Why women refuse to reply.

[G1adys]

I can only repeat, you buy the subscription, not other people. It's a product you buy, not other people! See it like a club. You pay to be allowed to enter it, but inside it's up to you and your communication skills

As for achat money, when someone is buying a subscription for a month or more, achat money is given. I say that if it's all about the money, than one can always find willing partners for some achats. Players list is always full of 'men only for gift' and 'I'll be yours for a gift'

Sometimes I receive coldinvitation from premium users. Or rude invitations. Or just plain stupid ones. So what? He bought the subscription, but he didn't buy me! I do not feel guilty when I do not respond or even blacklist stupid or rude subscribers

[hentaiboy69]

I can only repeat, you buy the subscription, not other people. It's a product you buy, not other people! See it like a club. You pay to be allowed to enter it, but inside it's up to you and your communication skills

As for achat money, when someone is buying a subscription for a month or more, achat money is given. I say that if it's all about the money, than one can always find willing partners for some achats. Players list is always full of 'men only for gift' and 'I'll be yours for a gift'

Sometimes I receive coldinvitation from premium users. Or rude invitations. Or just plain stupid ones. So what? He bought the subscription, but he didn't buy me! I do not feel guilty when I do not respond or even blacklist stupid or rude subscribers

G1adys, i agree with you: you buy the product not the other users! And it's up to us to look interessing at others eyes…..we can't pretend to get laid (rude speaking, i know!) everytime we want! But you can't deny it's frustrating when you do your best and no one will pay attention to you…..and this is what usually happen to free male in AChat. Of course, finding a partner here isn't easy as it is in real life…..it's all up to you, sometime need times and a nice chat to start, but if you only find closed doors, you can be interessing and more, but if no one give you a chance…..

[G1adys]

As far as I can tell, being free male user is bad, but not the worst. Being a free shemale is worser, because shemales do not have any free poses while men (and women) have two

When I talk to free males, I always suggest them to buy a subscription, because the game is made that way. I explain them that most women with blue star are not premium themselves, and that's why they want premium partners. But let's face the truth – it's a free-to-play videogame, so if one do not want to pay, he/she should be happy with what he/she has. Speaking of money, 10 usd per month is not much, and it won't kill anyone who can download the game client. At least, one can buy 1-month subscription and see if he/she would like the full game or not.

As I've told already, I do not judge people by their subscription status, but that's me. Most of women do, and I won't blame them for doing so. In everyday life there're more women than men, in Achat it's just the opposite. So if a woman do not respond, maybe it's a sign that a man should rethink his way of approach?

If we are online, that does not matter we will go to room with anyone who wrote 'hi babe' As for me 'babe' is an insult, so someone who call me that way may be happy if he'll get 'welcome to my blacklist' as reply

[hentaiboy69]

As far as I can tell, being free male user is bad, but not the worst. Being a free shemale is worser, because shemales do not have any free poses while men (and women) have two

it is……and it's one of the thing the dev-team have to work on! why giving another gap to shemale!? like if the lack of poses wan't enough…..

When I talk to free males, I always suggest them to buy a subscription, because the game is made that way. I explain them that most women with blue star are not premium themselves, and that's why they want premium partners. But let's face the truth – it's a free-to-play videogame, so if one do not want to pay, he/she should be happy with what he/she has. Speaking of money, 10 usd per month is not much, and it won't kill anyone who can download the game client. At least, one can buy 1-month subscription and see if he/she would like the full game or not.

yes, you can suggest it to them, but i had meet a male users from a est european country who want to subscrive but can't cause his credit card is not good for CCBill payment……now, he only can ask for another credit card, but….maaaan, that's umbelieveble!

anyway, basically i agree with you on all you had said, but we never have to forget there are some good exception!

[G1adys]

Ah, the 'eastern europe'! I live in Russia, and my credit card isn't good for payment as well (actually, it is not even a credit card, it's just a card). I tell you what, I never pay with card in the net. There're many other variants, like 'visa virtual' or national e-money services. I do not believe these countries do not have such things if they have the net. When I used to buy my subscription, I used LiqPay for that, and it did the trick just fine. So, I do not believe these boys, it seems to me that they just do not want to pay. Here in Russia it's usual trend among mmo-games auditory. Not that they don't have money, usually they do have. They can tell you how they got drunk and so on… they just do not want to pay for their own enjoyment, so I see they get what they deserve to

And they always can make a female avatar and play as such, if they think it's easier

But you are right, there're some exceptions. I know one such exception, and even used my female alternative avatar to play with him, because he really could not afford the subscription and my own one had expired (Achat team, hear us please, give us transgenders two free poses as well!)

Upd. There's an example of classic ignorant behavior:
I have the line 'I'm a lady, not a babe, so learn to behave' written right over my portrait in my ingame profile, it's hard not to notice it but…
[a male player] – u come baby?
[me] – can you read?
[he] – yes or no?
[me] – welcome to my blacklist, learn to read next time

So, does he think that if he bought the subscription, I would be happy to go with him?

[Lover]

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jrewing und dann dieses sprichwort… wie passt das zusammen? *grins*

[trissotin]

Hello alls,

I think one the problems is that there is a lot of impolite guys !… A lot of “Cold Invite” specialists…
A girlfriend from Achat told me that girls are submerged of messages and invitations !
So they don't respond… because they can't !
The first days I was here, I was an excited Newbie, I just wanted to get a girl in my room, I quickly understood that it wasn't the good way, and overall it wasn't really me !!!!…
Now I try to be polite and kind…
I have a lot of “no reponse” I don't insist, I try later…

So !! To be  patient with women !!! The lonely way !

Trissotin

[A123lolo]

I'm same position of you, Trissotin.
Some guys forget politeness when they connect in AChat.

We can excuse some impetuous new members.
But this comportement is detrimental for all men.

[trissotin]

You're right A123lolo !…  It's up to us to be more and more open to the girls wishes and desires…
We are both Newbies here…

All we have to do, is to let the time goes on… An we will see 

Trissotin

[trissotin]

Here is an interresting topic from Kadanu :

https://funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,1584.0.html

For all the Newbies like me !!!

[Covems]

The number one reason… and I mean NUMBER One… why women (or anyone else for that matter) don't reply:

They don't want to.

Once you figure that out… you've got it made   

[Nat33]

You are right Covems 
The second reason for me is that I can't respond to everyone when there are more than 10 users in the chat and talking with someone !
It's impossible for me, I don't know who I'm talking.
I have friends “free user” and sometimes I'm going in room for… discuss, sometimes

[florise]

For me I follow 1 chat in English or 2 in French.

It's difficult more

sorry

[ItsAmy123]

I'm going to have to agree with Florise. 

Speaking from my perspective or point of view, I don't think a lot of emphasis is usually put on a player or member's status. At the end of the day, it doesn't truly matter if the guy or girl is/are premium. What would really work for you, as a guy, would be your ability to carry on a conversation smoothly. It is important to note though, if you do want things to go further, you have to ensure atleast one of you has poses and, to be honest, mostly guys ensure to meet that requirement on here. But coming back to the point, it can be quite difficult or just plain annoying to follow multiple chats. So if a girl doesn't respond, it doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to associate with you because of your status, it can simply just be because she's already in  conversation with a friend, lover or spouse.

[Anonymous]

10 guidelines to get Susan's attention (or not), not necessarily in this order.

1) Don't talk dirty. At least not right away. I don't respond to crudities (apart from the edible kind), well, not until at least one orifice has been penetrated (yours or mine, it doesn't matter).

2) Introduce yourself. You're who from where? I don't care how fake it is (well, not too obvious, I don't think Brad Pitt plays Achat). I might look dipsy but I have travelled and I might know that McDonalds on the corner of 9th and Maine.

3) Say something flattering. e.g. “Oh, I like your hair”; “I love how you do your makeup” (oh shit, I've now given away my pickup lines). There is nothing better to get my conceited attention.

4) Apologize for interrupting. A simple “Sorry, you must be busy but..” is all it takes. Invariably, you are interrupting something, even if it's just me sitting there masturbating (and, don't you dare interrupt that).

5) Don't mention your dick size. First of all, I know you're lying. Secondly, I know you're lying. Third, mine will always be smaller and it hurts my feelings.

6) You're not my boyfriend/girlfriend, yet. I detest “darling”, “babe”, etc. and any reference to pleasuring parts of my anatomy. I get the idea of the game and, for me, sex with strangers can be better than with friends.

7) Don't mention threesomes, yet. I'm thinking of revising that, in light of the recent MMS pose. However, I don't want to stand on the sidelines wanking while you get it off with your boyfriend.

8 ) Don't pretend it's not a chat up. “Oh I'm new here, can you help me with…”. Hahahaha, I've heard them all. Although, if you look cute enough, you can try.

9) Don't comment on why I didn't respond to your first message 3 seconds earlier. You're obviously not that busy, if you can reel off several messages in quick succession but a) it pushes more important messages off the screen and b) viz. number 4, above.

10) If I say “no”, I really do mean it. Don't ask “why not?” That is one step closer to an ignore. However, if you follow the other guidelines, it might not mean “no”.

It is very fluid, lol, it changes all the time and I've got a few more but that will do, for now.

Just to add… I'm more interested in the person than gender, member status  or  ability to speak English or ability to talk intelligently, although the last will get you more brownie points.

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