For those who have a short name here is a way that will help you
Work out your's and your partners names then add then together and then half it close to 100 the better
TANGORACER
T=20 A=1 N=14 G=7 O=15 R=18 A=1 C=3 E=5 R=18 = 101
HENTAIBOY
H=8 E=5 N=14 T=20 A=1 I=9 B=2 O=15 Y=25 = 101
so 101 + 101 = 202 /2 = 101 
WOW we are perfect for each other my love