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I am not saying not to,… but engage in anal play with some sense…

It can be erotic.. sensuous and fun if done right…

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well this is totally off topic,… and the matter was discussed at length in a like situation , buried in an unrelated thread. I will point out to you a fact blu'… the muscles which control the sphincter are not typical. Unlike vaginal muscles which can be strengthen, the sphincter when stretched is broken down in developing elasticity resulting in a lessening of control. It cannot be naturally rebuilt.

If stretched too far one could end up being an early candidate for “depends” in your wardrobe. The only way to correct is via a prosthetic surgery.

Seriously, as much as I want to point out the sensuous aspects of anal, I want to point out the potential negative before you run down that rode too far.

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HAVE A SAFE AND GREAT NEW YEAR FOLKS!

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Blu' it's a style of play that requires some absolute trust. First and foremost is the the absolute agreement of a safe word.  You need to know he will respect the limit… to immediately stop his actions and release you, if by chance panic takes hold and you discover the act is not what you want or his actions have gone to far. Janine has a great post on such matters in the erotic thread.

Prias is right that first materials should be sensually pleasing. …silk rope, ( a cotton lead rope)…  necktie… loosely bound as first so you can slip free if needed… keep something sharp nearby and handy to cut the binds with if needed.

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The “Love Chain” was suggested but not elaborated on…  give me time… I'll try to think of some options for the poses… for a more vivid description… it would make a nice add  though my first thought probably won't work for a MMM adaption.

I certainly would like Suzi to give some clarification on the DP issue. The last vote on a pose gave us the standing wall sex, however the poll was not shut down,…Was the poll kept open intentionally?  That would suggest the standing DP should have won.

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All for the long hair…
+1

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I forget about the others..  :

Prefer to show you what I think though hun' of that thought… 

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N5ewgurl I do like that idea… a featherduster… mmm ,… mind if I borrow that when I get around to showing blu' the potential options of existing choices?

Zinah , I do like your suggestion of hands cuffed behind the back… it does add some flexibility to the situation, obviously grasping/stroking  the partners cock could be an option…

Forgot a couple possible adds:
kiss the hurt
hair pulling….

but really, baby… someday's you are there only to serve my greed…  I really don't need you to be able to move much, or have much of an option in the matter. 

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It's the override which is irritating,.. when performing anal and having the av' switch to something else destroys the effect… in that regard a list of possible release actions would be nice.

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Would I would like to see as modifications is a possible cum options…
a possibly choice  to either click on cum inside or cum outside with different finishing options where applicable.

for those options cumming insdie… a quickening of fucking pace,.. the women arching under the male… part of that would require a default priority to the males choice… (makes little sense to arch and fuck faster if the prick is outside …)… the ability to cum anally would be a very hot add.

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@ Zinah…  mmhmm… 

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I do have a thread on existing pose improvements in the MF thread,… sharing ideas on what modifications you might like to see completed as always is strongly encouraged.

Personally on the mf side I would like to see more work done on hammering out some of the deficiencies on the existing options rather than new pose development.  That isn't exactly a profit turner through.

Perhaps if as they adapt a conversion to other orientations they can make some of the requests included in the converted poses and update the  MF  options along the way… ( a win-win in my opinion taking this approach).  Since the topic is for pose ideas… I reintroduce my Spreader pose idea…

I reflect on a comment made to me by a partner while engaged in some heavy bdsm play some time ago. Being new to AChat she wondered why more bdsm poses weren't provided. Obviously it is because such bondage play like ours isn't for everyone. My thoughts though did drift to more vanilla forms of play, kinky aspects that even the mainstream might enjoy. The obvious choice to me was the use of a spreader bar.

The hard part in this consideration was trying to figure some options for the woman. Restraint severely reduces her options, making her options more reactionary, then I flashed on the obvious solution to give her some variety in play, make it a static position to begin with. The giver standing behind the receiver, no action just motionless. For “poser” action is but a click away, for the descriptive crowd (and if you are bdsm oriented here, descriptive is mandatory) we are given that chance to weave our words without the troublesome distraction of already “fucking away”.

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I user a generic form for this, a “giver” could be M/S/F (with strapon). Be interested if the females could see this useful without the strap-on…
spreader…my thoughts here really have not extended to a shemale/male bond such… I will leave that for comments of others to share:

Bdsm is not solely focused on rough physical play… for the majority it is about mixing the extremes of the sensations of pleasure and pain. Likewise the use of spanking as presented here, to allow the sensual play…

Standing intro.

GIVER:
1) spank (a single smack…NOT repeating… keep it to a single strike..this is not about continued striking.. ideally right hand, left hand options to corresponding butt cheek)
2) repeated spank… let it be an option not the default
3) Massage receivers ass
3) kneeling oral play…
4) finger vagina
5) finger ass
6)vaginal sex
7) anal sex
8. quick thrust
9) Hard thrust
10) Anal poke… a jabbing action
11)  (your thoughts here?… *grins*)

HER:
1)Ass rub.. to shift back and rub against the givers penis
2)wiggle bottom looking back teasing…
3)shake head no
4) partial entry press a slow shift back to take the givers penis cock partially.. then pulling off… it is a single action an anal option would also be interesting.. in this matter, the giver would be holding the penis 
5)rocking fuck
6)rolling hip fuck
7) enjoy (arching back)
8. enjoy (open mouth head shake)
9) not enjoy (eyes clench in grimace)
10)  hands clenching spreader.

The obvious as the image above is set… the position is easily adaptable to a 3some play…with another giver standing  at her head for oral pleasure.

The pose in general for a threesome would without restraints could be modified for 3some play, providing an option for those not into such intense action..

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Just glancing at the options… I can see a bit of an issue to a noob trying to purchase an specific nonsexual option… the lap dance is a fairly good example of possible confusion.

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Lol.. Janine I thought you were going to let me sit back sometime and show me your handling skills of your cute pet…
I thought you like to perform for an audience?

Yes Newgurl… what about Bear? : 🙂

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@ blu … an image I had firmly entrenched in my brain  :

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