Nice post. Well i come here to chat n play, get a lot of spam for gifts, but to me its easy to ignore people who spam, I would have thought woman could deline a gift but sounds as if you can't which is all wrong you should have that option. I never would GiFT a stranger and the ones who spam to me are more likely to be under age, no thanx
The other day I noticed something really sad about how this community is looking to a newcomer. I saw a girl online with a description along the lines of “New here. I don't know what a gift is, but I sure want one!”. It's a plague I tell you!
More and more I get the wish for a wordplay. In Germany, gift = poison; I think it would be funny, if all members could give poison as gift. Of course, the person who gets it has to take it!