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You even can do a list with most mentioned “excuses” lol
Atm my fav is I like you as reasong for a cold invite
I guess not everyone is here to start a virtual relationship or like mentioned English is not their strong suit so they are very limited in who they can play with so many people not accepting colds. For those who just mainly want to have physical interaction the best bet is to use the blind date feature, that's what I use most of the time since I rarely get a response when messaging people no matter how I do it and I actually started to click with someone I met with “blind date”.
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I think is some instances its lack of social skills and immaturity. In this age of Texting, snap chat etc. people are missing out on the fine art of being able to hold a conversation.
The men and women who resort to cold invites are missing what i think is one of the best parts of the game.
To Quote the late Lemmy of Motorhead
I'll admit it… when I first started I sent cold invites and it was for these reasons:
1) I was ignorant. I thought that was how it worked. I was the proverbial kid in the candy store.
2) While I was still a free user, hardly anyone would acknowledge my existance, let alone chat with me. So my reckoning on sending a cold invite was this: I was already alone, the only thing that would change would be her accepting the invite. In other words, I had nothing to lose.
My awakening came when I sent a cold invite to Ms. Pafe. She and her partner in crime, Lady Satoire, let me know in no uncertain terms that cold invites were not welcome. I was very fortunate that she is a beautiful person with a great sense of humor, who wanted nothing more than to make AChat a better site for herself and everyone else. She took the time to educate me. We became and still are very close friends, even though she has wandered to another site to look for boudoir shoes.
And Jayc is right… the thrill of the hunt is where its at.
P.S. She got her boudoir shoes…
I also Cold invited when I first started here. Only once though. And that was because an Ex friend knew the person I colded.
I think it's hard to be new here. I didn't know the etiquette of this place, Now I do. By talking to people…..
If people just cold invite, like all the time, I think they don't have no social skills or just damn too shy. To be honest with all of you that read this, my social skills were not what they should have been. Maybe it was because of my shyness, who knows. This place has bought me out a bit, although I still find it hard to start a conversation with some people.
I am glad that I found this place when I did though. With the Meeting Places being very popular and friends meeting there and chatting, I bet it has got to be so much harder to make friends here than any time before. We all must have noticed that when someone new approaches us in the Meeting Places that conversation is very, very hard sometimes.
I feel sorry for some of the more genuine people who start here who want to make friends when most of us are in groups. Must be daunting for some to even approach us then.
As for the chase is better than the catch. Mmm Perhaps. I like to think if you are caught that's when the seriously fun bit starts.
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