Confine kinky or vanilla topics – BDSM yes or no?

[tangoracer]

Lover

Just a thought on the topic

May be the writer of the post could write a small warning banner that the post contains DBSM content.

As Miss ChristinaK did with her posts with Blue back at the start of the the Ice House (page 5)

**A WORD OF WARNING TO THE READER.  THIS WAS DISCUSSED BY BOTH BLU AND MY SELF BEFORE IT WAS WRITTEN.  THIS IS THE WAY BDSM IS PLAYED OUT IN REAL LIFE.  RARELY IS A BDSM SCENE SPONTANEOUS.  THEY ARE CAREFULLY PLANNED AND EXECUTED.  DO NOT TRY THIS WITH SOMEONE UNLESS YOU HAVE DISCUSSED IT WELL IN ADVANCE.**

Or maybe we can ask mrsexlover to make us a warning banner so its the same for everyone 

Just a thought  Master Tango  

[hentaiboy69]

Tango, i had try to find out a better way too then simply use the “!” simbol, cause at last, it's not clear for new users when they come here the first time.
Maybe we can add some few line in “posting rules” as a warning for new users who are interessed in BDSM and want to share their experience or pics about it……more visibility we give to this signal, more easily it will be to get used to it!

[mrsexlover]

if you like you can use this at the start, it's a first concept to what Tango was dicussing, it also display's the ! symbol in it

Just let me hear what you think

[tangoracer]

Well that was fast mrsexlover Love it

Just the sort of thing I was thinking of 

Thanks Tango

[hentaiboy69]

uhmmm…..it's ok to add it at the begin of thread, so i think we can use it (Hellokitty, lol! nice choise!  ) but the problem is when you can only see the list  of threads. we need an icon who recognize the suject immiadiately! and till the Dev-team are not going one to use, we can use the “!”, so please, paY attention and don't use it if it's not BDSM action!

[mrsexlover]

You're welcome Tango, i just had some time to quickly make one for you. 

[hentaiboy69]

I found this icon…..

a bit big, but it can be an idea to start with…..and i think it's pretty clear!

[Brandybee]

I like Mrsexlovers banner –  just a couple of suggestions ..  I think BDSM  should be changed to  AN  EXTREME    so it covers all kinks and fetishes  and the writing should be in bright red –  the international colour for danger or warning .. 

Great work, Martin 

[hentaiboy69]

i think Brandy is right, even if i can't see any other extreme situation……considering the one who come in my mind are all against TOS, so not allowed automatically! well, in teory!

[Brandybee]

I was thinking…  pissing, shitting,  lactating women / baby play,  more extreme of the kinks, not just confined to BDSM.  It could still be offensive to some.

I'm sure there are others too,  but those are the ones that spring to mind.

[hentaiboy69]

i see what you mean, like the story Andrea wrote where a woman roleplay to be underage……yes, this can be a good point.

Now, i think…….a banner with generic danger signal is perfect, then it's up to the artist (talking about story or pics) adding a line to explain the subject of the warning. or we can do more banner….one for every things we have in mind!

[Lover]

Martin's banner is nice. Perhaps some little changes, the rest is perfect. We may not have more banners, people may be confused instead of warned. Most important is the message icon, the exclamation point in front of the thread.

One banner and individual words in the beginning, which content there is – and the titel should be unique too.

[hentaiboy69]

I see wich mod you mean, lover……making it a bit more generic, not only about BDSM but about feticism in general too

[Momma_andrea]

I love the use of “Hello Mistress”…I mean Kitty, in the banner

[bluedenim]

ok, I have no problem with any stories, role-plays or generally unsavory behaviour being labelled as such because some people might be upset by it, but this would mean that 90% of the pictures posted need moving to a different topic/thread and especially the gif topic.
We have many topics, why can't we just have a whole section called “BDSM related topics & pictures” which anyone who might not like “BDSM” will know they should avoid and where all us dirty people can post and write as we want?

There are some topics I find extremely distasteful, should I list them and suggest labels for them? will scat, cannibalism, age-play, asphyxiation and several other “HARD” fetishes be lumped together with what I do?
There are people on Achat who find any kind of non-straight sexual behaviour anathema, should we hide that from them?
There are many homosexuals who find straight behaviour extremely offensive, what have we for them?
Achat is full of men pretending they are girls and women pretending they are girls, but I for one take things at face value
I think we would do well to remember what this site is and why people come here. Censorship of any kind should be avoided or where will we stop.

rant over!

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