Is Language that much of a barrier

[sinnnn]

decided to ask this question. kind of started in another post.

There are lots of lovely ppl here, just have to dig threw the trash to get to them. (yeah I said it). But there are some ppl you think are dicks and they aren’t because english or other languages is not their 1st. I had misunderstood someone once and I said sorry once we got everything straighten out. But honestly if you think about it this way, if you had a chance to learn a new language and first words you want to learn is:

You fuck
Sex yes?
You get the picture. Then are they really worth getting to know? They didn’t try to learn ” Hi how are you? My name is….What is yours?”
Somthing nice to break the ice.

[Adera]

What the… “bobby is evil”… lol. How should I vote… hmm. :-X 😛 ;D

I care quite abit about their language, if I can’t communicate well with my partner its not worth it. The real fun starts when things get more descriptive or if you mix in some naughty roleplay.

And the language of choice is english in my case, I think I’ve used swedish two times when rooming so there wouldn’t be much fun for me then. I got abit lost when rooming here at Achat with a swedish guy for the first time, my brain was kinda hardwired to use english in this setting. My trail of thought was like this in the beginning “hmm whats the equivalent of cock in swedish… oh yeah its kuk… wait… it sounds so nasty in swedish… a well nasty it is then”.

[Janine Dee]

I was tempted to vote Bobby is evil because that is a sound platform I believe we can all get behind, but I had to vote it depends because there needs to be a flow to the communication. The language barrier can be a big impediment. That's not to say it must be, but that it's one of the easier issues to arise.

[Anonymous]

WTF?!?!?!?
you little munchkin   

[Bear]

One poll I am going pay attention to,… 😀

see if bobler wins this…

At first no,…and now,…that would be a criteria I would require. Ability of my partner to relay what they feel in response,..ability to lead me to places beyond the poses…quite frankly I would be looking for peeps to push me there, not stumble though I remember some sexy qualities to imperfect English. (but been too spoiled…way too spoiled)

[Lover]

As I love to use words for the mood and actions, the language is important. I hate to click the pictures and just look at it. Then I can watch pornos and handle myself. In my mind, AChat is much more and this is a big chance. And I love to do some smalltalk before and after (sometimes between ;))

I have the same experiences as Adera. Sometimes when I’m with a German girl I have to think about the terms – they seem to be strange in a special way as in my head AChat is english.
I use the German translation in the interface as I still am working/testing it. Believe me, it’s feeling funny

:- I’m sure I will use the english version when I’m ready.

To your next question – today it is possible for everyone to use a translator. Even if the results sometimes are silly, it’s a sign of caring for your partner/communication. I always laugh if girls are talking to me in english (saying hello, how are you) and they are german. Then I know, they just are picking someone out and not reading the description.

[Adera]

Adera starts to shake it to “Yolanda Be Cool & DCUP – We No Speak Americano”.

[TightFit74]

As I first started on Achat i was a hunter, tried to room as much as I could. Had more than 50 friends on my list. But as I progressed through the game, got more experience ànd discovered this was the perfect place to share my passion for stories and fantasies, language became more and more important to me. Although I have no porbelm with switching form english to dutch, i do see english as my primary language here online.
A partner with a good imagination and the feel for language to express herself has become more and more important. It has become a criteria for me. It offers so much more depth to the experience, can create a different setting each time and each personality makes the story different each time. That’s the thrill. Not being able to connect with that, does make it hard to at least one side to enjoy the full experience. On the other hand, and I do see that as a plus, I do like to please.Bblowing my partners mind with writing for her, makes me very, very content. So there 😀

[Anonymous]

2 votes for me 

[Bear]

Ante’ hasn’t voted yet, and after the naked av’ comments you may pick up the third ;D ;D ;D

[Anonymous]

that's ok…i haven't voted yet either 

and what's wrong with my comment? when her av is naked…it's always facing away 

[Antebellum]

LOL…I was actually the first to vote that Bobby was evil.

😛 I just hadn’t added a comment. 😀

Truly though, have had some good experiences with those limited in english…though they were kind enough to use a translator and even teach me a few sayings in their native tongue. However, if very limited in english, I have to pass….I like my words to enhance the experience; otherwise, it’s just two avatars dancing on the screen. And like many have said before me, I could just watch good porn, why bother?

AND Bobby, my avatar is DRESSED thank you very much! 😛 😛 😛

[Anonymous]

sorry ante…i edited my post

but you know…your avatar spends so much time naked (and on it's back) that i forgot that you have clothes on it now     

[Anonymous]

and i think someone wants to experience my evil tongue     

[sinnnn]

@Bobby
Oh my and who could that be? 

@Ant
You said it perfectly.  Even tho I don't want them to teach me any language for the bedroom.  Really my mouth is already foul as it is and I wouldn't use what I learned for Good but for EVIL(MUAHAHAHAHAHA).

[Author]

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