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[Janine Dee]

Absolutely Sinnnn…. when you look at how many are on AChat, and how many are on here I want to welcome all voices.

That said when people get aggro on the development team I like to council gentler tones, because in my experience they get more results.

Especially on the FF/FFF because you may be right, I guess I am sort of taking a leadership position in the area… which sucks because leadership sucks, and not the fun kind of sucking where you get your hair pet while you're doing it.

[Janine Dee]

I don't know Lover… my hot tub would be filled with women and the cries of “Hey watch where you point that thing!” might get a little old. 

[Janine Dee]

#1. I THINK that is THE most common request for lesbians and bisexual women here.

#2. Then we should start elaborating for them sweetie. The development team is two guys and I can't blame them for thinking like guys. So I've been trying to give them ideas.

-One was back when 69 was the only oral and i was hoping for a position where one could simply give or receive orally. They now have the lesbian riding the face… so there IS an example of how they do listen and can improve. Though I am also hoping for laying and sitting oral positions.

-I'm also hoping they implement tribadism.

-For FFF I want the Daisy Chain… but I think all threesome position requests have some sort of adding a third person to them.

Of course for me I also want SM options, so I don't want to overload them with requests, but post some of your favorites, give them ideas. Ive been here not quite three months and I've seen five positions added… I can't find it in my heart to complain.

#3. I actually like the Kinsey Scale which has more then the three entries. I've heard it goes one to seven and zero to seven, but the idea is that at one end is completely heterosexual and on the other is completely homosexual.

Now in the environment of AChat ladies who may have been the say 1-2 range and only had fantasies use the safe environment to explore those fantasies… I know I've roomed with some.

I've also roomed with women who genuinely seem to straddle that line that most think of when they think of “bi”. If I were to put them on the scale they would fall into the 3-4.

Just like I just recently roomed with a woman who prefers women but occasionally is with men. I'd put her 5-6, because she herself would call herself primarily lesbian, BUT with only there categories she had to call bi more accurate.

I then would be a 7. I'd actually like to strive for 8, but that's more a matter of striving to be my best. 

So “bi” can have a fairly wide definition that could probably be broken up into sub-categories ranging from “bi curious” to “primarily lesbian”.

[Janine Dee]

Ummm… it's a guy with a lame pick up line. Toss em in the pile with all the other douche bags.

[Janine Dee]

I've said it before, and I'll say it again, you get more flies with honey then with vinegar, and the Development Team responds better to requests then demands.

[Janine Dee]

Bobbler… while Aleister Crowley died a drug addled lunatic he was a genius at one point during his life, and one of my favorite quotes comes from him. (Or Osiris if you choose to believe that is where Crowley got the Book of the Law.) The quote is “As ye harm none, do as thou wilt shall be the whole of the law.”

I like to live by that, feeling that as long as you are only hurting yourself your choices are your choices. Now the “harm” here is fairly minor, but enough that I felt I had the right to bitch about it.

[Janine Dee]

Agreed, it just finally got to me.

[Janine Dee]

That's a fine point Elijah. If he buys the position Robot Girl will happily have his ass.

[Janine Dee]

Yep… the question is will there be variation for how hard they are spanked? Or if a paddle is used over say a hand?

[Janine Dee]

So you're suggesting I could say set up all women hot tub party on AChat?

I support your views and would like to subscribe to your newsletter.

That said I think I've found a whole new happy place.

[Janine Dee]

Had a thought when responding to a spanking post… do people like candle wax? Now with the males having sperm that doesn't vanish right away they have the code (sort of) so I thought I would throw wax play out there.

[Janine Dee]

There's already been a few threads on SM positions… but the ass getting red as it's spanked IS a new idea.

The trick is that I personally have no idea how they would program that. I mean in a real spanking there is some variation in how hard one spanks, not to mention the use of implements. So either the redness would be universal which people would complain is unrealistic, or they would have to figure out a way to program in all the variations.

So the spanking is a hopefully soon sort of thing, but I have no idea on the reddening of the ass.

[Janine Dee]

@Carli

Actually, another reason to decline Cold Invites is that those who don't have the imagination to talk to you before entering the room aren't likely to develop much of one once inside.

Many times that chatting will give you a good idea of how it will be in room, and I don't mean flirting (though that certainly is possible).The ones I remember, the ones I look for when I log on are the ones I connected with, most often before ever entering the room.

A personal favorite (I won't name in case she doesn't want to be) caught my eye, but had a pizza she needed to go pick up. So we had a little bit of chat, but then didn't talk for like two weeks, BUT when I saw her again I HAD to talk to her. Ever since then we pounce on each other every time we are both on and *purrrrrrrrrrrs* well she caught me with her personality while I was still fully dressed.

Another I had just thought looked adorable each time I saw her on list, each time she never failed to catch my eye… then one night I finally said hello, and she was yet another lovely to reach right through that computer and touch me.

There is no formula, just trust your instincts.

@Elijah
The key to rp is just filling in detail. The more elaborate, more fantastic stuff will come with practice. Start small, I mean getting the avatars naked is done in a blink… in RP did you let her undress herself? Or do it for her?  Start with things like that and stuff like settings or costumes will develop naturally.

[Janine Dee]

Welcome to AChat Elijah.

If you're really wanting to acclimate yourself on page 4 of the FAQ (link at the lower part of the forums) is the User Made FAQ a little project that was written by users, for users so new users could learn the basics in a quick and easy format.

[Janine Dee]

Sinnnn has shamed me (and with any luck will have to discipline me)… welcome to AChat, and it's forums Carli.

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