Hey gelisio80 ,
There are many people on here, from many walks of life, some strange, some pleasant, some will have language barriers , our fabulous “Cookie Monsters” and the ones we make good friends with.
I have found personally from experience there are different phases in this game, whether you agree or not, I have found they are surprisingly correct.
Phase 1 = Kid in a sweet shop, have sex with anything that will take you in a room, Male, Female, Shemale, or your preference, it doesn’t matter. This is where you enjoy the game and learn the craft of playing and what you like and don't like.
Phase 2 = Bored of meaningless sex, looking for a relationship, where you have regular harem lovers, that you care for but not particularly for a special one. This is where you are calming down and honing your skills to the way you like to play and build more lasting friendships.
Phase 3 = Special lover or spouse, who becomes priority. You still play but with ground rules agreed with your special partner. You will leave a room and go to your special lover as soon as you are able to go to your special lover / spouse with out causing too much offence to the partner you are with.
You have someone special who is like minded and you both enjoy each others style of play.
Phase 4 = Special lover or spouse and exclusive, no other lovers. The only thing you do with someone else is dance and talk. No sex or nudity. You have found your perfect play mate and you either choose not to play with others or naturally go exclusive as you find that no one else really measures up to this special partner
Phase 5 = Meet in Real Life. You both agree to meet in a real life encounter as your relationship has grown and nourished.
You can move up and down through the phases as things happen or it comes to a natural or unnatural conclusion and a relationship ends.
I find that if you identify which phase the person is in you are talking to, it goes someway to explain and understand their behaviour in the game.
If you are in the same phase, you will no doubt have something in common and most likely become friends and chat more.
If for example you are in phase 3 and the person you are talking to is in phase 1, the likelihood is that at some point, depending on their manners, they will abandon you, sometimes with warning, some times without, to room and show yellow. Most don't even realise this behaviour is annoying until they move up the phases and it happens to them. Just remember, its not personal, its just a different phase. They just need to lean etiquette and will in time.
Like HB, I'm not sure either what has annoyed you but all I can advise is patience and tolerance can pay dividends. Tantrums and feeling sorry for yourself does not endear you to people. So ignore the silly behaviour and keep up the search for people in similar phases.
Here in forum is a great place to start. Personally I think the best players are in the Forum Village because we actually care for the game and the people in it.
Have fun now.
