Relationship building functions

[Ninni]

I completly agree with Brandy. The list is great and a good tool. And its ok that anyone can see who my friends are, but please not my lovers!

A girl should be able to have secrets (and guys too). So please do the lover and spouse list in private. The other option would be to ignore the lover and spouse option totally and ad all to your friends list. But this wouldnt have been the intention of tom and rab….

Ninni
(second girl, following bobblers request)

[Anonymous]

thank u ninni

:-*

[brandy]

Ninni….thanks i was feeling pretty outnumbered being here all alone and yes we all need our secrets, i was just going to add friends and all to lovers 

[nana]

+1 girls, relationship must be private

[Big_Leo]

Ok, first sorry for being another male 

I'll join in with Brandy's and Ninni's opinion. I'm not the kind of person who'll get hurt because someone else is on my friends' lovers list, but I can imagine some people who would. I support the idea of having different levels of relationships (even if I don't understand the need for “spouse” here), but I also support the fact that info such as lovers should be kept private and available only to the people concerned.

Let me still thank you for listening to our rantings guys, and try to implement them as best you can. 

P.S. Personal message to the girls: it's quality that matters, not quantity 

[himmi]

I completly agree with Brandy. The list is great and a good tool. And its ok that anyone can see who my friends are, but please not my lovers!

A girl should be able to have secrets (and guys too). So please do the lover and spouse list in private. The other option would be to ignore the lover and spouse option totally and ad all to your friends list. But this wouldnt have been the intention of tom and rab….

Ninni
(second girl, following bobblers request)

*sign this 100%*
and because of the public view for this list -> i only add people to “friends” to keep it a bit more private

[brandy]

Ok, first sorry for being another male 

I'll join in with Brandy's and Ninni's opinion. I'm not the kind of person who'll get hurt because someone else is on my friends' lovers list, but I can imagine some people who would. I support the idea of having different levels of relationships (even if I don't understand the need for “spouse” here), but I also support the fact that info such as lovers should be kept private and available only to the people concerned.

Let me still thank you for listening to our rantings guys, and try to implement them as best you can. 

P.S. Personal message to the girls: it's quality that matters, not quantity 

I agree totally with the quality time … more men should understand THAT rule 

[Master Shakkaz]

Maybe you all skipped over me? I was the 1st to agree with bobbler and was dead set against my list being shown. I even replied Tom which I've yet to get a reply back to but it really doesn't need one. lol. I just would love my list hidden or the option to hide it. I love the addition nonetheless. Now if only I can get notification of when ppl come online oh and sounds for when I get msgs then I'd be pretty much set. lol

[John]

Hi all,

I also think that it would be a great feature if all the lists remain hidden for other users. These lists could be a help for the users himself to overview his or her contacts and they could make it easier to keep in touch with someone.

So as I said before it would be great to make these lists private with one of the next updates (if possible).

Have a nice day!

[Susanne]

Hi there…

I would welcome the hidden friends lists too.
It is enough that i feel like a nymphomaniac, when i skip through it.
But i dont want to give the wrong impression to anybody 

[Anonymous]

well it seems to be unanimous. make the lists private.

[Big_Leo]

Wow you guys were fast!

Good job on the secret relationship option!

[Master Shakkaz]

Where is this option? I don't even see it…

[brandy]

Master….when you add a new friend you have a box to tic to make it private ….so if you want people to be private you have to kick them off and re-add as private, but that works for me….i have one on my list i would gladly kick, i think he knows who im talking about

[tom]

Good job on the secret relationship option!

If you like it, we will keep it in this form. This way you can decide for each relationship if you want to keep it private or not.

tom

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