What turns you off in chatting?

[Patricia1975]

I had a similar problem it was a glitch in the system for about 24 hrs and righted itself in the end, it was as if the save button didn't register the new moves or new clothing. If it continues, report it to Support.

The other possibility, although I dont thing its this, but worth a try….  if you just move the avatar, the “save changes” button at the top does not activate… in order to make it activate, I move my Avi and then click on my skin tone. This activates the “Save changes” button and  the new position can be saved.  you then “Go to  Partner search”  and then ” Show yourself”    Then that should show your new position

That was the problem SAVE BUTTON ,didnt actually save

[Patricia1975]

Hi Sweets, Thank you for all answers,speciall Lover´s help, for my problem. My Avatar problem is resolved,How??
DONT ASK ME, I CANT TELL WHY, BUT IT IS NOW.  :

Special thanks for fast answers –          Covems
                                                      hentaiboy69
                                                      Brandybee

SPECIAL THANKS and KISS to LOVER.

Yours………Pati

[Pafe]

Hiya's…

  I wouldn't mind showing just my feet if I had lovely boudoir shoes to show. 

  Some like these   

  Serious though… I'm glad you've gotten everything straighten out Patricia 

Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe

[Satoire]

I know this is off topic… and I don't care. 

When we had to evacuate from our home because of the hurricane, we get into the car… the wind is howling… it's raining cats and dogs… the surf is pounding.  Stuff is being blown all over… What does Pafe say when she gets into the car???

“Oh no… my shoes.”

Back on topic:  A nice thing about this forum Patricia… there are a lot of people willing to help.

[Patricia1975]

Hiya's…

   I wouldn't mind showing just my feet if I had lovely boudoir shoes to show. 

   Some like these   

   Serious though… I'm glad you've gotten everything straighten out Patricia 

Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe

THANK YOU PAFE

[hentaiboy69]

I know this is off topic… and I don't care. 

When we had to evacuate from our home because of the hurricane, we get into the car… the wind is howling… it's raining cats and dogs… the surf is pounding.  Stuff is being blown all over… What does Pafe say when she gets into the car???

“Oh no… my shoes.”

Back on topic:  A nice thing about this forum Patricia… there are a lot of people willing to help.

Ah ah ah! Yea, that's perfectly in Pafe style….. 

We need to remember to gift her with a full closet of  boudoir shoes for her next birthday!

[Momma_andrea]

OK, I got something new to bitch about.
“I like your age.”  , “It's good you are mature.”  blah blah and blah.  Yeah, I'm so glad I got your fucking approval.
Hey, mention my age again because, honey, that's REALLY working for ya. 

Yes I know, seems harsh but I'm so fucking tired of it.

[Lover]

Just tell them real women don't have an age… and ask what they are going to do when they're 18.

[Adera]

Seems like some gets caught on one thing about you and then blurts that out thinking we'll feel complimented about that.

I was hoping that others got more appropriate lines thrown their way than what I get as a tgirl, but it seems as if that's not the case… sadly.

I've had some say something in likes of “I like it that you have a cock”, that instantly makes me think “Oh, so that's the one particular thing you like about me? Does that mean you don't like females? Because if you don't, you don't like me either… you just don't know it”.

[Momma_andrea]

EXACTLY, they just shoved you into a catagory and that's why they like you. And we are supposed to feel complimented by that?
Don't like me because I'm imaginative or a snappy dresser or even just that I have a witty tagline. “OH, you are (BLANK), so I like you.”

P.S. that is why I hate the whole “You want some black cock, baby?”  and the whole “Black” thing. they just did it to themselves, they put themselves in a catagory and have become an object of  just that one thing. We are all deeper than that. I hope so.

[Sissy_Claire]

There's two things that i've found that really turn me off. Well, two things that i'm not willing to overlook anyway.

First is people not reading my profile, then making assumptions about me or some really ignorant comment which could have easily been avoided if they did read it.

Second is something that's just. Bleugh. Three times now I've had people ask me, If I would like to take part in a Rape role play. Errr… What? Now I clarified this with them and one did admit he was wrong and it was mind break/forced sex he wanted. But the other two. Nope! Well that's not a buzz kill or anything, being offered to not enjoy yourself. Just, what?

[Covems]

EXACTLY, they just shoved you into a catagory and that's why they like you.

Being put into a category reminds me of this M&M commercial.  With William Levy and Ms. Brown (who happens to be an M&M)

Here we have a lunchtime discussion between very good-looking telenovela star William Levy and his paramour, M&M's candy Ms. Brown, who is also very good-looking—if you’re into eating chocolate. But while Levy has made a career out of being outrageously handsome (and, occasionally, “emoting”) on Mexican soap operas and Dancing With the Stars, Ms. Brown doesn’t want to be defined by her looks.

Levy:  “Oh… you look delicious today.”

Ms. Brown:  Delicious?  Honestly, sometimes I think you only like me because I'm an M&M.”

Levy:  “That's not true.  What matters to me most is what's on the inside.”

Ms. Brown:  “I'm pure milk chocolate in the inside.”

Levy:  “I love that about you.”

Ms. Brown:  “Ugh.  And here I thought you loved me for my brain.”

Levy:  “Is that made of chocolate too?”

Lucky for Levy, Ms. Brown’s exasperation can only last so long before she, too, caves to the superficial and states the obvious: “Gosh, you’re handsome.”

[Adera]

EXACTLY, they just shoved you into a catagory and that's why they like you. And we are supposed to feel complimented by that?
Don't like me because I'm imaginative or a snappy dresser or even just that I have a witty tagline. “OH, you are (BLANK), so I like you.”

P.S. that is why I hate the whole “You want some black cock, baby?”  and the whole “Black” thing. they just did it to themselves, they put themselves in a catagory and have become an object of  just that one thing. We are all deeper than that. I hope so.

They're probably baffled by all the cold shoulders they get.

There are however some that likes to get degraded and objectified, but that's not something people should just assume right off the bat. I for one like some of that, but there's a time and place for it.

There's two things that i've found that really turn me off. Well, two things that i'm not willing to overlook anyway.

First is people not reading my profile, then making assumptions about me or some really ignorant comment which could have easily been avoided if they did read it.

Second is something that's just. Bleugh. Three times now I've had people ask me, If I would like to take part in a Rape role play. Errr… What? Now I clarified this with them and one did admit he was wrong and it was mind break/forced sex he wanted. But the other two. Nope! Well that's not a buzz kill or anything, being offered to not enjoy yourself. Just, what?

Yeah, I also hate it when people doesn't read my profile, especially when they then asks something like which country I'm from. If they wont bother reading my profile I wont bother with them.

Forced, rough and such are fine… but rape just sounds wrong.

[Momma_andrea]

I did rape role play a few times on Yahoo and they didn't like it. hehehe
The guy expects you to eventually submit or start to like it… Um, no. You want a rape scene? we're doing a rape scene and I fight and scream and bitch through the whole thing.   ( I am a writer)

They try to type in “you are starting to get excited by my fucking(or whatever)…”  NO I'M NOT!… eventualy they leave.

LOL, ohhhh good times, good times.

[Adera]

Ahaha, they did get what they asked for.

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