Relationship building functions

[Nicoquin]

first of all, THANK YOU !!!!!! from my heart !

second, just one thing : how to promote someone from friend to lover ?

and third (the last) : how will it deal with the room ?

but, once again, THANK YOU !

Nicoquin

PS : is it normal that demands are not shown until you logout / login ?

[tom]

friend to lover: you have to cancel friendship and start the lover relationship
this has nothing to do with the room, if you have an idea please share with us!

ps.:  yes, demands will be checked after login only

tom

[Anonymous]

good:

thank you for the different relationship options. that is good.

bad:

i do not think the member's friends, lovers & spouse(s) should be seen by the “public”…all of the other members.  the list should be private to each member, just like the ignore list is.

i honestly don't care to see the friends, lovers & spouse(s) of the other members..at all.

and if a person has a relationship with another but shows it differently than what the other expects, i think it might cause problems.

[Anonymous]

I agree with bobbler. Really nice work, but I really looked for a private list too.

I'd also like for a real practical use of it, being able to search for friends only or to somehow see when a friend comes online or at least seeing an icon next to their name or a different color on them in the search result list.
Right now it only seems like a way to boast to others and that's not what I was looking for at all.

[Nicoquin]

[…]
this has nothing to do with the room, if you have an idea please share with us!
[…]

i think that it may be useful if you do the multi-people room (common friends can chat in a room or have 3some … things like that – already talked about in a different thread)
or why not opening some scenes that need some $AChat (in a limited way, of course)

also, why not being able to give gifts to friends (some premium stuff sent to free friends)

a lot of things can be done !

it's a really great improvement for AChat !

Nicoquin.

[Willyco]

Thanks for it… greatful news!

a quickly problem… the arrows to change page disappear when you select a user  and clik the buttons to view his/her lists… is impossible to view lists bigger than 7 users or change page of a search if the list is empty.

If I can propose something, make private the lovers and spouse lists only for the users present's in that lists… or add a ceck button in the request and in the accept form to make the name visible or unvisible to all…

Good work and go on!!!!

(now the multi room is more near than yesterday  )

[Master Shakkaz]

I agree. Make the list private ASAP. I don't want girls to go ignoring me or something because they saw some other woman in a different spot or higher than them on my list. I don't want trouble at all to be precise. I'm happy that the list is here finally but man… how did that slip past the board. lol. Its like saying, hey, come have access to everyone I know.

[tom]

a quickly problem… the arrows to change page disappear when you select a user  and clik the buttons to view his/her lists… is impossible to view lists bigger than 7 users or change page of a search if the list is empty.

the arrows disappear only because the list is too short… if the list contains more than 7 rows the arrows will be there, or at least should be there 

tom

[tom]

I don't want girls to go ignoring me or something because they saw some other woman in a different spot or higher than them on my list. I don't want trouble at all to be precise.

Is not it possible then, that you don't put the girls on your list?
Or do you want to show to the girl that you are her lover without announcing that fact to others? An in the case, when you have more secret lovers, would you display the number of your lovers, or would you keep this number also private?

tom

[Suriban]

Hi, just want to say it's great that you guys take suggestions on board and this is a good addition but I agree that the lists should be private to the user.

the arrows disappear only because the list is too short… if the list contains more than 7 rows the arrows will be there, or at least should be there 

tom

I think maybe what Willyco is referring to is something I've come across (which would be unnecessary to fix if the lists are made private  ). If I click to view a members friend, lover or spouse and they have none I get a message saying there was no search found and then the arrows have disappeared. I have to start a new search and go back to the beginning of the members list to change pages again.

[Willyco]

I think maybe what Willyco is referring to is something I've come across (which would be unnecessary to fix if the lists are made private  Wink). If I click to view a members friend, lover or spouse and they have none I get a message saying there was no search found and then the arrows have disappeared. I have to start a new search and go back to the beginning of the members list to change pages again.

Yes is exactly that I mean…

to make the lists privates isn't possible to add a button in the profile editor to show or hidden the personal lists?
and why the friends lists are pubblic and the ignore list isn't it?

oh… another request… can be possible to use the new relationship-state corner to indicate when a use put us in the ignore list??? is boring discover it only saying something and receiv the ignore message… and to discover if we are removed from that list, we must repeat often a “test” message

[Anonymous]

I don't want girls to go ignoring me or something because they saw some other woman in a different spot or higher than them on my list. I don't want trouble at all to be precise.

Is not it possible then, that you don't put the girls on your list?
Or do you want to show to the girl that you are her lover without announcing that fact to others? An in the case, when you have more secret lovers, would you display the number of your lovers, or would you keep this number also private?

tom

yes. all people on the list, friends, lovers & spouses, should be private to the members involved only.

[Master Shakkaz]

Tom, what person wants their other lovers shown to others? This should be kept private period. Just like how messengers and other places allow you to keep friends private, this should also be private. Its not a matter of being ashamed to let some know that she's my lover but doesn't mean you can go around saying you have 6 different lovers and they clash because they didn't know. Maybe you would tell your spouse or lover that you have various lovers but I'm sure a good amount of us would definitely not do that. Not irl, not online, and certainly, not on AChat.

That shouldn't have left the board… Make lists private with the next update or at least the option ASAP.

[brandy]

    Ok, I see that I am the first girl to say anything about this list, so here goes. I don't mind people being able to see who my friends are. I do not like people seeing who my lovers are. If there was some way of putting the list as hidden that would be a very good thing in my opinion. I can see people getting their feelings hurt….and really this is supposed to be a fun game, not drama over where you are on a list 

      You guys do a great job, thanks for that.

[Ninni]

I completly agree with Brandy. The list is great and a good tool. And its ok that anyone can see who my friends are, but please not my lovers!

A girl should be able to have secrets (and guys too). So please do the lover and spouse list in private. The other option would be to ignore the lover and spouse option totally and ad all to your friends list. But this wouldnt have been the intention of tom and rab….

Ninni
(second girl, following bobblers request)

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