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Bought the black dress….looooooove it!!  I have a special date tonight this is perfect for. 

[christinak]

Agree with Rukya, the first gown is nice.  The lingerie is also very pretty.  But what about the guys?  The best wedding attire you could come up with is men's underwear? 

[christinak]

I totally agree, this list really does need to be expanded.  I have people in my friends list who don't really fit the term, but then I'm not sure I would call them my lover either.  The only one I can really do without (and this is just my personal feeling) is the Spouse category.  I don't want a spouse in this game.  I really think that puts a name to a relationship that just isn't there.  But yes, I would like to see the additional categories.

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If both parties want to get a tattoo to display a bond, that's one thing.  I was referring to pushing someone into doing it who does not want a tattoo.  Or any kind of body modification for that matter.  Being a Dominant does not give you license to be a bully.

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I think the entire idea of requiring a sub to make a permanent alteration to their body as some kind of “show of faith” to their Master is appalling.  I have no problems taking a magic marker and writing things on them, but to tattoo someone, that's pretty much forever.  Even the removal process leaves scars.  And going further to even suggest female castration, OMFG!  Any Dominant who would ask that of their sub isn't playing BDSM games anymore.  At that point it has become manipulative abuse.  The entire idea of it makes me physically ill. 

My advise to any sub in that kind of situation would be to get as far away from that person as possible.   

in reply to: MF Pose Review – 41. Deep Impact #43982

[christinak]

Oooo anal, hooray. : 🙂

I wonder if there will ever be a pose where the guy can’t just shove something in my ass at any time. LOL

[christinak]

I never really liked this pose so I didn't really pay much attention to what you could do with it.  So what was updated?

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How are you creating these images?  Do you have a program that does it?

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@Azrielle
Yeah, I wrote an email to the only address on the website and did just that.  Never got a response.  So I went to the police.  Where I got to go through the added humiliation of telling a male police officer the whole story, made a report, and told them what video it was.  I'm sure they all got a really good thrill watching me too.  About a two weeks later I got a phone call from them, telling me there was nothing they could do because the website was on a computer in another country.  All in all, it's an experience I don't recommend.

[christinak]

Freckles?  I'd kill to have my burned off my body.  I hate my freckles.  They forever make my makeup look stupid.  I would however, love to see hair in a color of red that actually occurs in nature.

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Oh, don't think for a minute that I blame myself for what that jerk did.  Not at all.  I just can't sit back and pretend to be surprised that his wife is that angry.  I would be too, and I doubt I'd be willing to listen to the woman my husband was having his online affair with.  The only thing I am willing to share part of the blame on is doing what I did on camera.  I was stupid enough to do it over the internet, so I can only cry foul up to a point.  After that I have to admit to myself, that you can't say no after the fact.

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I have been using Bear's Personal Advertisements topic to redirect alot of the people who come to me looking for a Mistress.  In most cases they are just looking for a quick spanking, a little strapon action, then they want to fuck me and leave.  On occasion it can be fun to give someone a cheap thrill like this, but most of the time it's pretty boring.  So instead of spending lots of time explaining why I am not really into that kind of play, I posted it in the Personal Advertisements section.  Not only did it work right away, but I also noticed that the people who I directed there also started reading the forum and making posts of their own.  So my desire to do less work myself seems to have served a dual purpose.  Might be worth having others try it. 

[christinak]

OMG too cute Pafe!! 

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@blue
Well if they ever become available I may buy a pair for you as a reward. 

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@Kitten
Well, Like I said, not for everyone.  But as far as the pose is concerned, this is not real life.  You are as free to move out of this pose as you would be any other.  You are no more restrained in this pose than you are in the missionary pose.  All you have to do is select another one, or leave the room.  You do still have that choice. And in real life, when people play responsibly, you would always have a choice.  Lots of people are under the misunderstanding that a sub has given up their freedome of choice to be in that position, when in fact they have it backwards.  The dominant has accepted responsibility to give the sub something that they cannot achieve on their own and to be in charge of the scene and the sub.  If at any time the Dominant no longer satisfies the sub or if the sub becomes uncomfortable with how they are being treated, then the sub can bring the whole thing to a halt.  So not quite as restrictive as you might think. 

This is not criticism of your dislike of the swing.  I believe in the saying that “your kink is your kink”.  No one should tell you what type of sex is best for you.  I just wanted you to know that bondage among responsibile isn't quite what it has been made out to be. 

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