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Hey,
put a few freckles on her and it could be me!!!!
'cept I bet her ass isn't as big as mine!

Red ribbon for a redhead! Yes Please!

And a Ping Pong Paddle,   

I just can't trust you to keep secrets can I? I think you should read my post in Erotic fantasies/Janines dungeon!

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Wow,
This certainly opened my eyes. I'm not sure I can converse on the same level as you guys, but I'll try…..

At first I was very confused as I seemed to be so shallow, to misquote someone, I thought I only wanted “someone who knows how to swing a flogger”. I am neither a psychologist nor a psychiatrist to delve into my psyche as to why I need (needed) someone to “punish” me. I lost my mum 10 years ago and my Dad has brought me up and done a superb job, but when he punished me (physically and not very often and only from age 13) I never hated him for doing it but always derived some sort of security from it and afterwards actually found it gave me feelings I couldn't understand, which I later transkated into sexual desire. These became stronger but very difficult to explore with guys my age who are usually only interested in either a bj or “wham-bam-thankyou-maam” hence my long abstinence……
I used to fantasise (used to? who am I kidding?) about getting punished by all sorts of men and experimented with self-flagellation which only made me more unfulfilled.
I have learn't much in the very short time since joining this site and I'm sure that is what gave me the confidence to connect with my (I was going to call him current but that unfairly belittles him) bf.
Yes I was ecstatic that I had found someone who not only found me attractive and good company, but was keen to explore my kinky side. I have had some very erotic spankings and a coouple of “fun” ones, but recently he did punish me quite severely, going through making me cry, and the euphoria I felt afterwards was incomparable Whilst I did kick and cry out, why did I not just call a halt or move away? it was quite painful and left me with “lasting marks”
As has been said earlier and often, in reality it is the sub who (apart from the occasions where they unwittingly  fall into a trap as chillingly related to  us by Janine below) sets the limits and can only do it if there is tacit and implicit trust in the dom/domme  as so eloquently in Quinn's creed.
I now trust my bf to the extent that we have decided in the near future he will bind ma and gag me for the punishment he wonlt tell me about in advance. Whilst he may tell me how naughty I am and how much I deserve to be punished (and all the other cliches too!) he doesn't go in for verbal humiliation and (at least I don't think so at the moment) I would derive no satisfaction from doing chores for him, is that someting that one grows into? relationship-wise or age-wise?
I am still a terrible flirt and if I were to bump into her in rl would wiggle my ass at Janine just to provoke her into using her riding crop on me….. I can't explain that side, I just find it exciting…… What a slut at 19!
Thank-you for the guidance you have given me I will be watching this topic very closely in future.

[bluedenim]

Hey,
put a few freckles on her and it could be me!!!!
'cept I bet her ass isn't as big as mine!

Red ribbon for a redhead! Yes Please!

[bluedenim]

No I was just suggesting me, but I'm sure my wife would like to join in. xx

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Adera,

Do I need to answer that question? If you were spanking me I wouldn't be slowing down!  :-* :-*

[bluedenim]

never been tied up??? God damn' your former lovers… Just a pity to see that some people don't have any imagination or any DIY ability :p.

Prias, thankyou, I am 19! former lovers? it was lack of bf that brought me here. Now I've got one and he knows about my “kink” He was looking to restrict my movement in order to explore my limits further. I'm not sure what he had in mind, I was thinking in terms of four-point attachment to the bed and perhaps a gag. Trust is paramount here as I will go along with anything he suggests.
I loved the illustration by Bear of the “spreader bar” but that will have to be for sometime in the future, my bf knows nothing about this site and I want to keep it that way.

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I can take two in my ass but as you know with it takes time to get used to it. But it feels wonderful not to mention the thoughts in your mind sending you over the edge…. -blinks and shakes head- oh sorry got distracted in thought there. lol

Wow! kitten, I am impressed and I shall know who to seek guidance from on anal!

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@ HentaiBoy.

You are so sweet, That would be perfect for us.  :-* :-*

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QUOTE:” Oh, how I wish I had this pose as well. 🙂
I like the 3some idea you had about a double ended dildo pose like this Janine, the one where the third girl would hold the dildo for the others. She could also move the dildo for the others in some ways, spank them a little and maybe tease them some while she talks to them in a way they like. 😛 ”

Mmmmmmm…….
you spanking me and NG while we use this? we like it a lot too. I’m sure NG would spank you while you did it with me, she loves it.
:-*

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the curly one could be nice especially for our red head friends.
Thanks Prias!

Please, the dev team, add a few loose locks to make them a bit more realistic

I think the problem is making the hair move/flow, I've never noticed it moving at all so far, wouldn't it be good to have my long pony-tail/braid whipping about when I shake my head?
and everyone else's of course, lol, such a selfish sub at times!

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I'm not masochist pal! 

Glad to hear it Prias, don't need too much competition!  :-*

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Oh I can vouch for your love of devices on your slaves NG!

So glad I'm your wife and not your slave sometimes, even if you find it hard to distinguish!

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HB

You can get round me anytime, you know I'm just a whore at heart and anyone who buys me presents like you do knows the way to a girl's heart, well maybe not her heart, but certainly other body parts lol!

:-* :-* :-*

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Adera,

not true, I do prefer to give rather than receive, well certainly nice things like a warm oil massage and I'd be very happy to oblige as a New Year present.

:-* :-*

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@ NG & HB

Thank you for your thoughtful consideration of what I need, I especially noted the padlocks NG! 

I think I already stated in other posts that I am an anal virgin, so I think I should buy one for my wife, don't you  Baby?

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