Reconciling Social Intellect and Sexual Aggression

[GutZ]

I am not sure if this is an interesting topic to discuss, or people can relate but, I am finding myself in a greater and greater dilemma in any scenario sexually. I find myself half in / half out at times trying to reconcile two aspects. The obstruction of the intellectual social aspect with the primal raw sexual expression. I never had that issue in the past.  I never equated the sexual actions of humans as being animalistic, but now it's way to apparent to ignore. The only thing that seems to alleviate it is a deep or stronger connection with someone. However that takes a while to develop. Especially for someone as odd as I am.

The thing is I have no illusions to my base nature. I have no beef with the primal passion of two or more people going at it like their lives depend on it. I just cannot seem the shake the image for myself of (pick your animal) banging with no meaning or relevance. The emotionless dismount back to restart the biological programming loop. It just seems so….I don't know.

Playing this game has added a second degree of separation as well. It's got me thinking about it again, Pleasuring someone completely is the biggest turn on for me, so I want find away to accept it. If I am not 100% in it doesn't feel right to engage either.

Anyways yeah. O_o

[Marniejo]

Sadly, most use this place for that animalistic pleasure drive. There are some who like and seek a deeper connection . Some of us have found our mate, our happy ever afters. Just take your time. Spend time getting to know people. Don't let your partner pressure you to perform if you don't wish to. I have friends here I have never went further than a dance with. It can happen. First advice. Guard your heart.  Pay attention to actions and attitudes. There are kind souls here, and the kind with no souls. Tread lightly. Good luck!

[Anatasia97]

Well said..

[Gigi__1]

Gutz,  your real-life guy is, tragically, burdened with the responsibility of conducting yourself in a civil manner toward your life-partner or significant-other, as well as toward society in general.  Your game guy needs to shut up and fuck, like the animal that you actually are.  Don't ruin your otherwise very casual, relaxing, and tremendously fun game experience by deciding that you have to behave here the way that you (sadly) have to behave in real.

[Pandorra]

I beg to differ.
I do not behave the way I do because of anyone. I do it because of myself. Yeah, freaking selfish as I am.
There is a nice word I'd like to quote: “I don't act like a lady because you are a lady or a gent. I do because I am.” I think you get the point.

Whoever likes jump-and-run games banging like rabbits, welcome. I am not into it at all. I'd rather like to share intimate moments than watching cartoon porn. But again, that's just me. If everyone involved is fine with it, everything goes.

But to me it is a matter of respect. Though I don't care much about who you are, I care about what you are. Certainly a human being if you type, right? And as such you deserve the same amount of respect as if I'd meet you in person. (At last until you prove different.)
And the same respect I postulate for myself. So the quickest way on my ignore list is to address me something like: “Hi BB, fuck?” or same worse a cold.

To wrap it up – a civil manner to me is neither a burden nor tragical. It is the glue to build relations. And for my understanding a civil and polite person is not only a gift to others, but honors itself. So whoever likes to behave like a bonobo in the zoo, have fun.
Just keep out of my way.

Or to give another quote: “Truly powerful women don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage those who don't give it to them.”

In this regard, have fun everybody.

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