I have played a few years here now and have always taken the view that most Shemales or T Gurls are male either living out their fantasy, possibly considering a RL gender change or just want to play an avatar that is half and half.
Whatever their reasons, it is their business and their choice to play the game the way they wish, just like me. Most pay to play so it is their choice.
I also have taken the view that if a female name is chosen, then I refer to her as a she.
If it is a unisex name, I also refer to them as she unless the player indicates different. Mostly because from the outside, shemales look female.
In the whole time I have been here, I have been lucky enough to have friends across the board & there has only ever been 2 shemales who I have treated as male as that is how they saw themselves and preferred to be male.
However people wish to play these games, being kind, being nice and being respectful to each other is more important. Sharing experiences and pleasant conversations makes all of us more tolerant and more understanding of fantasies, fetishes and kinks.
Is it okay to play Gender fluid? Yes, its that persons choice as they invested time, money and effort into their avatar and are living out their fantasy. After all, isn’t that why we are all here?
Should you tell your partners… probably but most know its a fantasy and never moving to real life. As long as no false promises are made and RL does not become involved, keep on living the fantasy and dream.
