lol you should dump the mormon business, I know eventually I had a giant wall of lies. I actually developed a mormon alter-ego after a while just to talk to my dad and all of these mormon guys who couldnt turn their preaching switch off.
If you feel you wanna send a pic, ask your partner. But be sure, this is the intnernet – and you never know the other one good enough. If the other one is asking you once and you disagree… and he is asking on and on, just tell him “no” and then forget him.
It's very simple, as the other told you: Do, what you wanna do and do not, what you don't wanna do. A real nice partner always will accept this.