Awwww, *HUGS* Zu, well my “instant” invite in meeting place is a “crap” shoot, works when it wants, usually makes me relog at least once, is a bit frustrating. But I never thought bout the problem being “gender” specific. Zu might have something there, or I might just need a NEW LAPTOP :, But I would really be SAD if I could not see others dancing, I am not aware of experiencing this unigue “glitch”. I also , agree with Zu, that even when I get a successful invite and acceptance, the longer you dance the more likely you are to “glitch” or get out of “synch” with your partner. Clean up in Aisle #1 please Achat Gods.