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[Bear]

Quite true, the collar is mentally the connection to whom you served..  itself a spiritual side of union…

The thing merely an open recognition, much like a ring to a loved one… though I have said many times the ability to personalize the collar with the Master/Mistress initials would be a major if offered… . again we see a building support for the idea.

[Bear]

And she is a redhead!

HB you really are the best, looks like me after an hour with Bear!

Quietly laughs… make you shudder to think of your condition if you actually stayed around longer?  I am just warming up in that hour you know….

back to collars… seriously it is a topic I have never understood why not developed here… think I started asking for them before the cowboy hat… and there is a great deal of interest paid attention here to their availability…

Perhaps if  the options for development  for the clothing deigns included jewelry we could see some  ideas gel over  there in that thread…

[Bear]

mmm robot girl fought me for the controls… Looks good… I hope to get a chance to play with it sometime with a partner.

Agree Kieko… slowing things down intensifies the experience at the right moment… curious if we get the full pause finally…

The advantage of this is that several of the older poses which were a bit ridiculous due to speed or just action in general can finally be appreciated with this option… (thinking kneeling lovers… which always drove me nuts with the constant grinding)

[Bear]

I support the idea of creating personalized chat threads. I know it can be done,.. is on another site, so the idea is viable. Rooming aspect will have to be static, any options will make the whole room reloadwhen one chooses… (think of the constant reloads with 10 folks)… which could be just visually annoying if someone is bouncing through the option.  It is a chat thread,… so the necessity of creating a “private space” may not be necessary… there raises another issue that private rooms would likely remove one from the global chat function. My opinion doesn't sway either way in this,… however segregation on large groups might create some negative imagery of the site to new users when everyone is busy.

The other side that might encourage peeps to join rooms out of necessity… in itself exposing them to more informal chats where friendships are actually made.

[Bear]

We have been waiting for several fixes regarding size variations on the breasts for quite awhile the small breasts definitely still have technical issues. (yours are perfect btw Kieko. ..)

Seriously I do not see this in the near future due to the technical issues of revamping the entire collection of poses  for a sizing change. Develop a better vocabulary in the meantime to enhance the play. Otherwise it's just pixeled grinding…

[Bear]

Jacquesza there is a deeper discussion on the punished girl thread in this section.  Ideas are greatly appreciated, and images of the desired poses certainly are fine for relating the desired types. One of the major issues though always being the limitations of action of the bound subject.honestly there isn't mush one can do other than reactive motions….(you are bound…anything else kind of defeats the purpose).  When you suggest a pose , take a moment to think deeper of how it can be used in the current format of the game.

Bondage done right is heavily descriptive play… it's hard to think that any could participate  and enjoy just on imagery alone.

[Bear]

well this kind of goes back to the concept of a general chat thread…personally created though. The idea doable…. however don't expect actions in the “rooms” with ten peeps that would just be an unbearable set of resets under the systems current design.

The problem one had in the general chat experience when it breathed it's short life, you saw all in the chat thread… there was no ignore feature there… who talked to you personally could be controlled.

There is good to this idea.. and likewise a danger of segregation into cliques…

[Bear]

Rukya there is a difference between power and control… please look at Janine's statement.

I have not said anything about where the power lay,… my comments went to the control matter,… that is the element that the submissive surrenders. In the VR community a submissive's power remains, she may either accept what is being done or exit.

Janine has said it all, quite clearly. Once a submissive yields control it is “all or nothing, otherwise we can't function”…

[Bear]

Well the lack of actions was central why I chose the spreader bar as an option for bondage… that form of restraint gave some leverage of options… however I can easily see your point in regards to the click and watch crowd…. and as I said… before… the idea has merit for the general play

I'd refer you ta a discussion posted under the “punished girl” thread in Woman and Men…the issue of the lack of options was taken into consideration.

[Bear]

TALKING achieves that, if you are playing click and watch I can understand that comment. Amateurs will probably lose interest, that style of play is NOT for everyone… but if offered shouldn't be distorted for that reason. Keep it pure or don't refer to it as D/s  pose. I personally would exit the room if my subject had an option and executed it…

Those that understand and appreciate the complexity of the play will understand an important point that a good DOM/DOMME is a teacher,….and will help their subjects leading them into the immersion of the encounter.

Conversation of a sub should be reactionary,… emotional… how it feels, how it affects them… that is the immersion into the role…. losing oneself to the interplay of anthers whim. Does the restraint excite or terrify… does a particular touch drive one to the edge or cringe… movements are subtle… in the VR world, a submissive who can unveil this in descriptive play is a goldmine to be treasured.

[Bear]

Well not all are as fortunate a you Medjai,… :

🙂

New players are faced with the awkward issue of working thru the natural defenses we all carry here. Any way to assist the transition should be considered. I almost quit the first month after a series of absolute disasters in play, so in the back of my mind I ponder, and can appreciate someone who try anything to find some connection around here.

*sighs… guess I am a bit more sensitive and emphatic to the frustrations a noob has then you folks

In this case I believe a FFM ws being sought. As long as I played there I SELDOM had the opportunity to join and very rarely was ever approached to join FFM play.
MFF play constantly… but FFM …no…

So in my opinion, offering clients of AChat a way to advertise their wants, and set up personal ads for AChat play is a a good meld. Keikos thoughts make sense… especially with the limited existing banner space to elaborate on personal matters.

I would not want this to see this as offsite advertisement,. but that is an issue easily monitored.
No one has to read it…seriously if you aren’t interested then the matter would be irrelevant.

[Bear]

Blu'  the sub has complete control what is acceptable to them…more importantly as to the person involved,  it's a matter that should be discussed ahead of time even in a VR encounter. (Some may not understand how a person can get caught up in such play, but there are people who who do wrap themselves deep into the thread of words. ) Uncomfortable actions CAN be suggested or made… never ever is one obliged to suffer thru it, since the exit a click away.

@Sexilicious
I touched on that point exactly though when I suggested the spreader bar pose…. there are limits of options for response…  however if done their options  should be reactionary. Otherwise it's not really a submissive pose. Control is and should be maintained by the dominate player. Believe it or not, even DOM's have acceptable limits as to where they will press.

That though is my bias in the matter.  If I DOM I do so with an awareness of my playmates limits…. a reason I do not do it with new folks. How the hell am I suppose to know their turn on points, or dark fears… stumbling onto to something unintentionally, pushing a subconscious button beyond the subs comfort level that will mess things up. I have heard stories here of that happening…

*sighs* …  I play though at this with a little more seriousness then what other s might… so keeping my mouth shut…

Quietly laughs, blu I think rethinking hardly means anything at this point,…

best of luck to all.

[Bear]

A submissive should not have such control…
just saying…

However for those who enjoy spankings and such the idea has merit.

[Bear]

gratz on the position Tight,.. but feel that the forum needs a good “personals” section for requests like this… not all are successful in finding matches…. and besides once word out,… maybe it will increase the patronage here… just a thought my friend.

[Bear]

Happy Valentines Day…  may it lead to be as romantic and pleasured filled as possible

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