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[Alyse]

Kudos to the dev team for listening.  It's been a long time coming.  I look at it as a giant leap in the right direction, so thanks A-team.

The options, on the other hand…leave me wanting more. Like Medjai, I would also like the option of only being available to friends/lovers/spouses.  (I do see that starting problems, too.  People begging/pestering to be put on lists so they can have contact.  I don't like the lists to begin with;  I don't like labeling my friendships or giving them status…but that's just me.  I digress.) 

Secondly, I don't like that it makes me look as if I'm in a room.  I'd hate to have to explain myself to a friend I was scheduled to meet that I wasn't actually in a room…merely afk.  Friendships here are treasured and sometimes fragile, so I doubt I'll be using the busy button.  Maybe offer a different color?  I don't know.

Finally, if this is the answer to having time to answer messages and change before becoming available for chat, I'll pass.  Again because I don't want my friends to misunderstand my status.  Would it be possible to not show up green until I hit the 'partner search' button when first logging on?  That would give me enough time to reply to any messages and change my clothes/background. 

[Alyse]

I can typically shrug off cold invites and cold relationship requests the FIRST time.  It's the repeat offenders that end up on 'ignore'.  Especially the ones that follow my room decline with another request.  After hitting decline three times within a few seconds, I  seek the ignore button. 

Though, there have been several gents that have hit the 'invite' button then do a quick follow up of:  ” I didn't mean to do that, so sorry.  …But now that I have your attention…”  Very few of these fellas end up with my attention…it takes a little more than that to get me interested.

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