Yes, but an exotic dancer I was close to told me she was with a guy who basically begged, and she didn't mind so they hopped in the shower and tried it. She didn't mind, and he was ecstatic.
So the follow up question could be would you mind if a lover asked you to?
For me… I'd probably be like her, and not really get into it, but not mind either.
Though I would insist on a shower RIGHT after.