Female Impostors. Male Imposters. Gender Fluid Avatars

[babybuggybumper]

Female Imposters. Male Imposters. Gender Fluid Avatars

Here’s the problem; Guys using girls avatar.

I know I can’t be the only one that’s concerned about this.
How many of you guys want to chat and be intimate with another guy using a girls avatar?

I don’t want and shouldn’t have to suspect there’s a man behind that fine looking female avatar and start the chat by asking “r u female irl”.
But I do, because there are so many men that use the female avatars.
I don’t know why they do it, but they do.

Nevertheless, We need to weed out the impostors.
Maybe make a list of those that are willing to prove their gender.
Something needs to be done about this problem.
If not then I’m going to quit coming back for good. Because BigTex don’t like to play with guys posing as a female.

[Garryz]

If it talks like a female looks like a female has sex like a female why worry its only fantasy lol, i know some females that write your name on there chest just to prove they female n email but they are rare and most ppl dont want there identitys known here. So you can only trust that most your lovers are female or just pretend lol.

[TanyaTanya]

I’ve met a lot of fake girls, but they are so obvious. Don’t worry about it. Watch out for:
naked avatar, unchanged from default avatar, no details on profile, impatient, untalkative (I don’t mean they don’t answer, I mean in a room) and so on. Essentially they act like guys. I like to discuss periods with them until they flee. 🙂

[Bear]

Stated the one reason I want to talk with my partner and ignore cold invites,…impatience, untalkative partners are boring to begin with. Though Garryz brings the crucial point. If they can act it, feel it I see no harm in it if the can complete the fantasy for themselves and their partners.

[Adera]

Tanya that seems like a good way, too bad I can’t use it and yes the traits you describe seems to fit. 😛

[sinnnn]

Honestly, WHO GIVES A FUCK. 

We have had this topic come up before.  I have had guys wanting me to send pics to prove I am a chic.  When I tell them go fuck your self,  I'm told thats how a guy would react.  WTF.  When you get a real chic, you end up pushing her away because your so damn paranoid.  Unless you plan to meet in real life, why should you care.  Hell you'd think you'd be more worried that it might be an underage kid then a guy pretending to be a chic.  Ummm honestly your fucking a female avatar,  you can't and won't be 100% sure that she is a she.  So let it go an enjoy.  The more you worry about it, the less fun you will have in a room.  Seriously, what you worried that it will make you gay or something.  Because it doesn't, in your mind its a chic.  If your dreaming of a chic, wanting a chic, seeing a chic, then your doing a chic.  Hell you got girls pretending to be guys on here an I could care less.  Not to be crude, but I will be.  A dick is a dick no matter who is pushing the buttons, same goes for pussy(if they have a really cool personality to go with it, makes it even better).  And have you thought that some of the ppl that have nothing to say in the room, just like to watch the action to get off?  Or they just really lack imagination or just want you to do all the work?

[Garryz]

See Sinnn is all female comes across so elegant when aroused lol

[sinnnn]

Hmmm depends on what mood I am in and who brings it out in me 😉

;D. You may get elegant, you may get bitch goddess and you may get riden an smacked an asked”Whose my Bitch?”

LOL.

Also guys, do you really think the chics look like the avatar. You don’t really know who is typing. Really I’m short ass hell grrrrrr. My ass is waayy bigger than the avatar and I cut my hair along time ago. They just don’t have a curly wavy puff hairstly here. Do you think if women or men could make their avatar really look like them they would(if you ask me should be proud of yourself no matter what). Would you invite a 300 pound avatar into the room? Would you ask a guy with crazy beer belly into the room? This here is fantasy. Some guys want to be chics. Some girls want to be guys. And some want to have six packs they can only dream about. Just let it go an enjoy the fantasy. Stop taking somethings so deeply.

[Bear]

Exactly sinnnn, who cares as long as long as they play well with you. I am more concerned about a person being silent, unimaginative,..impatient than looks. If I can't make a connection to them with words wtf do I care if that are some slim, model type with nothing between the ears. I'd rather just watch video porn then 2 avatars silently fucking on a screen with an occasional “ooo”,  “ahh”  thrown in,… like that makes me all excited….

It's the person behind the avatar who matters.

[Adera]

Bear I agree with you. If people just want to lie back and expect me to do all the work or want me to watch silently too I get terribly disinterested. I usually end up surfing and chatting until the ordeal is over cause I don’t have the heart to just exit as some are really thankfull after it anyway.

One of the guys pretending to be a girl told me right out he was a guy and then we went into a room with him as a male, much more fun. ;D

[sinnnn]

Come to think about it isn’t elegant another way of saying faking it? Seriously, sex is wild, free, uncontrollable, passionate, toe curling madness, beautiful, loving, and it can be a work of art. A girls response to me is beautiful, freeing. When I think of elegance, I think of dancing. Something that has been practiced over an over again til its perfect or applying make up, or how one carries oneself. Elegence sounds like practing my orgasms over an over in a mirror til know one can tell I am faking. :-

Hmmm maybe I have to be a guy to understand it. ;D ;D ;D

I refuse to do all the work. Hell there are times I am lost for words

😉 but afterfew minutes I’m back in the game. I believe in sharing. Hell making sure my partner is getting off turns me on, and he/she damn well be of the like mind. Thats why I talk before I go in a room. If you can’t hold a normal converstion what makes me think you can entertain me. I get ppl asking are you a girl, are you really that dark, are you this or that. And I don’t waste my time on them. If your so hung up about whats on the other side of the computer, then your really going to be no fun in the room.

[Adera]

Sinnnn your putting things in such nice words. 😛

[Unhealer]

you can guess it easier than asking. its not like you need a degree in gender psychology.
most of the hookers= guys
“my status says bisexual but I'm only doing girls today” = Guy
your best bet is to search up hetero girls only, most of the guys on girl avatars will do bisexual or homo because theyre “straight” irl.
and if a guy pretends to be a hetero female hes probably a girl on the inside anyways

[Janine Dee]

You want to solve this problem? All the guys who insist on knowing it’s really a girl on the other side must get a confirmed penis measurement so their avatar can be adjusted.

;D Bet that would shut them right up.

And frankly if this girl who may be a guy can carry on a conversation beyond “Hi” *cold invite* then they are damn well worth my time. 😛

[sinnnn]

Lets get real, you guys wouldn't be able to tell the differents anyway.  An aggressive chic must be guy,  ummm could it be she is just a take charge kind of gal.  A chic who doesn't stroke your ego must be a guy.  A bi who just in the mood for girl interaction has to be a guy.  Please.  There are times I just want to be with a guy or just a girl.  There are times I want to be with both, so does that mean I am a she-male.  You can't sit there an figure it out.  All ppl personalities are different, no one has the same mannerism.  There are times I can be as feminine as can be, or I can make a guy feel like a chic. 

Your technique in sniffing out the dick, ummm sucks.  No offense. 

If the person in the room is doing you just the way you like, who gives a fuck what gender they are.  You got off right.  That was what you was looking for. 

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