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[christinak]

I wouldn't have the sub bound in any of these, regardless of their gender.  The whole point is for the sub to be unrestrained so they can learn the commands IMO.  The most I would ever do in this situation is tie the subs hands/arms behind them to make it a little more frustrating. 

In game for FF you really are limited, as far as D/s goes.  You get to choose from spanking, handcuffed, and punished girl.

[christinak]

OMG where should I start?

Random Person: Hi
Me: Hi there
Random Person: Nice outfit wanna fuck? (sends invite)

To be in the middle of a conversation and then have the person I’m talking to suddenly go busy because they went to a room with someone.  I don’t have a problem with them getting a room.  We’re all here to have fun, but I find it kind of rude to just run off like that without even saying “Be back later, Gotta go, ttyl, I’m getting laid, fuck you” anything would be better than not saying anything IMO.

I know it’s a big world and there are lots of people in it.  And a lot of them don’t speak English very well, but I only speak English, and I have it on my profile that I prefer English speakers.  If you can’t speak English without using the google translator, please don’t try to chat with me.  Its really frustrating to try and understand you.

If I don’t answer you, I’m not ignoring you and I don’t dislike you.  Its more than likely one of two things.  I either had to take a phone call or use the bathroom, or I just have too many conversations going on and I can’t process anymore at the moment.  Please don’t send me messages asking what’s wrong with me.

These are at the top of my list.

[christinak]

Doesn't have to be wine and dine.  But I do prefer to work up to it and let the moment linger for a while, rather than having someone just rushing straight for the finish line. 

[christinak]

I must say, it depends on the moment.  Sometimes I just like to watch it come out on my tummy or my boobs.  But most of the time I prefer it in my vagina.  Let's face it, that's where it belongs for one thing.  And even though I can't realy feel his cum as he ejaculates other than to feel his penis twitching and suddenly things get alot more slippery, and other than having it ooze out after sex, I can sense that I have his sperm in me and it really feels good.  It's hard to explain other than that.  Now, the smell that comes later?  That I can do without. 

[christinak]

Have to agree with Rukya. I still love the pose, but anything other than the slowest speed looks ridiculous.

[christinak]

There are actually some great poses that you can teach subs IRL that will fit this situation and would make good moves for the sub in the collaring ceremony. It would also make the collaring ceremony multipurpose as an obedience trainer as well.

;D I really intended the accessories to be part of the clothing, not really a pose but here are the options as I see them.

All these are open moves, meaning that the sub is not bound at any time. Each pose/move is usually accompanied by a command given by the Dominant
1) Inspection: Standing upright with their hands behind their head feet spread should width apart. Head up, and chest out. No slouching.

2) Kneel: Kneeling with their arms behind their back, palms on their elbows. Thier butt is on their ankles and their knees spread wide apart so their genitals are exposed

3) Down face up/down: The sub lays on the floor either face up(on their back) or face down (on their stomach) with their arms at their sides and their legs spread

4) Beg: The sub kneels with their butt on their ankles, knees spread apart, then leans forward so their face is on or near the floor and their hands are extended out in front of them one hand on top top of the other (A sub is usually commanded to assume this position before making a request of their Dom/Domme)

5) Crawl: The sub will get on all fours and will follow the Dominant in this position (sometimes on a leash)

6)Bend over: The sub will go from the inspection position to bent over with their hands on their ankles

7)Come/Follow: The sub will crawl/walk to where the Dominant has instructed

8)At my feet: The sub will kneel down at the feet of the Dominant and sit at their feet as close as possible until instructed to do otherwise

9) Collar: male subs and female subs with short hair will go from the kneel position to placing their hands above their head one hand on top of the other, with the head slightly bent forward to give easy access to the back of the neck so the collar can be buckled/locked. female subs and male subs with long hair will do mostly the same except they will hold their hair up over their head.

[christinak]

This seems to be the best place to put this.  I am not advertising my services as a Domme for hire.  However, I get a lot of requests in game for that very reason.  I do take on slaves for personal enlightenment and to enjoy their own fantasies though.  Most are from people who want a quick, cheap, thrill and do not understand what it is I do.  So I will explain what being a Domme means to me and you can decide for yourself if what I am is what you are really interested in, or if you need to look elsewhere.

First, BDSM is a lifestyle choice for me.  It is something I have wrestled with all my life and the decision to live my life this way instead of in a “vanilla” way was not an easy one, but I am more content and fulfilled now than I have ever been.  I take what I do very seriously and this is not just something I do for a cheap thrill.  So if you are just confused about what BDSM is, I can suggest some very good non-fiction reading material on the subject that may help you better understand.

Second, the media and porn specifically has given most people a skewed view of what BDSM is really about.  For me, this is a window to your soul.  Your deepest desires, fears, and most animalistic instincts can be brought to the surface for you to experience and be smothered in.  This kind of “play” exposes you for who you are.  To yourself, your Dom/Domme, and whoever else may be witnessing your scene.  This is very invasive mentally, and is not for everyone.

Third, I am always willing to discuss my experiences and my lifestyle with people, and sometimes I am even willing to train people as subs/slaves.  However, I play AChat to play in a virtual environment.  I do not give out personal information.  I have in the past and it just gets too weird.  So the only way we will have to interact is in a virtual environment or through chat.  It will not be as intense as doing this in person, but I believe that if you are honest with me and with yourself you can achieve close to the same results.  I really enjoy being a Domme because I get a lot of sexual gratification from breaking down a submissive, and helping them live out their deepest fantasies and desires.

Finally, if you are looking for a Mistress, I will not be yours just because you ask.  Accepting you as my slave/sub is a commitment, in time, effort, and emotional support I do not give out lightly.  If I decide that we make a good match for BDSM play together, I may offer to train you though.  Eventually I may even offer to enslave you.  But that final decision is mine and mine alone.  I demand commitment, honesty, and obedience at all times from those I train.  Anything less is unacceptable.  If I find that you are lying to me I will dismiss you from my service immediately, and I will not take you back.  No exceptions.  Disobedience will be met with punishment, and I promise you, it will be something you will NOT enjoy.  If you continue to be disobedient or attempt to “top from the bottom” I will dismiss you.

Now, if you still think you want me to train you or if you have any questions about BDSM that you think I can help you with, please do not hesitate to send me a message and I’ll be happy to talk to you about it.  If you wish to be trained, then you must apply for training.  I want you to tell me why you are looking to be trained.  What you expect to get from training.  What kind of sub you are (i.e. pain slut, sissy boy, dirty girl, humiliation slut, etc.).  I would also like to know what BDSM means to you.  I ask you to be very honest in your answers.  If you are not, it will only end in frustration for both you and me.  No answer is a bad one.  One of the greatest lessons I ever learned is that “your kink is your kink”.  If you are a man who likes being dressed like a little girl or if you just want to be tied to the bed and threatened, your kink is yours and no one should tell you different.  Also, if you want training, please do not address me as “Mistress”, that presupposes a relationship that does not exist yet.  If you just want to chat, my name is Christy.  If you wish to be trained you may address me as Miss Christy or ma’am. 

–Christy

[christinak]

Yep that's really amazing.  Very nice art indeed.

[christinak]

I've also found that the mask from the skelleton costume for men makes a nice mock gimp-hood. 

[christinak]

I don’t like the obedience pose for this.  It depicts the submissive in handcuffs and is full of options for humiliating and punishing the sub.  This really sends the wrong message and does not accurately reflect what a collaring ceremony is really about IMO. 

A collaring ceremony is an opportunity for a Dominant to reward a submissive by formally enslaving/collaring the sub.  As well as a chance for the Dominant to display their sub and show how all their hard work in training them has paid off.  It is also a chance for the sub to make a formal choice to accept being enslaved.  It is very much like a marriage ceremony.  So much so that many of the collarings I have been to, have been so well planned that there are witnesses, a guest list, a formal ceremony, and a reception afterward. 

So really, the obedience pose is inadequate, if one wants to use a pose instead of just chat for this.  Also, I feel like this pose should be a threesome pose so that there can be a witness to such a joyous event for the Dominant and the sub.

[christinak]

Example of a pose utilizing an arm binding harness:<br><br>

Doesn’t she look lovely?

[christinak]

Ballerina Shoes

Good night everyone!

[christinak]

What about a pose to go with the collar?  Collaring ceremonies can be very seductive and exciting as well.

[christinak]

These pampered poses are the best additions to the game I have seen yet.  Totaly worth it IMO.  The make a great transition to more intimate contact and allow one to explore their lover rather than rushing straight for the sex.

[christinak]

OMG love love love it!!! 

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