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[Ardeur]

The problem with religion is that the rules it presents are from millennia back. In those days there was no government, so religion filled that niche. The rules they set were, for that time, sensible, as civilization was less complex and established in those days. They present basic rules that make living together in groups doable: don't kill each other, don't rob each other, respect each other, don't mess with someone else's spouse. Nowadays we have laws for that, they comes with civilization advancing and knowledge growing beyond the oldest of superstitions. Most of those laws even make sense, like the commandments did in the time they were given/made up.

However, human nature saw an opportunity in religion, a way to gain more power over others by saying “God/Yahweh/Allah/Buddha/[go on] told me that …”, which is how we ended up with stuff like “it's evil to show your ankles, hair, etc”. Cultural developments got sucked into religion, which conditioned it's believers into intolerance of anything that diverged from “their rules”. My guess is that burqa's originally had nothing to do with religion, in that time it was simply a way to prevent the beautiful and young women to be easily stolen by raiders or at least to even the odds to the chance that a raider broke his back trying to abduct an overweight mother of 6. However in today's situation it results in the males from that society being less able to deal well with women that do show flesh, hardly being able to realize that those women like looking good instead of like disguised barrels.

Even in modern western countries that have a lawful separation between state and religion religious parties try to force their views and rules into legislation, effectively trying to violate that separation. This, by the way, appears to be more rule then exception.

Before I get kicked off my soapbox and crucified and torched for heresy, I'm not especially anti-religious, but I do believe religion is a private thing, which is the way it should stay.

[Ardeur]

Hmmm, ordering a 3-seat sofa…
Bear can sit in the middle while Adera and I snuggle up and take advantage of the situation while Pse is strutting her stuff… 

[Ardeur]

Heh, that means Lover will have to talk his game before he gets to play it with me. If he just used his forum-name I'd probably accept a cold invite (which I would for any regular here, mood not withstanding)  :-*

[Ardeur]

Well, spitting it out is a no-no. That makes it look like we're sucking them off because we “have” to. Besides swallowing, which is least messy, you can play with it or snowball it back to him. That's always such a rush (if it doesn't turn or piss him off). Showing him a mouth-full and then swallowing usually brings him back into the play really fast too, especially if you show (or fake good enough) that you like it as well.  :-*

[Ardeur]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but if a man's cock feels like 'wet and melting', aren't we girls either doing something wrong or done until we resurrect the little guy to his full former glory? 

[Ardeur]

I'll have you spanked by a stranger for every stain you leave on the floor and afterwards you get to clean the dress with your tongue. When I decide it's clean is the moment the actual punishment will start. Restrained to the bed with your hands and feet above your head and a belt and collar to keep you down it will be long and pleasurable (for me). Every drop I catch, you get fed back to you from whatever cavity you cum in.

[Ardeur]

Oh yes  I could, a sandwich just isn't right if there isn't bread both on the bottom and the top…    :-*

[Ardeur]

Welcome Back Ardeur. You've been missed.

On your thoughts I will also say that some of the time I think that their lashing out can come from a certain level of repressed desire. Kind of like how some of the vilest homophobes are later found with gay lovers or hiring same sex prostitutes they attack what they desire. Perhaps as a way to distance themselves from what they see as “aberrant”, but also there is probably some self loathing that they take out on others.

I mainly say this because the amounts of venom some show seem to hint at something deeper.

Thank you (and all the others) for welcoming me back.

As for what you just stated, it reminds me of some large population-groups, most of them found in the pious directions. Anyone remember the 'Nipple-gate' incident? I'm not really pointing fingers here, because bigots can be found all over the world, most of them hiding behind the words of their spiritual leaders like sheep, but that 's just an example too easy to ignore.

*looks down at her feet to see if she's standing on a soapbox again*

*starts imagining leading Adera around decked out in ballet heels, a hobble-dress with cutouts in the back (for spanking and fondling), a corset with quarter-cups that gets 2 inches off her waist and pushes her tits out in an almost obscene fashion, a leather top with two-way zippers over her breasts opened in the middle to keep her nipples peeking out, clamps on her nipples with a chain connecting them, arms on her back in a sleeve with her elbows touching, a three inch wide collar with a leash attached and last but not least a ring-gag with a dildo attached for now.
Careful observers might see that her butt-cheeks aren't wrestling with each other, but are actually doing something more similar to a huddle, both fighting over a foreign object sometimes peeking out in the middle.*

[Ardeur]

i have the same problem, almost all the others just wanna play with my toy *poutin my lips and sobs* and dont care about me and my feelings …may i perhaps play with u girls? i promise i be nice…. for a lil while 

Of course you can come and play, or should I say play and come, with us… I should warn you though, I sometimes do get a bit cock-hungry..    :-*

[Ardeur]

Hmmmm, I might have to do a bit of splashing about in this pond and see who’ll flip me out…

😉 :-*

[Ardeur]

@Ardeur nice to see someone another who gets it… too many equate it with debasement of character…

That's what people think they see from afar. From what I know, the only time a Dom “debases” a sub is when the sub has a mental switch with the label “Humiliate in case of drought” or when it's a punishment that's appropriate for the relation between the Dom and the sub. For far too many people it's too scary to try and understand what they see instead of labeling it as “scary” and “should be illegal” while it happens in a caring context while they do exactly the same to anything they don't understand and thus label as “inferior”.

I don't pretend to know how serious Doms and subs are made up, as my inclinations don't go far beyond redded cheeks, being kept on the edge for what seems like hours to me while restrained and fetish-wear, but a little research and some common sense do go a long way towards understanding and respecting that some people have tastes that seem exotic to you.

*lifts carpet, kicks soapbox under the carpet and walks away innocently whistling*

[Ardeur]

Mmm breasts play… but go a little easy on me will you… I don't want to make cummies too early.

@Pse: I think Ardeur here would like to try some SSF… we should make her all shaky from orgasming.

The two of you could probably stuff me and wring me out at the same time… *sigh* but what a way to go… 

[Ardeur]

You two are so nice. :-* :-*

Good thing for me I just love hetero guys treating me like a woman.

How about a bi-babe treating you like one of the girls? 

[Ardeur]

Gratz on the section, sweeties! I think you should have more poses too, some SSF or SFS or however you would like to write it and of course a lot of MF translated to SF, only with more breast-play. 

And Bear is our papa-Bear, nothing can change that. 

[Ardeur]

Most “vanilla” people don't realize BDSM isn't about whips and chains. Of course, it can be a part of it, if you're inclined to it, but besides the “professionals” that whip people to satisfy some kicks in the clubs there's a crowd where it stands for love and care, often on a deeper and more responsible level then most “normal” relations.

@Alstott: mean would be tying you up, putting a cockring on you after teasing you a bit, blindfolding you and then going shopping with your wallet while leaving all the doors open.  :-*
Fun would be to make you believe this happened and then pretending to be a stranger taking advantage of you… 

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