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I echo Lover's words here… there is someone out there… looking for one like you,…. give fate a chance to intervene such that your paths have the opportunity to cross.

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Kitten' ty  for sharing this, I realize that it brings up painful and emotional issues affecting your life, but if it reminds others of the potential pitfalls of opening yourself to other forms of “play” here…holds their  motivation from making an ill advised  decision they are being pressured on,  then your words and shared experiences on a serious topic are priceless and I hope well heeded.

Several months after I first joined I befriended a young woman, never romantically involved, we just chatted. Her openness,… sweet disposition and innocence enchanted many men…in fact she founded herself hounded by many to share much more than just time in a room. I constantly had to remind her,… true friends will not make conditional requirements to do more than what a partner feels comfortable with.  That is the important part, no matter how close, expectations to push the limits are a red flag.  She subsequently lost partners… but at that moment,… time here she needed a reminder that rushing into sharing is not necessarily the best decisions. When she buckled… gave in… she found herself pressured more and more… luckily she heeded my warnings…

In this day and age,… one should be aware that a technically proficient partner can glean quit a bit of information. Stalkers…female as well as male can find ways to intervene in your life in matters that can be disruptive and embarrassing.  All I can offer,… and advise is that any decision to extend and incorporate other modes of interaction is that there is a risk…

Though personally I have found I enjoy incorporating vocal chat with room play…I do not predicate relationships on the necessity of using external sources.

The important part is being aware… making intelligent decisions, rather than rash ones of the heart.

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Yes a bit off topic but to answer your question  you have summed it up blu'… a group catering to creating a harem of woman fixated on the Big Black Cock (BBC) fantasy/fetish …

I look at it as a selective family grouping… fixated as you say on procurement of dedicated sexual servants. There have been families created here before… not along this line though.

Very tactfully pointed out West69,  and I think appropriate since Trekmanalpha did pose that question in his statement. TY

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Good idea… perhaps merge it with  pantless Friday… “Pantless Fridays!… visit  the Achat forum and find out why!”

I have found out that I get a lot of visits on Friday's not necessarily responses but folks taking a peek…so don't let the quiet behavior and lack of comments lead you to think it doesn't work!

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lol.. perhaps his edition can feature a front page photo of pantless Friday participant… sex sells you know…

welcome Norwich… keep up the creative work!

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Well I am glad that Trek offered up his views and a reminder to many women that there are men who play here with such standards. No doubt there are women in search of such, turned off by similar perceptions of dominating play and casual attitudes towards sex.

I don't necessarily agree with your views of the dominating form of RP but the topic is well documented elsewhere.

I would appreciate that comments that follow explore the concept of romantic play…and bar themselves from any attack

HB your comments are directly on, that the truth of building a strong relationship is to set aside ones own attitudes and fully explore a woman's desires. Anal can be done in an erotic sensual form…and often many woman who are resistive to a man “taking” it… secretly find the experience exhilarating and exciting. They will offer it in the heat of passion to those they trust, and feel a deep bond with.  Such an offering should never be necessarily dismissed by attitudes,… but rather approached with the same sensuality that has created the binds in the first place.

Some can do without it period… so I applaud you Trek,… there are woman who surrender it never fully enjoying it… just thinking it is a necessity to building stronger bonds.

It is best said that does not need to be the case as Trek has pointed out. There are men out there with traditional honorable codes available for romantic attitudes.

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You can dance to Wings of Gabriel…very  erotic eastern flavor to that tune…

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New Update released on this today… at the moment I can only remark on the Male options

Jerj off
Finger pussy
Fondle tit
pinch tit
Rub clit
hand in hand
rub self nipples
suck her fingers…
bigger movement
quicker action
her suck males fingers
lick pussy
couple happy faces…

RG just seemed happy riding away… no help there in determining the adds to the pose for the female… perhaps one of the ladies might add the options here for us.

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Show and tell Blu?

mmm…Still having those fantasies eh' sunny?

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lol… and so goes my hopes to have seen you perform that for me…

My Latin influence songs… to dance to and set the mood….

Santana/Kroeger… Into the night
Santana/Thomas….Smooth
Santana/Kroeger … Why Don't you and I
Los Lonely Boys …Heaven (How far is Heaven)
Santana/Michelle Branch Game of Love
Los Lonely Boys…More Than Love

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Welcome back Blu' and belated birthday wishes…

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tips the hat to Az… my pleasure at mentioning your Canadian minstrel, he was quite a talent and inspired me to pickup the guitar…
Other songs of Lightfoots worth mentioning…
Softly
Song For a Winters Night
his rendition of the Wedding Song still a favorite

hmmm Leonard Cohen… the Canadian Poet laureate…” Hallelujah”
(Jeff Buckley's  or KD Langs versions the best unedited forms of the song… (most might think of it as the Shrek song… but the original version as penned by Cohen much more erotic)

A  sensual exotic  melody..
Arcana… Wings of Gabriel

Bryan Adams… Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman
Scorpians…. Send Me An Angel

Liked that Vamp love song eh' Brandy?

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Well they did tie in a fashion poll,… so perhaps they will make their way into the jewelry category soon…

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Gratz all who took the time to write and submit… I'll be looking forward to reading them and casting my vote.

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Wall sex is handled on the white panels in the mid image… didn't think about bending RG over the table… hmmm I must be pressed for time not to have tried that.  Very romantic setting….

“Love….
exciting and new…..
come abopard… we're expecting you…”

*wanders off humming*

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