What I love about BDSM is, there are no rules. It is different for everyone and every couple and you carve it out as you go along. If a sub feels like being bratty she can be, but she knows the repercussions for doing so, LOL in fact she is relying on it.
I am a sub who loves to obey, but I also hate the “silly” games, like I would never be a pony or do some sort of performance for a Dom. I would just find that humiliating and don't wish to do it, but for another that may be a big thing.
I would crawl on the floor for my Master as he lead me by a leash but I would never eat from a bowl… but I would eat from his hand
There are as many shades of BDSM as there are shades of color in the rainbow.
Another educational thing this vanilla individual knew nothing about. Thank you