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  • #77367
    Momma_andrea
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      I'm guilty of many times logging in and waiting for someone in particular. So Im usually doing something else and not paying attention.
      but even when I'm not, I usually don't respond to “HI”  or “hello”  and if you call me mommy it's over. The point is I need more. get my attention with something. Recite Shakespear or comment on my clothes ( I have spent gobs of money on them) Many of us ladies actually put thought into what our avatar has on. I know I do. I change my clothes depending on my mood. Its the same as in real life, tell a girl you like her dress and why. and you will get a thank you and it can go from there.

      #77368
      tangoracer
      Participant

        Hello mercer78
        As a guy here I always read the ladys profile page to try and get same idea to what they may like.
        But I know lots of guys and girls out there don't read them at all. And i'm with Momma_andrea about hi and hello never a good starter.

        If I am starting a convertion  with someone new yes hello is the first word but it is very quickly fallowed by something about the person may be there eyes,hair,cloths and I have even used the action of there avatar.I know how long the lady's take on them as I always say how good they look.
        Hope that helps a little
               Tango

        #77369
        hentaiboy69
        Participant

          Andrea and Master Tango are right…..a simple hello can't be enough!

          So many time happen it's followed by an invitation to room togheter and usually i refuse it. As Master Tango said, read the profile and you can find a good hint to start the conversation! for example, some girls had start to talk to me cause they find a little incredible i'm a guy (my avi is a shemale in AChat) and they ask me about it. It's a start like another but it make you understand they spend time reading description and not only looking at your avi and feel the urge to have sex with you!

          #77370
          Momma_andrea
          Participant

            A good case in point.  I had just bought the blue Qipao dress and I had agonized over the decision for a day or more. I couldn't decide on the blue or the the more pinkish one and I couldn't afford both.  SO I put it on with white stockings and garters and black shoes and Immediatly Im getting comments about the dress or some comments about how my legs look in it.  Now I had just been real insecure about buying it , now all these guys were commenting on it.   

            I tried my best to answer everyone of them. They were sweet and said what a girl needed to hear when she needed it.
            Chance? Pure luck? Maybe. but I answered.

            #77371
            tangoracer
            Participant

              Well Momma_andrea looks like people do read the forums may be  :)

              Lets hope so any way

              Tango

              #77372
              Lover
              Participant

                In fact you need to be different then all the others are. 99% say hi or hello  or “do you wanna fuck?” And sometimes it's hard to answer (especially for the girls) because they get plenty of welcomes and cold invites.
                It's always helpful to say something about the clothes they are wearing or the banner or the profile pic they have.

                And you need to be patient. Try and try again and you will be successfull in the end.

                #77373
                ssgt
                Participant

                  Be a gentleman.Treat the lady like a lady.  Compliment her looks, clothing, hair and eyes.  Remember they want to look their best and they like knowing you realize the time the took to look like the do. They are dressing to please you.

                  #77374
                  Rukya
                  Participant

                    personnaly , i try , if i'm not busy , to anwser even to “hi” . But when i  anwsered to someone who say just hi , i wait for her/him to say something else before start a real chat .

                    #77375
                    Brandybee
                    Participant

                      Well said Ssgt.   Its always nice to have an ego boost about the effort put into your profile & vice versa.  I like a guy with a good sense of humour too, mixed with a little arrogance  …  

                      I take more notice of guys who treat first contact as that, first contact and chat up for a potential  date…  guess I like to test if the chemistry is there first before rooming   ;D    And I'm sure they are testing the same  :)

                      #77376
                      Lydiarose
                      Participant

                        sometimes I will answer to hi, it depends what kind of mood  Im in,
                        Like Andrea  I have spend the last week deciding  on what  to wear over the xmas on here,
                        Ssgt; we all know that you are a Gentleman lol

                        #77377
                        Covems
                        Participant

                          I don't have to worry about any of that with Robot Girl.  All I have to do is ask “Are you 36.243.1?” 

                          She says  “Hello Honey.”

                          And I say “Hiya Baby.”

                          And she says.  “You little bitch!”

                          Then I invite. 

                          Or … with a real person… I like this one.

                          Covems:  “Hello.  Do you believe in the Here After?”

                          Nice lady:  “Yes, I do.”

                          Covems:  “Good, then you know what I'm here after.  :)

                          Sometimes that works… most times it doesn't.

                          On a more serious note, I just use the golden rule and treat others the way I like to be treated.  Sometimes all I want to do is just chat.

                          #77378
                          tangoJane
                          Participant

                            LOL @  Covems  :-* :-*

                            Hi  and Hello never work for my  and  Do you want a fuck = ignore list

                            READ MY PROFILE PAGE is the answer Hi and Hello get

                            Be nice and talk to me

                            #77379
                            hentaiboy69
                            Participant

                              On a more serious note, I just use the golden rule and treat others the way I like to be treated.  Sometimes all I want to do is just chat.

                              Best hint of the day, Covems! i'm with you on all the line and it's a rule who work for the real world too, of course!

                              #77380
                              mercer78
                              Participant

                                Wow thanks for all the great advice guys.  I do sometimes try to make comments on clothes and banners and such maybe I should do that a lot more often.  As for coming up with clever things to say never been all that great at that maybe that's why I'm single in real life lol. Thanks again for taking the time to answer me you're all awesome.  ;D

                                #77381
                                Adera
                                Participant

                                  I wouldn't say that I only dress to please others, quite often I dress to please my own vanity as well. ::)

                                  Anyway a hi or hello is very common and it doesn't stick out in the least so it rarely catches my attention. A witty comment or something of the sort is much more likely to catch my attention and make me interested in actually talking some to the person.

                                  However, a lot of people, even those that had a good way to get my attention often end up way short… and that's because in the next few messages they'll ask me to room with them. I mostly decline those requests at once, I'm rarely interested in rooming right of the bat and definitely not with someone I don't know at all.

                                  To really break the ice and get me interested is if I get the feeling that there is some sexual tension with whom I'm chatting with and not just a one sided desire to get off. But of course that's quite picky so I mostly end up only chatting when I'm online, I'm perfectly fine with that myself but I guess there are many who primarily want to get off when they log on.

                                  I guess that what I want to say is that even though you might get a response, or more, the conversation can die very quickly if you're looking for different things.

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