That “why” is really annoying, Some ask me for cam/msn/pics after just a little chatting and then I can tell them no. No way I'm sending pictures around to random people and I rather not in anycase. But others might ask in the middle of the fun… whats with that? Really, how do they expect me to stay hot for them interrupting like that?
I have ended friendships. Not because the person is bad or anything like that. Its just I barely an on Achat and when I do get on I am mostly looking for my lovers, spouse and 1 special friend. Figure I'd save the ones that I don't go in the room with a waste of time. I also find cool friends that way, because some will ask me why I deleted and when I explain, they still want to be friends.
Nothing wrong with asking if you really want to know. Just don't be smart about and be mature about the answer you might not want to hear.
There are so many, but being asked 'why?' when I say no is the most aggravating for me. Why should I? I have like six other offers a minute, what makes you special? Argh!!!
I can empathize with the situation, being that some guys do not understand the string of inquiries and cold invites that the women receive. I have received the same, pressure form women wanting an explanation, dumbfounded when I say not interested.
Some people obviously think that you can only be online because your seeking sex. Chatting with people, making friends… whats that? Telling them “No sorry, I'm about to go into a room with this other guy/girl” seems to work quite well, then I'm playing by their rules.