I think we've all been approached in a like manner.
Like Ramesses, I'll allow them to ask just once and explain to them that I will never, ever and that if they ask again they will go on my ignore list. Some take the hint, some get ignored.
This is a fantasy site and not a dating agency, although there are some (very) strange people on here.
Each to their own, I'm not prepared to take the risk, “silence of the lambs” in the USA?
watching a guy stroke on a webcam, can be very erotic…altho, i think he benefits from it more than the female does. still, if your close enuff to someone and that is something they are into. i find it very pleasing to compromise with my partner. no matter if its something i prefere n he doesnt or vice vera.. and then theres always the things you both care for. makes things a little spicier. as long as neither pushes to the point of crossing a line. communication takes care of that.
I'll explain. I like Fantasy agree that it can be a very erotic experience between two lovers, however, I dont see the fascination of a person you just met wanting to show you everything on a cam. Once you get to know someone, well then it would be nice, not to a person you just met.