In follow up to Vaughan’s post above it should be noted that when I log back into game I do not receive his message.
I do not have AChat Next. So any messages sent from there are never received by me so should not be sent.
There should be a message to the sender that tells them “The person you are attempting to message does not have AChat Next or the person is offline”
I asked a question of Achat support, in a positive way I expressed that I value the development of the game but felt my look makes us out to look a little like plastic barbie dolls and we should have the ability to adjust the filter, they replied to me simply saying “We will work on the look” so i guess the current changes should be seen as work in progress