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I agree with Keiko,
this game is not set-up with the intent of creating exclusive relationships. I do understand that you can find someone you feel a deeper connection with. I have myself. But as the developers claim themselves on the site, here you have the possibility to have many sexpartners without running the risk of diseases, losing your rl relationship due to cheating or other unwanted side effects.
Here you have the opportunity to be as bad as you want to be but not dare to be in real life, an environment where you can experimetn fairly safe. Even cuttting off bonds formed before, is done by the click of a button. The ignore button ensuring that you can't be approached if unwanted.
I have rp-ed a wedding, a honeymoon with my spouse and yes, I have more as one.. But I am always clear in why I am here.. and that is not to committ myself to one person. Nor do I expect her to committ to only me. There are so many wonderul people here, and in this stimulating environment, it is all to easy to let yourself get dragged into the moment. I like the variety, the differents personalities, ranging from very sweet and romantic, to bratty and a tad arrogant
. If I was to ever committ to one woman, I'd leave the game and proceed with the relationship in real life.Though a lot of ava's proclaim their true love to someone, I see most relationships here as temporary. I had the fortune of meeting people that are still around, something selden seen in AChat, but I am always counting on them to leave one day or the other, as real life takes over, maybe taking the need for AChat away. With that in the back of my mind, I can understand why AChat would focus more on stimulating lots of connections between people, an active community which draws new members, as to stimulate exclusive relationships to form…
Being a romantic guy, I can very much relate to the idea yet I see it more applicable practically in a different surrounding as this one
I don't believe they give a chapel, church, convent or something like that.
But what a bout a new room, with more romantic interieur (for those who like it)? We have room extras now, so a room, looking like a wonderful wedding suite with a big bed, candles, dimmed lights (a bit darker then the rooms suddenly are) would be a good beginning.Mike, it's great you found something special in this short time. If you want a wedding cerenomy, ask me, I will be your priest
I'm surprised you didn't hear my knees knocking together loudly from how much I was shivering, standing in the snow, Medjai. Tehehe.
The idea to add specific wedding-oriented poses would make sense for people who want to recreate the traditional ceremony with their spouse, but the developers would have to weigh the cost of their time and effort to create the poses, chapel, etc. And weigh it with the importance and relativity to their community. Will monogamy win over polygamy? Or even Polyfidelity? (I know you can have more than 1 spouse but I'm speaking in the traditional sense.) I have suggested this before, but I think it will be easier to role play a wedding through dialogue than expect AChat to create a wedding theme any time soon. Just my opinion.
Oh, and yes, I have designed a few banners before.
Keiko, You are one of the best fashion designers out here. How about some wedding dresses? And maybe some special bridal lingerie? I'd love for my spouse & I to wear those together
. I don't believe they give a chapel, church, convent or something like that.
But what a bout a new room, with more romantic interieur (for those who like it)? We have room extras now, so a room, looking like a wonderful wedding suite with a big bed, candles, dimmed lights (a bit darker then the rooms suddenly are) would be a good beginning.Mike, it's great you found something special in this short time. If you want a wedding cerenomy, ask me, I will be your priest
My spouse & I have been together since September 2011. She's very special to me in many ways. One thing I like to do as far as rooms go is to recognize my room as our room, or our home, because that's what it is for us. It's our sanctuary of of love & a safety net for us to share as a loving couple. As Lover said, some special room extras would be nice to get, as well as maybe some different settings. Example, in the city skyline room, why not create the option for snow outside during the Winter months? Being from New York City, I see my share of snow. It's little things like this that would help create a special. loving environment for you & that special person, not even necessarily a spouse. A special friend, or a special lover.
And yes Lover……I might just take you up on your offer to be a priest for a wedding ceremony for Chantall & myself. I'll let you know when & where. It'll probably take place on our yacht
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