that can't really be misinterpreted.

[sinnnn]

Well Spiderman needs to change his name. He sure hell ain’t no fucking hero. This truly pisses me off, to hear someone play on death.(GRRRRRRR). Like I said before-, VENT and VENT somemore to get it out your system. Then try to let it go. Don’t let anyone keep you down. Remember you tried to be a friend, a good person, don’t change. Keep your head up. 😉

[Janine Dee]

Just as a note Sweetie it is Spidermen, spelled like it's plural. I don't know if there is a Spiderman out there on AChat, but it wouldn't be the same guy… or at least it wouldn't be the guy under a known id.

[sinnnn]

I missed spelled.  My bad.  Its not like he is that important to me that I would care to remember his name.  hehe 

[Janine Dee]

Absolutely, I just had this mental picture of some poor little guy who decided to tittle himself after his favorite comic and gets… well a J Joana Jameson smack down for some other guys misdeeds… yeah still a geek. ;D

[sinnnn]

A lovely geek  X-men rule.  LOL. 

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