In terms of more mainstreamed play… those are perfect choices.. Brandy…
Use of a rose… or rose petal tracing light along the body… or across a nipple….delisiously teasing a partner cuffed or bound to the bed…
Ice cubes.. lace…. a wide satin ribbon… or the tickle of soft rabbit fur….something as subtle as the breath of another…. melted wax… or heated body butter dripped lazily across the skin and slowly cleaned away…all those tug on the erotic sense of the play.
It does not fall int the wilder… extreme side of bdsm play…. but truly for those that enjoy the sensual aspect of it… those are important components.
Quite frankly… elemnets I think all would love to have opened in pose development for that special someone and that perfect moment…
mmm that is when you want the lights turned low… and candles illuminating the skin of your lover…