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Dear friends,
Thus far I have restricted my responses & input regarding the repeated & continuous verbal assaults and flaming against those of our family conducted by the one responsible for this post. Despite being placed on ignore by the many individual members of our House caused offense on one level or another, for over a year.. this individual is one of two who has persisted in sending, or attempting to send, terrible insults to those members through others that have had chosen not to cut off all contact with him or circumvent the no contact by sending PMs here. Most recently, other than sending a simple “tell (X) I said “^$*&%%$ you f**^$^ &%^#&^ &^*%”.. such messages including some sending chat logs in which the offender made actual death threats and wishing harm to members. In his defense I will tell you this individual falls under the “other BS” caption and still continues to flame and insult us to people we have never had contact with but whom, meet us and finding us not at all what he claims.. inform us of what is said. As far as I know none of the other actual “play” activities we choose not to partake in, encourage nor indulge is he responsible for. In fact, he and I were once friends until he took offense to some of our members asking for gifts & in one case being promised something not delivered. Once it was determined we would not be manipulated by simple verbal abuse and he was placed on ignore, his campaign of bullying transversed into repeated flaming to others, and trying to send threats and hate filled messages to our members via others.
As for those on my personal ignore list or the reasons thereof, I do not and have not shared them with any member, unless specifically asked about an individual. I do not have nor keep any specific list, would not share it if I did and instead leave the sharing of information between members to those involved or curious. In most cases, the bio/tag of some we choose not to play or involve ourselves with speak for themselves. In the case of individuals who choose to IGNORE redlight contact with us as well as in game “Ignore” by sending BS messages of hate filled tripe, threats and rhetoric to our members via other players OR continually flaming to other players we may be friends/lovers with or who in many cases we have never met.. We reserve the right to inform members up front that we wish NO contact whatever nor messages from these individuals such as the author of the original post here. From that point they may make their own conclusions and choices. You will find several members who still maintain contact or friend/lover status with these individuals.
As for the current claims;
1. -Encouraging their subs to delete users (mostly male) who have personal gripes with the masters of the house
Check the friends & lovers lists of any/all HDSR members please. You will find many male users, friends & playmates, many of whom have a gripe with one or more of the Master's, Mistresses, slaves, pets, friends or playmates of HDSR members but whom respect individual in game ignores or simple lack of contact! They don't try to circumvent , flame to others, send PMs, insults or death threats to members via other players. We come here and pay to play here for fun, not stress or negative interaction. With a few select exceptions of which Master Oli is aware and approves, I personally choose to keep to my AChat spouse for male playmates.. a Husband has some rights. IMHO.
2. -Encouraging gift begging/whoring on the part of their subs as opposed to simply allowing it
The most EVER done is to advise those wishing or needing Premium help to attain premium on their own at first with annual being the best deal & then to receive gifts or RP such if desired or needed.. was to ask them to post NO MORE, as many of you know, than “Gift$ HELP SLAVES!”. Beyond this the rules of HDSR which all new members refer too clearly state this.
3. -Showing disregard for Achat members outside the BDSM community by having rules regarding “slave permissions” which do not extend to non-slaves.
We have many pets, playmates, submissives, switches & non-slave affiliates & associates in HDSR. Those who choose to enjoy RP as a slave have the right to do so and approve of, endorse and agree to our rules before they are offered a collar. We respect their rights to enjoy SSC slave play and will protect same. The rules speak for themselves.
4. -Rules which violate basic human rights such as “subs” not being allowed to remove tags without permission
HDSR engages in only SSC, love based BDSM as practiced in the Leather Lifestyle which finds it's basis in deep abiding affection, LOYALTY and TRUST between Owners and Owned. In many instances members have and always will continue to first agree to the House rule he refers to, and simply remove their TAG/Collar when such no longer suits them without discourse or discussion as is their right to do.. just as it is our right to reduce them from lovers to friends or refuse to offer them a collar again when & if they return which they often do.. and more often than not they are received with open arms and remain happy & proud of their collars. No rights at all are, have ever been or can be violated.. Asking someone to step forward as MANY have and say “I REALLY LOVE Master/Mistress X and I wish to be theirs!” is not too much to ask and they are sent on their way with our blessings .. the fact they did so assures if they ever are abandoned or wish to “come home” they will be received with open arms.
5. -Founders failure to adhere to their own standards, insisting upon a higher morality outside the house
We adhere to our own rules and standards within the House and ask that all members of our family do so. We never have and never will insist on any standards, censure, censorship, restriction on personal sexual rights, identity or morality be placed on anyone outside of our family. I personally have some on my friends & lovers lists to which some find objection too.. but I smile and keep them there and enjoy their interaction and company regardless.. as is my right.. and the right of any member of HDSR. Just like every other point made these claims are ill informed, baseless and part of yet another attempt to circumvent “ignore” and “no contact” by an abuser who is not getting his own way by attacking and bullying us via public forum. I can concede only that I will speak to the members including Master Oli to review posts and some may be revised or deleted which may give a false impression.
That said, in answer to HisGirlOnly.. I appreciate your point about those we or our friends come in contact with who may be minors or criminal. There IS NO REAL LIST .. but Rest assured, ALL individuals we have or will come in contact with who may be engaged in illegal activities are reported individually to the moderators who will bare witness to this fact. On numerous occasions we have done so and will continue to do so. Often, chat logs and notifications have been sent to us and forwarded directly to BrandyBee for admin/moderator investigation & disposition.
In closing, please let me say to friends & lovers I know and those I have yet to meet.. Thank you for taking the time to read & I apologize for the baseless, childish drama to which I have finally and reluctantly felt obliged to respond. To those VERY VERY few who have repeatedly circumvented ignore via PM & messages to other players sending hate, threats & flaming I can only say…
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