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  • in reply to: Unexplained friend / lover cancels and ignores #42026
    Bear
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    His loss,…sunny seems to be a outgoing friendly type,… that he equates friends to rooming,  ha;f of my friends list are just that.

    in reply to: Backgrounds & Create own BACKROUNDS #45447
    Bear
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    Lol,…read that wrong,… thought you were claiming to be like an aged bottle of wine :-[
    sorry…

    in reply to: Backgrounds & Create own BACKROUNDS #45445
    Bear
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    Aged? hmmm speak of that again in another 20 years kiddo. ;)

    in reply to: Unexplained friend / lover cancels and ignores #42024
    Bear
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    Friends are friends,.. whether u play around or not,.. guess he took that interpretation as active partners then.

    Bear
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    Oh believe me I'd rather not wear it, but when in the brush, better to suffer a bit of clothing discomfort than having jeans and flesh torn by sharp branches. Leather wear is not a fashion statement, but protective in function. 

    Here it is a dry heat,..100 plus weather is a good deal more comfortable than the humid heat in the 80's IMHO…

    Hell, the shirt comes off when it gets above 60F

    in reply to: Outside sex please. #47462
    Bear
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    A blanket spread out in a tree line along the side of a lake , or whaet field , before it gets to grow ! Still want barn ,with hay , ranch ,

    ;D

    in reply to: Room Ideas. #14346
    Bear
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    will be interesting to see if they expand on this…

    in reply to: Clothing Ideas and clothing pic wish list #11387
    Bear
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    Well speaking of such cultural viewpoints of such radicalism is taking an easy wide swing from the initial topic… The submissive male.

    It takes generations to root out those viewpoints, I think it rather naive to believe the grants of rights, or acceptance of any deviation of perceived “norm” (seeing Janine cringe with the use of the word…maybe I should use “prevalent practice”…hope you understand my intent )  is going to manifest overnight.  To say the male dominance is the natural order is rather silly. Most collective groupings of species  in the wild are governed by what is best described as a “mother” queen. The Male's function is primarily protective and breeding associated, (i.e. lions,  horses,..etc). not to say there aren't species that have an alpha leader, but rather that the female leader is prevalent.

    There are human societies of practice with the “mother goddess” , so to say all humans follow a particular pattern is wrong. Likewise some cultures hold to the other extreme,  Deviate you meet with not only disapproval but sometimes punishment.

    Can't speak for the Europeans, but in American society, that attitude still exists. People hide it better but too often in the course of business it arose. I had a woman boss for many years, smart woman because she recognized that issue. Rather than waste time butting heads when she ran into a difficult male who wouldn't accept the right decision, she'd just kick the client to me. I'd recite the same stance,.. they would back down. All you can do is shrug it off and move on.

    in reply to: Pose Idea. Pantyhose Fetish Sex. Wear Pantyhose during Sex. #48621
    Bear
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    Janine stated it all, a simple fashion statement,… but could be translated easily, we see it happening in the new sexual clothing.

    Bear
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    Well better then working in the heat of the day…sometimes you don't have the option.

    in reply to: Clothing Ideas and clothing pic wish list #11379
    Bear
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    Well just because a male is submissive doesn't mean you treat them with disrespect, but the hierarchy of the relationship in that role subjects them to a viewpoint of inferiority. One looks at a dominant as the decision maker, something the submissive personality isn't often willing to exercise. I will point out I have met women who run their own lives with absolute authority and carry different personality then when their partner steps forward,..and you suddenly recognize that deference.

    in reply to: People are disappearing from my lists. #48513
    Bear
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    *sighs* …true,…

    Losing Ante's original messages purely bummed me out. :'(

    Bear
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    Looks kool,..I give u that,…lol, suffering from the practicality.. so not interested in wearing black leather while working out in 110F weather. Bad enough riding a black horse.

    in reply to: Clothing Ideas and clothing pic wish list #11375
    Bear
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    Not all are cut to that mold,… some women better are appreciated in their natural wild state.  ;)

    Bear
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    Yeah,..I want the chaps to look Western,..need a light brown,..those black ones were too much like biker wear. The only piece of riding gear I own which is black is a hat I had from many years ago,..chaps, duster,…boots,…all brown…

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