Question for the ladies. Login Routine?

[mercer78]

Hello there thanks for taking the time to read my topic. Can you describe for me your routine when you login to achat?  For example when i log on first thing i do is check if any of my friends or lovers are on if not then I do a search. Genuinely curious about this any input would be appreciated thanks.

[hentaiboy69]

You ask this to the ladies, mercer, but let me say this anyway: i think your routine is the the same i follow! first, i'd like to see if one of my spouse, lover or friend is on….i think it's a natural thig! and to tell you the true, it's so rare i'll gonna start a search cause i usually tend to spend my time chatting or rooming with people i know

and not to mentuion cold and people who just contact me writing a simple “hi”!

[mercer78]

Thanks for the response hentaiboy looks like we have similar in approach. I wasn't trying to exclude anyone it's just that I have a feeling that ladies go through a different process and am curious to hear what it is.

[Lover]

First I do is check my messages (if I see the sing is flashing) and look for the sender to answer. Sometimes we also get relations messages, almost from people I don't know. The other I have talked before and we agreed to become friends…
Then I look for my lady and afterwards scroll through the lists.

[Pink_Rose]

I can't speak for all women..
but I do the same y'all do.
If I have a message flashing I check it and the same for relationship request.
Then I look to see if I have a spouse,lover,or friend on.
I don't search through the entire people search often though.
It's pretty much the same routine you do.

[Momma_andrea]

1. I check any flashing messages or relationship requests.
2. I look for a new outfit to put on. Then change clothes.
3. ignore all the ” hi baby”s as I try to change clothes
4. change my tagline if it needs it
5. check and see if lovers or friends are on.

[Rukya]

1 – checking my messages and anwsering them
2 – changing my outfit
3 – looking for my spouses/lovers/friends
4 – starting a new search

[hentaiboy69]

Well, it looks like the approach is similar for everyone…..

Of course, i check message too but correct me if i'm wrong….the message and relation button aren't they flashing even without new message or request!? i have this impression, but io can be wrong

[Rukya]

The message button is flashing when you have a message . The relation button is flashing each time you have a new friend/lover/spouse request or each time someone accept/refuse one of your requests or each time someone cancel a friend/lover/spouse relation

[Covems]

Of course, i check message too but correct me if i'm wrong….the message and relation button aren't they flashing even without new message or request!? i have this impression, but io can be wrong

If you keep messages, the message buttons will flash, regardless if they're new messages or old ones.  I have a few messages that I've kept this way.  They are kisses from a few people… that way when I start my AChat session, I start it with those kisses. 

[Pookie77]

that way when I start my AChat session, I start it with those kisses. 

That is so sweet

In answer to your question, here is what I do:
I log in
Put myself on “busy for all”
Take care of any Relationships”
Take care of “Messages”… both receiving and sending
Change clothing (but only if I'm on a 3 day subscription)
Check to see if any friends are on
Take myself off “busy for all”
Deny multiple cold invites
Fend off all the “hi bb”
Go through the search

[mercer78]

Thanks so much people I really appreciate you all taking the time to contribute, this is all very helpful.

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