Unexplained friend / lover cancels and ignores

[Bear]

His loss,…sunny seems to be a outgoing friendly type,… that he equates friends to rooming,  ha;f of my friends list are just that.

[Unhealer]

i have no fucking friends like that and I spend too much time talking on there

[islandsun]

Ya  I guess he was just working through the alphabet ! and he came too his  S`s 

[islandsun]

@ Unhealer how about trying  a  more cheerful , happier approach  !    Feel free to cancell me out !  Sunny !  You have to make people  feel good , to want to be with you !  You want some one to fuck your brains out , I suggest you get your wallet out  !  Unhealer dont  take it wrong , just some advice !   

[Unhealer]

naww i might as well go solicit real hookers

[islandsun]

@ unhealer if thats what make you feel good ! all I`m trying to say sweetness , kindness , and  some tendeness , have some feeling , yes even in cyber , might be cyber but were real people behind our avatar ! your more then some of these pigs here , i know it !

[Unhealer]

who are you kidding? its all fake

[islandsun]

I`m not kidding or a fake !  Nor am I boring ! Open your eyes and really see !

[TightFit74]

@ Unhealer I'd like to ask you to choose your words on occasion a bit more careful. I might be able to understand what you mean with your statement:

who are you kidding? its all fake

and I won't take offense, but I am neither a fake as Sunny is, as you are and a lot of other people I got to know. At least, I am honest and open and try not to hurt anybody when I am online.
Oh, and if AChat is getting to you this much, there is always the option to leave.. But that is for you to decide…
One more thing, in rl people are just as fake and as often as here. Everybody wears a mask for the outside word….

[islandsun]

Canadain slurpy > lick        lol

[Unhealer]

@ Unhealer I'd like to ask you to choose your words on occasion a bit more careful. I might be able to understand what you mean with your statement:

who are you kidding? its all fake

and I won't take offense, but I am neither a fake as Sunny is, as you are and a lot of other people I got to know. At least, I am honest and open and try not to hurt anybody when I am online.
Oh, and if AChat is getting to you this much, there is always the option to leave.. But that is for you to decide…
One more thing, in rl people are just as fake and as often as here. Everybody wears a mask for the outside word….

this game is the equivalent of 4chan, so yeah, rl is less fake even with these “masks”

[islandsun]

WHO knows why people do what they do  ! Befriend me , Fuck me , then ignore me ?

[Adera]

What I find hard here is how people see the Friend, Lover and Spouse relationships so differently, some take the lover status quite lightly while for others its VERY important. I don't do the spouse thing here since I leave what I feel like a big commitment to irl and for me a lover doesn't mean I will exclusively play with him/her… I can have more than one lover online at a time after all.

[Bear]

Idiots sunny,.. obviously their primary concerns are what is between their legs, forgetting that one can still enjoy friendship with no or limited sex.
had one befriend me,.. make a date, only to find them roomed with another when I showed up for the date.  Though they apologized they made no effort to reschedule,.. they ended up canceling the friendship.
*shrugs*

@Adera yes wide view point on that. Guess you can look at their lists and determine what type of attitude they hold. Big lover lists appear more like notches on the bedpost. Likely not to have much of a long term deeper friendship.  as to spouse, again that can mean anything, but if you are going exclusive you should declare it….

[Adera]

I don't have any strict definitions for the lover or friend relationships here and the labels doesn't mean much to me since I've got people on both lists with quite different views on it. The problem though is that things can get a bit confusing.

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