Venting… Does anyone talk anymore?

[MaxCraven]

Since this is a forum I need to get something off my chest,

& of course feel free to agree/disagree with what I have to say, hell will be nice to know I’m not alone in this opinion.

I’ve been part of AChat on & off for quite awhile now & everytime I come back I start to wonder why I did.

At first I thought this was great, plenty of people to chat with, realistic (for the most part) animations ect.
But now, now it’s a miricle if one out of every dozen I try talking to responds with more than two words.
I know this is a virtual world based around sex, but where’s the content? where’s the depth?
If I just wanted to watch a couple of characters screw it’ll be easier just watching porn.

But maybe it’s just me expecting too much to be treated as a living feeling male behind the pixels.

I started on here as a kind of compensation for what I’m lacking in the real world & now it’s becoming a copy of it.
I’ve been to other virtual worlds but they aren’t quite the same.
Second Life there’s more to do but its “cartoony”, Red Light Center is ok if you don’t mind constant glitches.
Like I said maybe it’s just me & expected a little too much realism in a virtual world instead of a game of one night stands & women whoring themselves out for new clothes.

Anyways thats all I have to say, like it or not, let the praise/insults begin…..

[sinnnn]

Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds.  I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here.  I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it.  Its patients babes, patients.

[Lover]

you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds

  wonderful Sinnnn!!!

I welcome everyone who wants more then just a short fuck. Though I also accept people who exactly want this. If they find the right partners, ok. As Sinnnn I also met some asses, but most of all I found very nice & friendly people. I had wonderful talks with deep content. Here are some members who are more then an Avatar for me. And I also found a great love, though I was not searching for this.
Give yourself some time. And go on being friendly and talking, I'm sure you also find people who want to do more then just…
Look at this forum. Many questions and discussions about chat rooms and so on.
Good luck MaxCraven and head up

[Anonymous]

I agree with the above posters. Putting in some effort you'll find quite a few nice people. Treating them the same way you want to be treated or even better to make a good first impression. I thrive on making others feel special, if only for a few minutes/hours.

Yea, I'm an addict…

[sinnnn]

Umm Wow Lover I didn't know I was your great love.  Thanks kisses babes.  Just joking, lol.  Glad you found someone very special.  Thats my point, you keep looking an you'll never know what you'll find around that corner. 

Venting is a good thing, really good way to let off alot of steam.  I have something to vent but since this is suppose to be a site to have fun at.   I'll just say this, yes I know teachers say there are no such thing as stupid questions, they are lying.  There are, there really are.   

[Janine Dee]

Max honey… it's not just guys… one of my favorite AChat stories is my first ignore.

A guy hailed me and I started talking (as long as I'm not busy I tend to, unless I'm logging on just to check messages) and when he started showing he wanted to go to a room I tried to explain I wasn't interested. When I tried to explain to him I was gay and didn't room with men he started insisting I fuck him with my toys.

He managed to get in this long, and frankly sort of upsettingly angry message to me while I figure out how that “ignore” thing worked.

If I let guys like him determine my feelings towards AChat I would have never been able to have Lover as a friend or Sinnnn as a lover (deliberate play on words there  ).

For whatever my word is worth, it's worth it to find the diamonds.

[Anonymous]

Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds.  I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here.  I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it.  Its patients babes, patients.

It takes a lot of patience to weed the diamonds from the assholes.

patience…p-a-t-i-e-n-c-e…patience

   

sorry sinnn, i couldn't resist.  had to make you smile a bit more 

[AZNLoverV]

Well I think the format could be improved.  Better chat features, common chat rooms that feature common interests would make it easier to find people to socialize with.  For example I've met a few people who are ONLY into 3somes.  Why not make a 3some room, then people interested in that activity will be in there.  Same goes for same sex rooms, opposite sex rooms, etc.  The idea is so simple why can't it be executed.  Ateam are you working on this?  That would make the game a LOT more enjoyable than just a few new poses.

[sinnnn]

I just new I spelled that wrong, LOL. Good looking out Bobby.   

oops, srry Bobby, meant to say Bob.  :

[apollo13nut]

I have to say I agree with most people here: finding anything “meaningful” (in quotes cause my definition of meaningful may not match yours, screw Webster's dictionary  ) takes time and effort.

I noticed in your post  you say you are an “off again, on again” user…..I have found that logging a few hours a day, even with no results, makes finding a person you can talk to hours on end and not get bored/tired all the more sweet and savory.

I will admit, I have had several days where I'm on for 3+ hours with no conversations or invites….and there are other days where I have a 4 hour conversation within 15 min of logging on.

Hang in there man. I wish I could give you the “end all, be all” “quick fix”, but I can't. Just try to have fun.

[Lover]

GRRRRR once more I was out of internet connection for more than an hour today. Has happened much too often lately and my connection is as lame as a duck. Good thing, I finally was told that I get a new provider this thursday. Then my connection will be fast as a flash, compared to the one I'm having since a few months.

[Zuzannah]

  Man, this is an old post.  2010.  And I have just read it.     Things haven't changed have they ?  Actually might have got worse.   :'(

  Sarcasm in the Poker room directed not only at me but other beautiful people who play at being Shemales.  (And other Genders for that matter) I'm Not going to go into details, it's not worth it. I just try to ignore it and carry on playing, or leave and log out.  It's just people trying to be funny and failing massively.  Sod it, I'm going to mention one comment.  Laugh if you like. I'm not fully quoting, this happened a few days ago so I can't remember exactly what they said.

  Is there any proper Gender People in here.

  It was something like that anyway.  I LOVE playing as a Shemale.  I don't regret AT ALL choosing to be one when I first started here.  I love how I look and love changing my outfits, and Love the people I play with who are Totally open minded and Amazing to be with.  So, people who can't handle or have got something against Shemales.  Two Words come to mind………UP YOURS!!

  As for people who just Message “hi” I say “Hi” back and see what happens. Nothing Usually.  Or, they think I'm a Female.  People who don't read my details eh  : :.  That's another Story.  Or when I Tell them I'm a Guy in RL.  I get no response back. And these “Hi's” are From Hetero Males who know I'm a Shemale.     Hehehe.

  God, When I start “Venting” I can't seem to stop can I ?     Good Topic this.  Nice one Lover for posting here or else I wouldn't have seen it.  Oh and I hope your Connection Speeds Go through the Roof.  (That's Good BTW). I'm getting 43.32 Mbps.  (I ran a few tests and picked the fastest) 

  So, there are Diamonds out there.  I have found a few.  They know who they are.  Well I hope they do   :  And THEY are the reason why I am renewing my subscription today.   :-* :-* :-*

[FoxyRoxxy]

Wow is  right  …Old topic 

Not much has  changed  Max

It do's not matter what game  you play , this will  always be in all virtual  games
many hide their identity emotions behind a avatar, can you blame them this is a sex game they say porn ..

I dont know about others  but I would not want any one to know from my real world that I am on a  Sex Porn game  😮

Achat is  discreetly my secret fantasy  …

If it was me  I would take the  Porn word out of  Achat  and  replace it  with  Adult Entertainment..
I feel it will draw in more  people in
and open  more door  for  Achat  it can also bring in people with many other  interest  aside  sex ..
As I see it, Many  see the word sex and porn and that  is what many see only  ( you get what  is expected  on here )

Achat  should say 
Respecting your privacy and maintaining discretion is our business.

To me sex is  good with my partner  and I am one that only  do it with  genuine feeling s  and  ♥  Love  ♥

you  can  fined  many kind & friendly people any where  it is up to you as  to who you let in ….

And as LOVER  said he  found his  greats love    he had to go though some  😮  to find his true  Diamond

[Zuzannah]

  Yes,  You hide your identity BUT, it doesn't mean that people can be nasty/sarcastic to you does it ?

  There has to be some sort of etiquette. I can't see how some people actually get any action here when they act as they do.  It might turn some people on been called a Slut, Bitch or Whore. Not ME. (Not Anymore,  I've Changed.  And I have been called a Snob).  There are days that I don't get any action because of this.  But hey, that's my decision to room or not.  The last few days have been a trial really.

  Re-branding from Porn to Adult Entertainment is a good idea.  We all know what Adult Entertainment is. So, yeah, Why not change it.  But I suppose it's like re-branding Comics to Graphic Novels. 

[Peeka]

I guess we all hide behind a screen somehow. Who really looks like his avi anyways???

Once again, when things get real between ppl,either it really is and it remains like this when truth gets revealed (just ask nicely for it, don't be a moron), either it even wasn't real at all.

Ppl talking about mind connexion and getting scared once they see the real other (true girl or shem or male) are just plain stupid and don't deserve to be taken care of.
With chat, you can only show your mind, not your body. And maybe it is better for some of us. Because rl, maybe ppl wouldn't even approach you.
We all say love is blind… so stand for it !!!!

It is easy to talk about lies when you have a spouse that loves you as you really are. And as Zu said : whatever the avi, we all are people behind it. Living out fantasies here doesn't mean we lie or are not sensible to what ppl say. I know real love can happen here, but the ones who confuse fantasy and rl are the ones who lie to themselves. And the ones not tolerating difference are the worst ones.

So since it is a venting topic : F**K Them!!!!

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